Oh dear - just playing catch-up after a busy week - forgive me if some of these responses are too late, as I have missed some of the thread in my hurry to reply to some stuff.
Am so very sorry to hear Lobster's news :0( Its probably too late for you to see this Lobster, but thinking of you and sending virtual hugs.
Essence! Firstly I wanted to say: don't panic. The rate of false positives is pretty high on nuchal/bloods, particularly as you get older (tho I don't know your age)
Secondly, and more importantly - I read a staggering fact in that 'Expecting Better' book (which I would urge everyone to get!)
The miscarriage risks for CVS/Amnio are WAY out of date. They are based upon 80s stats. The actual risks today are more like 1/800. Yes, for both! So any ladies facing the decision of further testing can feel a bit more reassured knowing this, and go ahead with CVS earlier with no increased risk.
It's shocking this info isn't more widely available really.
Like I say, I would urge everyone to get the book.
Lastly - I would recommend the Harmony to anyone (it's just the matter of cost really, tho the financial punch may well be worth taking if you're a Worry Sofa-Regular!)
Thankfully, nothing else odd to report from me after last Saturdays hiccup - I look like a right bloater tho, and still a bit barfy, despite now being nearly 14 weeks!! Different sort of barfy tho - less severe, but comes back quicker after I've eaten. Does it never end?? :0D
Definitely having more 'good' days tho.
Anyway, all the best to everyone!