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September 2015 Ante-Natal thread.

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DastardlyDachshund · 25/12/2014 07:50

Hello ladies. I got my BFP (bloody faint positive in my case) on Monday and am due on 3rd September. I couldn't see any other threads for next September so thought I would go ahead and create a little home for us over the coming months. Merry Christmas to all of you finding out about your extra Christmas Present over the next few days Grin .

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Dailylurker · 05/01/2015 18:58

I just called them as I had my sterilisation reversed so there is a chance of ectopic pregnancy so I'm supposed to have early scans to make sure all is where it's supposed to be, I'm not overly concerned as I'm sure I would have had some symptoms by now, but it'll give me peace of mind. They were incredibly lovely when I called and didn't mind me self referring xx

Dailylurker · 05/01/2015 19:02

And if it puts anyone's mind at rest, I've never had any early symptoms other than tiredness, I'd take it as a good sign x

Galaxy2014 · 05/01/2015 19:08

Hi All,
I've been reading this thead for a while but hovering between Aug and Sept (I'm due late Aug and have a feeling he / she will arrive in Sept) so I've stepped in to this thread if it's ok? :)
Tiny - That's odd about frolic acid. Mine said I had to be on it for at least 12 weeks. Don't stop taking it until you see your midwife, they will give the best guidance!
I have an early scan on Thurs which is a bit exciting and scary. Had a little bleed on Fri night - barely anything - I assumed it was spotting but rang the midwife today just to make sure who said to speak to the Doc. Doc said it sounds like spotting but has booked me an early scan for Thurs just to check. So fingers crossed all is ok but curious to know what they will see at 7.5 weeks.
P.S for those of you wondering about morning sickness...nausea has definitely hit me in the 6th week and is getting worse., not been sick just feel rubbish. Woke up at 3am feeling sick so I was sat eating plain crackers to shift it (for me that works!)

MammaK93 · 05/01/2015 19:47

Can I join?! Got my positive on New Years day...baby number 2 due early September (I think) very excited Smile

GinFace · 05/01/2015 20:12

Hello Galaxy Brew

Lurker that's great, and amazing that you have has a successful reversal. Fingers crossed for your scan.

I've had no symptoms recently either. The odd sore boob. I only had sickness from 7 weeks with DS so maybe it will kick in soon...really looking forward to my scan for reassurance.

GinFace · 05/01/2015 20:13

Sorry - hello mamma Brew

NordicDreamer · 05/01/2015 20:49

Hello! Can I join? I'm a newbie :) got my BFP on the 30th and now 6 weeks. EDD on 4th sept! This is my first and it's all very exciting and scary. Teamed with the fact that I live abroad so having to negotiate a different health system too...!

I went to the drs today to find out about everything and he was really good. Here we only get 1 scan at 18 weeks so I'm going to get a private one done earlier, no way I can wait that long! When does everything think is a good time? 10wks? 12? Sooner?!

DorothyBastard · 05/01/2015 21:37

Actually thinking about it, my boobs are massive, they have been quite sore but feeling okay at the moment.

NatalieBee · 06/01/2015 00:21

Hey ladies hope everyone is ok!

Anyone have any tips for fighting nausea? I've felt horrible all day, ginger biscuits or crackers just aren't cutting it! Going to be a long night for me, good thing I'm a book nerd and off tmorrow Smile

Maths88 · 06/01/2015 04:47

Did another cb digi and got 2-3!!! The relief is immense! Now to leave the bloody things alone and concentrate on enjoying this!

Did not want to get up this morning - so blooming hard!

GinFace · 06/01/2015 07:06

Morning all

That's good news, maths.

I'm still not feeling sick, not that I'm complaining...

spamanderson · 06/01/2015 08:18

maths sorry if I worried you! Congrats on getting your 2-3. You and I must be only a couple of days apart max then I reckon!
My goodness the tiredness has seriously hit hard this morning :( 2 cakes to do today but what I really want is to just gave a nap :(

lovesmycake · 06/01/2015 08:28

Morning,

NordicDreamer Just a guess but are you in Norway by any chance, I live in Norway and have already had one baby here if you have any questions? We also got an extra scan as waiting till 18 weeks would be an impossibility! We went at 12 weeks to a private place, I chose 12 weeks as that was the same as the uk system and she did all the measurements (down's syndrome) etc which reassured me.

I'm sooo tired it's unreal I can't remember this from last time but there is a chance I just blocked it out!

EmzDisco · 06/01/2015 08:29

Hi everyone, can I join in? Got BFP on the 30th, EDD 8th September. our first. Told no one yet, and apart from huge boobs no symptoms, feels very surreal! Awaiting midwife contact for my booking in, I feel the next few weeks are going to drag!

GinFace · 06/01/2015 08:37

Welcome emz and congratulations Grin

I think we are going to wait until after the 12 week scan to tell DS. I wanted to tell him after the early scan (he's nearly four) but a couple of very sensible friends have suggested it's better to wait until after 12wks just in case.

That seems so bloody far away...what do you guys reckon?

lovesmycake · 06/01/2015 08:44

My lovely stepmum pointed out how long time stretches for little ones. My niece is 3 and she found the waiting very difficult, her behaviour got pretty strained towards the end (she was told straight away). We are probably going to wait until it's very obvious maybe 5/6 months but our DS is 2 so much less able to understand waiting and time then a 4 yr old?

