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Cisforcat · 21/07/2014 20:00

Hi,

I've finally got my BFP and want to find others who want to chat and eat cake whilst being excited about cooking our little dragons.

I am 31yrs old, just got my BFP for #2.

Come in and sit down for the next nerve racking 9 months :)

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BrixtonBunny · 01/08/2014 13:17

Oh Lucy that must be so worrying, fx it's just a normal bleed and it will all be ok.

Hello to new ladies on the bus! Congrats!

I'm still not getting symptoms apart from cramps and exhaustion, and a few boob pains but not much. Had a bit of pink cm yesterday and Wednesday but seems to have stopped fx. How does everyone else feel? It's perverse but I want to feel sick! Did another superdrug this morning and the line was stronger than ever so that's good.

I'm also not sure about weeks and dating - I'm 4 weeks today if you go by last period, but I ovulated on cd 8 and have a 25 or 26 day cycle so presumably it's further along than someone who is also 4 weeks but ovulated on cd 16? Xxx

BrixtonBunny · 01/08/2014 13:17

Lila I feel exactly the same xx

catellington · 01/08/2014 13:25

Lucy fingers crossed for you the bleeding is harmless. I had bleeding on and off first time and it was really worrying and stressful

Another in the 4stone gain last time club here! I got back down to within half a stone of my pre pregnancy weight and thought I'd get right back to my original weight but will now probably have to put that on hold!

I'm still getting used to the idea and also stressing out about it going well. I think I would feel better if I had some symtoms but nothing obvious as yet!

dancestomyowntune · 01/08/2014 13:26

brixton i'm a little confused on dates too Grin i had mirena removed on July 1st. got first bfp last thursday! (july 24th). i have no idea when i ovulated Sad i'm working on the basis of four weeks but having not had a period i just dont know Sad

i did a clearblue with conception indicator this morning which said 1-2 weeks, but i dont know how reliable that is. and it must be more than 1 week, as i had bfp last week Grin

cinnamongreyhound · 01/08/2014 13:42

I would say 14 days after you ovulated is 4 weeks pregnant as it's counted from your last period and assumes 28 days cycle. I'd go with being 4 weeks when you get a bfp personally, I guess that's why things change when you have your dating scan. Mine was only a few days out with both mine but both were 2 weeks late.

Lucy61 · 01/08/2014 13:58

Thanks lovely ladies. Epu won't scan till next week when I would've been/ would be 6 weeks as there isn't much to show in a scan at the moment- doctor reckons I'm 5 weeks. On the plus side, I don't really feel that rough and the bleeding is def more than spotting but not so heavy. Who knows what's going on but at least I know I can get pregnant!

On the weight side of things, I was lucky ds1 breast fed like a trooper and I lost loads of weight doing it. It uses 500 cal a day.

Cisforcat · 01/08/2014 14:11

I breast fed and still found losing the weight v hard. ( shown by only losing half of what I out in) admittedly DD is 7 months so I didn't give myself time to loose it all but I'm determined after this one.

Blimey we are making the weight issue all doom and gloom. My attitude is whatever happens is all worth it so not point stressing about it! I've become a lot less bothered about my appearance after having DD as I just feel change is inevitable so just embrace it.

I did an OPK this morning out of interest which was a pos as don't have any more hcg. Did it more out of interest than anything else. Am 5+2 today ! Yippeee!

Got my fingers crossed for you Lucy.

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BrixtonBunny · 01/08/2014 14:56

Is anyone else cramping quite a lot? I've been having cramps every day on and off for the last two weeks and it's beginning to worry me a bitHmm

BrixtonBunny · 01/08/2014 14:57

I should say they are not agonising but definitely akin to what I get around af.

Also, has anyone had increased cm?!

lozzg82 · 01/08/2014 15:09

I have defiantly been getting cramps for the last week or so, I think it's your body getting ready. I am more worried when I don't get symptoms .... My boob pain is def not as bad as it was a few days ago :-/

cinnamongreyhound · 01/08/2014 15:51

Yes I have Brixtonbunny, it last a few hours then disappears. It's just your uterus starting to stretch and grow, try not to worry :)

BlinkAndMiss · 01/08/2014 15:58

Brixton I'm cramping a lot, I did last time too. My midwife said it's all the stretching (ouch!) last time and I, assuming the same this time too. It used to ease up when I drank water so I'm doing that this time too. And yes to the cm, loads last time and starting to get more this time (tmi). It's so gross! It's the mucus plug forming. I'm also confused about dates, my last cycle was 39 days but they've always been 29 before that. I didn't even know when to test, 39 days would have been Tuesday and I tested Thursday.

cinnamon thanks for the information! it doesn't make sense to have consultant led care if all is well so fingers crossed. I really hope you get your water birth this time, or at least not an induction. I had an induction of sorts last time, labour started itself and then failed it was awful. But, staying positive this time!

