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LoopyLa · 24/11/2014 13:48

Just got my bfp today & due 3rd August (or thereabouts!).

Anyone else fancy coming aboard?

Loopyla, 37 yrs old, due 3 Aug, dc#2

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mrsb0710 · 19/12/2014 22:06

Thanks blue. I don't want to be too hopeful, but also don't want to give up home. So many emotions right now

bluewisteria · 19/12/2014 22:11

I'm sorry (((hugs))) it is so so hard, and there is unfortunately nothing you can do but wait.

I really sympathise, went through so many mc's and early scans.

Be kind to yourselves this weekend and next week, it is fine to cancel social engagements, even at Christmas.

mrsb0710 · 19/12/2014 22:39

Just been on the phone to my mum in Australia - too far away right now.

Don't give up hope anyone, its such a scary time, but just stay positive.

I'm going to ask for a re scan on Monday and their opinion and go from there. Maybe a glimmer of a chance, so blessed to have supportive friends, family and my mumsnet ladies :)

bluewisteria · 19/12/2014 22:55

That's a brilliant attitude. Thinking of you Flowers

birchwoods · 19/12/2014 22:56

We're all sending positive thoughts your way MrsB.

CarrotPuff · 20/12/2014 09:18

I will second those saying the scan was inconclusive.

Just because you had a +ve on OPK doesn't mean you actually ovulated on that day. I think I've read somewhere that ovulation can happen up to 5 days later. So your dates could well be off.

I don't understand why they would say that given the fact that you were only measuring 6 weeks - you can't always see the hb at that stage, and they know that. If you were measuring 8 weeks and no hb then I would understand. But this is too early too jump to such conclusions especially if as they don't have an earlier scan to compare to.

Definitely request another scan.

Stay positive, there is still hope Flowers

mrsb0710 · 20/12/2014 10:33

Thanks ladies, I've posted more in the MC thread, as I don't want to dampen anyone's joy on this thread, it doesn't seem fair and I don't want to worry anyone.
I shall keep you updated though and know to ask for repeat scans and bloods to see where I'm at.

Nausea has declined a bit, but my boobs are still tender, I'm just going to try and focus on a good outcome,but also mentally prepare a little for another.

Shall update you all.
I'm signing myself.off work until the new year, I just can't face it right now. They'll just have to accept that

Brummiegirl15 · 20/12/2014 10:50

MrsB I had 2 x mc's this year. So I know your pain.

If the outcome is the worst then when you feel strong enough look at the TTC after mc thread in conception. The ladies on that thread were a god send in my darkest hours x

daisysunshine2 · 20/12/2014 12:39

I second that brummie that thread is amazing!

mrsb I'm really hoping its good news for you and that baby is just a little bit behind but we're all here for you if it is bad news to support you xx

otter32 · 20/12/2014 14:36

Fingers crossed mrsb that's it's just because you're not as far in as you though. There's still hope.

Haven't been on for a while as my bunny rabbit has been poorly sick. Found out yesterday she has uterine cancer Sad Pretty devastated as she's been my baby for the past 7 years.

My sickness has been up and down this week. Feeling pretty uncomfortable around my belly and lots of constipation! Lovely!

Had first midwife appointment yesterday, was pretty non eventful. Waiting for a letter from the hospital now with my scan date on. Hopefully it will be a fairly early one so they can check my cervix is up to the job as I had a pretty extensive loop excision 7 years ago that removed most of it. So this is a major concern for me.

Hope everybody else is doing ok.

Luciferbox · 20/12/2014 15:08

My fingers are crossed for you Mrsb.

Brummiegirl15 · 20/12/2014 15:36

Otter I'm worried about exact same thing. I've had a letz procedure and a cone biopsy and got lots of scarring on cervix so no idea if mines up to it either!!

otter32 · 20/12/2014 15:53

Hey brummie. Have you mentioned it to anyone? The midwife was pretty dismissive but I wouldn't be budged. I wanted to be referred to the hospital that fixed the mess the first hospital carried out. They told me they wouldn't treat me if I got abnormal cells again as I wouldn't be able to carry a baby. So I kept repeating myself and eventually got what I wanted!

I'm sure it will all be fine, but these things need to be checked. This little bean is too precious.

Brummiegirl15 · 20/12/2014 16:58

I'm still waiting to hear from the midwife!!!! In my previous pregnancy I was given a consultant appointment straight away but due to mc never made it.

Have now moved house to a new area and still waiting for community midwife to contact me.

birchwoods · 20/12/2014 22:04

I've got my early scan tomorrow morning. I'm so nervous Confused

bluewisteria · 20/12/2014 22:14

Best of luck tomorrow, hope everything goes well!

Have you had any problems or is it an early reassurance scan?

birchwoods · 20/12/2014 22:22

Thanks blue. I've had no problems but we'd like to tell our parents and siblings over Christmas so it's for reassurance.

bluewisteria · 20/12/2014 22:51

Oh that's lovely, and great you haven't had anything to give cause for concern.
Do you know how far along you are and what you're expecting to see?

birchwoods · 20/12/2014 23:00

By my calculations I'll be 6+6 tomorrow. I know a bit early to see too much but really hoping for a heartbeat!

My lack of symptoms is actually worrying me a bit too!
How far along are you blue?

bluewisteria · 20/12/2014 23:10

Oh that's very exciting! I really hope all goes well for you tomorrow! Let us all know!

Um, I'm not even 4 weeks yet!! AF due Monday ish I think, but positive test came up early, I just 'knew'.

Bunnychan · 21/12/2014 07:23

Hi peeps,
I'm new to this thread. Got my bpf last weekend and think I'm about 5 weeks. Been having horrendous stretchy, pulling niggles the last couple of days- don't remember this with my first. I'm a little more apprehensive of this pg and desperately trying to connect with it a bit more. I'm sure I'd joined the day I got my bpf with my DD (18 months)
Nice to meet you,
Bunnychan x

toothachereturns · 21/12/2014 09:56

5 weeks today!!! I phoned my gp on Friday afternoon who said they don't deal with booking in appointments anymore and I was to phone the hospital between 9-12.Hmm Here it starts!!! I also wanted to talk to my gp about the meds im on for asthma and allergies! They seemed less than interested. I spoke to a chemist that suggested I phone nhs 24 if my gp won't review my meds immediately! Confused Sad Angry

toothachereturns · 21/12/2014 09:59

What should I do? Anyone else on Fluticasone inhalers (purple ones)?
And are there any antihistamines I can take? I'm in agony (urticaria triggered by food allergies)

northernlassy24 · 21/12/2014 10:35

Hi everyone. Hope you don't mind me joining in! Im also about 5 weeks Bunnychan. I had really bad cramping last week for a good few days, much worse than any period but no bleeding. Since then my boobs have got really sore and cramping has eased so I'm hoping that's a sign everything is moving along as it should be. I'm naturally a nervous person anyway so constantly seeking reassurance! This is my first. Nice to see how everyone on here supports each other and good to know there is always someone to talk to. I daren't tell anyone yet except my husband althought I'm itching to share the news x

Dozygirl · 21/12/2014 10:47

Welcome everybody Xmas Grin

Mrsb I have everything crossed for u for the scan on Monday.

Good luck birchwood with your early scan.

I should get my blood results back today to check the pregnancy hormone was increasing but as all spotting has stopped and I'm feeling nauseous I'm feeling positive anyway without the results.

6+2 today. Feeling fat because I've had so many social events on that have involved food and I've put about 4 pounds on just in bloat. Also the sickness makes me want to eat because it helps it.

Hope everyone else is OK

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