Though I have a sneaking suspicion he knows something, he is really huggy at the moment!!

LittleSesameSeed · 06/01/2015 09:20

Cake funny you should say that- my one year old has pretty much been attached to my hip for the past week! They say little ones pick up on these things!
Just rang the drs to book an appointment but they said if I'm well I can just pick up a mid wife and don't need to see the doctor so that's good! Hope everyone going back to work has found it ok!

sebsmummy1 · 06/01/2015 09:32

I'm already panicking about how I'm going to potty train a three year old whilst caring for a newborn and I'm only 5.5 weeks! I'm obviously just looking for thinks to stress about.

spamanderson · 06/01/2015 09:34

nordic congrats! I would say anytime between 10-12 weeks is good :) you get a better picture the later you go obviously, I was 10 weeks with my first, nearly 12 weeks with my 2nd and they look much more baby like at that stage :)

spamanderson · 06/01/2015 09:37

gin I'm getting impatient waiting to tell dd1! Dd2 is a very scatty 5 year old so she's not worried but dd1 is desperate for a little brother so keeps asking me if I've done a test yet etc! We're planning on telling them when we've had our 12 week scan and maybe buy them a 'I'm the big sister' thirst each and put a scan pic in a card for them :D don't want to tell my grandparents or FIL until as late as possible as FIL will be angry and my GPs will worry :/

Mummyboo30 · 06/01/2015 10:11

Spam - sorry to hear your FIL will be angry about the baby, that's not nice.
I think we will be waiting as late as possible to tell DD, she'll be turning 4 just after my due date, but is terrible at waiting and really acts up.
I know she will be really excited, but I can't be doing with the messing around for longer than is necessary!

Also still not feeling very symptom-y, if it wasn't for the tiredness and sharp pains if I twist too suddenly, I'd hardly know I was pregnant!

spamanderson · 06/01/2015 11:57

mummy yup he's a delight. When told about dd1(his first grandchild) his response was 'well that's nuffin to do with me is it.... Well as your first gc we thought you might be happy. Then dd2 came along, cue lots of swearing, then add a puppy, then another puppy and a kitten (not all at once obv!) and we get moaned at and I get dirty looks :/ bloomin men! He does always help us if we need it, with the cars, he looks after the dogs and house when we go on holiday etc but his people skills leave a hell of a lot to be desired :/
I know we need to wait as long as we can before telling the dds but I swear dd1 (7 and will be just 8 we 'little Jimmy' as DH has nicknamed him, arrives) she keeps giving me this knowing look :/ I keep slipping up and starting to say things and having to stop myself.... Like bribing her to clean out the cat tray etc :/

TerrysNo3 · 06/01/2015 12:18

hello all, can I please join with optimistic bells on??

I got a strong BFP on a frer yesterday afternoon and just taken a cb digi with quite a diluted sample and got 2-3 weeks. Grin

We are TTC no3 (hence the name) and I had an ectopic pregnancy in July which resulted in losing my left tube. It was pretty awful and I was starting to wonder if I'd be able to conceive with just one tube but looks like it Grin Grin

I think I'm only 11dpo today though so 2-3 weeks on the digi must be good hey??

I'll do a less selfish post next time Wink

nutelladipper · 06/01/2015 12:31

hey all, congrats on new bfps.

i don't remember telling G about us being pregnant with E but this time G is 4.5 and very aware so i'll have to give it some thought but i'm going to hold off till at least 16 weeks which is when risk of mc drops!

xx

kiltedsheep · 06/01/2015 13:52

Hello Galaxy, mamma, Nordic, Emz, and everyone else who joined over the last 2 days! Congratulations to you all!

Nutella - I’m currently 4 weeks + 4 days – and I’m yet to experience nausea and other ‘orrible symptoms which will doubtless come along. But paranoia is an ongoing symptom… I did a(nother!) CB digital today and came out 2-3 weeks, which is great.

Went to see the doctor with DH earlier today and she basically said: ‘Congratulations – now come back in 4 weeks so we can sort you out for the 12 week scan!’

We did have a helpful conversation about the risk of mc, which (to DH’s frustration) she said there weren’t any particularly definitive/reliable statistics on. Apparently there isn’t very much anyone can do at this stage to prevent or accidentally cause mc. So if I accidentally eat a piece of brie and 5 tins of tuna and subsequently mc, it was important for us to know that the mc isn’t my fault.

She also said to keep going for a jog as I normally did prior to pregnancy, and that I would eventually reach a stage in which it just wasn’t comfortable for me to do it anymore, and that’s fine.

Like almostfullyfunctional, it’s important to me to carry on with exercise because I suffer from anxiety and The Black Dog. I really struggled to decide whether or not to continue with the medication I’d been prescribed, but my past history (and my mum’s own terrible struggle with PND) persuaded DH to drag me to the doc before we started TTC so we could all have a proper conversation about it. In my case, the doc suggested I switch to a low dose of Sertraline, which she said has a slightly lower “pregnancy risk profile” (whatever that means!), and after a lot of worrying, I decided to follow her advice.

I’d prefer not to be popping pills, though. Hmm