We're going to get / borrow both a Moses basket and a side-crib. Last time we only had the Moses basket but DD had lots of digestive issues (undiagnosed lactose intolerance) and thrashed around so much in the night that I was always scared she'd topple it over. But it is useful as DP will be able to take new baby downstairs when (if) I get a lie-in. I quite like the idea of a crib. I've been looking at double buggies and Oh My God the price! I want one with a carrycot for DC2, but with both DC2 and DD1 facing me still. And not tandem. So not fussy at all...
RE eating disorders, I suffered from anorexia and bullimia for about 15 years and I was scared about how I'd cope with weight gain last time. Even though I consider myself over it now, I still have blips. I surprised myself by being fine with the changes to my body; partially because my weight gain fell within the expected levels so I could reason it with myself, and partially because I wasn't drinking and that's always made me a lot worse. For anyone who is suffering, I'd recommend reading / posting in the mental health section of MN. There are a lot of women in the same position.