February 2016 babies - let the chundering commence

[jellypi3]

Stats sheet here :) docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1dWmvdD9SkvPQqKn7rpFHazgufmda2FOTMtL093cZFj8/htmlview

Chintaria I am getting the full list of what my current drug regimen is, and I will be back....

ok I was probably wrong- HCG test costs around £100 as well.. not cheaper at all.

well, luckily my GP understood my worries this time. FX and nervous waiting time till Tuesday.

Morecake
I'm so sorry

You have not let anyone down I promise. I do not feel silly for joining an AN thread and having to leave.

And please do take real comfort that as someone else said people go on to have successful pregnancies after miscarriages. Hey, look at me, I'm here waving my pom poms for a 4th attempt after 3 in a row. It does happen.

You should know that every single pregnancy is genetically and completely different. New lining, new egg, new sperm. New start. There is absolutely no reason why your next pregnancy shouldn't be a take home one.

Look after yourself xx

rose I feel the same - I'm week 6 & zero symptomd apart from tiredness - worried I've dreamt the whole thing. Couldn't residy buying a clearblue digital to see if weeks had gone up from 2-3 to 3+ tomorrow morning. Probably very stupid of me but if it hasn't gone up or has gone down I'll ask the midwife on Sunday at my app (nervous)

rattycatty, rose, newbieblue, I haven't had any real symptoms either except being tired. That's why I keep peeing on the sticks to keep checking.

Stats here for anyone who wants to add themselves :)

If you put in your due date it will calculate your no. of weeks, if there's no due date it comes up as 6063 5/7

Sorry for ladies having tough times of it recently. Try to stay positive.

Oops stats link: docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1dWmvdD9SkvPQqKn7rpFHazgufmda2FOTMtL093cZFj8/edit#gid=0

Thanks JNF8 I'm glad there's a few of us. Symptomd would be reassuring that its progressing!

Ok girls , that's the sign that everything is ok right? If many of us go through the same, it can't be something wrong.

stick on Beans!!!!

jellypi the stats show 6 6/7 while all other calendars show I'm 7 already. any reason? not that it bugs me.

JNF8 you keep peeing and the stick shows still BFP? so means lack of symptoms doesn't mean anything right? :)

I had the scan, I don't really know what to think! On the plus side, there is a strong heart beat. But the sonographer was quite abrupt and didn't really answer any of my questions except to tell me that 1 in 5 pregnancies ends in miscarriage when I asked about the risks having seen the heartbeat. I didn't get a picture (altho DP snuck one on on his phone!) and they said I was somewhere between 6 and 8 weeks but they couldn't be more specific, they just said to go for another scan at a different hospital when I'm 12 weeks (how am I going to know when that is?!)
I was quite upset earlier as I don't really think I know anything more than I did before I went (except they thought my lack of symptoms was weird) but having thought about it...there is a heartbeat.

Morecake...thinking of you

YAY elephantfeet congrats on heartbeat :)

don't worry about anything else. there is a heartbeat. Do you know your last period date? you can roughly calculate weeks then, right? your GP/MW or hospital will tell you when to go for next scan (12 weeks one).

I'm so happy for you!

Thanks newbie

That's great there was a strong heartbeat elephantfeet

Morecake...sending you love I'm so sorry.

Elephant was that a private scan or EPU?! That is fucking shocking.

I have just had my first vom Thought you'd all like to know that. Reassuring as I had no symptoms with my mc. I never thought I'd be grateful for sick.

DH is being a cock tonight so I've sent him out to get sausage and chips healthy

(But elephant it's amazing you saw a strong heartbeat)

It was just the ultrasound department at the local (tiny) hospital. They only have an ultrasound day once a week. I need a dose of patience!!

newbieblue. I did my first test 2 weeks ago and it said 1-2 weeks, a week later a new test said 2-3 weeks, and this mornings said 3+. So I'm still pregnant, but no symptoms yet. But still early stages. I didn't really have many symptoms with my first pregnancy either.

That's great news about the heartbeat elephant but the sonographer's beside manner leaves a lot to be desired. And the one in five stat's for all pregnancies including very early losses. Once you've got to 6-8 weeks it's way lower than that.

elephant, this website might be helpful > Daily stats for MC Once you're in week 6, percentages of loss are in the single digits, not 20%; and once you've see a heartbeat it's even lower. Fool sonographer!

Thank you all for your reassurance I am now going to hand myself a grip as I realise I am lucky to have had a scan and a heartbeat this early!

Thanks for that link monkerina
And congrats on heartbeat. elephantfeet

I'm so sorry morecake. I had a mc at 5 weeks in March so I have some idea of how you must be feeling right now. Take time to grieve for you loss and, when you feel ready, look forward to the future again - you will get your baby.