Cisforcat boo to sleepless nights! It's the only time I question having another baby, I'm rubbish without sleep. But everything changes so quickly, and I'd much prefer to already be having sleepless nights than to start them all over again :). I also have 2 stone to lose, I'd lost 3lbs this week too. Unfortunately I never lose my appetite. I think that's realistic to get back to where you are now within a year, that's certainly what I'm going to try for. I didn't take dieting seriously enough after DS, I really wish I had now. We really do have the rest of our lives to lose the rest of the weight.

Slimming World is more of an eating plan than a diet. It basically makes you eat loads of fruit, veg, fat free cheese and simple carbs. It balances out your blood sugar and stops the roller coaster of cravings and crashes which I seem to have all the time. You are also fairly limited in caffeine if you take milk as you can only have a certain amount of milk. I'm sure there are changes you have to implement if you are pregnant though, I'd guess you have to increase dairy and possibly sins but I'm not sure yet. I'll have to check.

Lucy61 I'm sorry about the spotting, it must be very stressful even if it is very common. Give yourself time to relax and go straight to EPU if your symptoms change, I know they say there isn't much they can do so early on but you might be seen so it's worth a chance. Keep us updated, I'll be thinking of you.

My mind seems to be on overdrive. I've just started to think about pushchairs, DS will be 2.6 when this one arrives and he doesn't walk far now although he can (he's a bolter!) and I just don't trust him. Do I get a double? Buggy board? Convert our Icandy? Aarghh! I don't want and can't afford to spend a fortune.

cinnamongreyhound · 01/08/2014 16:04

I think it depends how much you walk BlinkandMiss! I'm a childminder so mine have walked from quite a young age with mindees in the buggy but I had a buggy board for rest moments. Ds1 was 3.5 when ds2 was born, I had a sling for work and used it at weekends if we went out for a while when ds1 would get tired so I could take ds2 out of the pushchair and into the sling as required :) I borrowed my sling last time and my friend wanted it back so I will have to buy one this time, I loved it!

BrixtonBunny · 01/08/2014 16:22

Thanks everyone for the reassurance re: cramping - it's nice to know I'm not alone! Smile

AmIIndecisive · 01/08/2014 16:48

Hi all, just found out all being well, DC3 will be joining our clan

AmIIndecisive · 01/08/2014 16:49

Sorry posted too soon.. Next April, am excited, nervous and a bit freaked out!

Cisforcat · 01/08/2014 17:27

Welcome ami.

Blink and miss , my DD will be 16 months so I think I'm planning to convert my icandy. I love it at the mo and we got it as we had always planned to have DC2 in quick succession so think we'll just convert. Bloody expensive whatever the option!

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BlinkAndMiss · 01/08/2014 18:09

Aw I think I spoke to soon, started bleeding tonight :( and not just spotting either. I'm really sad now, I feel a bit different too. I felt the same about an hour ago and then I realised that I didn't feel thirsty and my cramps had gone. When I went to the bathroom it looked like AF had arrived.

I haven't experienced this before, I have had slight spotting before but this is a lot more than that. I'd probably be less concerned but my symptoms seem to have gone.

I'll update when I know for sure, but I think I'll wait until Sunday and take a test. If it is bad news it will probably be fainter by then. How things can change in just one day, I only got my BFP last night!

pyrowall · 01/08/2014 18:14

Sorry to hear that blink

Came home to my booking in app date - 28th august!! It seems like such a long time away!Grin

Still don't feel any different though!

BrixtonBunny · 01/08/2014 18:31

Sorry blink, fx your bean will stick - apparently bleeding is common in the first few weeks. Sounds very stressful though, sorry xxxThanksThanksThanks

BrixtonBunny · 01/08/2014 18:31

Pyro 28th August, you lucky thing! My GP said I wouldn't see anyone until around week 12 Hmm

Lucy61 · 01/08/2014 18:42

Sorry to hear that blink. Thanks

dancestomyowntune · 01/08/2014 18:43

well, i went to the drs for reassurance re a pain in my side and she's sent me to hospital! apparently my bp is unacceptably high, i have protien in my urine and gp is concerned. Sad fx for good news. so far no bleeding so i am trying to be positive, but not nice sat in a and e so early on Sad Sad Sad

Cisforcat · 01/08/2014 18:45

My booking app is 27tg august when ill be 9 weeks. Lifetime away..... Know how you feel pyro.
Brixton they said 12 weeks? So how do they book in a scan? Weird how every area organises things so v v differently!

So sorry blink. Try and keep calm and see what happens but got my fingers x for you. Thinking of you.

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Cassieyellow · 01/08/2014 18:46

Oh dear...sorry to hear about those of you in the middle of nightmares we don't want. Crossing everything for you. Xx

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