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January 2015 #6: scans galore, bumps starting to show

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sunshineandbiscuits · 06/07/2014 09:03

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ilovelamp78 · 10/07/2014 17:14

Thanks for the suggestion saras I'll definitely look into that!

lindamagoo · 10/07/2014 17:40

Thanks blizy Smile

Keep I'm doing ok today, not feeling so down about things, thank you for asking. I will be thinking about you tomorrow, the way you've handled everything will inspire me to keep a smile on my chops Smile We could both do with a bit of luck x

phoebs88 · 10/07/2014 17:45

Camsie - keep an eye on gumtree. I still feel a little guilty about how little we paid for the vista, but have to remind myself that the seller set the price!

Is there an 'idiot's guide to cloth nappies' anywhere? I've been thinking about it but feel a bit overwhelmed..and that's before I think about all the laundry!

Someone mentioned the snuzpod below, I would love to buy one myself but can't bring myself to spend that much money. So DP has been tasked with converting a cheapy Kiddicare crib (about £40) into a bedside equivalent :)

Is anyone else trying to do things as cheaply as possible?

RPopz · 10/07/2014 17:55

I've been debating cloth nappies but we have no tumble dryer and with a winter baby that could potentially be a nightmare!!! And is it really cheaper?

You lot are all so organised. So far I've only thought as far as finishing the house off and how much that'll all cost. Kinda blanking out the baby stuff!!! The in laws kind of bombarded us with telling us everything we had to buy... terrifying poor DH. But I think they were being a bit ott. My mum's already insisted on buying a pram... and has been looking at moses baskets haha.. so hopefully that'll help.

Eek everything crossed for tomorrow for you Keep. The odds are in your favour Smile

How you doing Linda?

Hey to the newbies xx

sunshineandbiscuits · 10/07/2014 17:58

phoebe I second your question on the idiots guide to cloth nappies. We like the idea for environmental reasons but the thought of taking on extra laundry is daunting. Both DM and MiL claim we are crazy for even thinking about it.

Getting stuff on the cheap is the way forward for us. We're putting feelers out to see where we might be able to buy secondhand from friends who have just finished having their babies. We're trying to save like crazy this year to supplement maternity pay and give me the option of taking a full year off.

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sunshineandbiscuits · 10/07/2014 18:05

lol should clarify that we will start saving like crazy just as soon as we have bought a tumble dryer! Need to work out where to put it though.

Hello garfield! Love the name!

14+1

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lindamagoo · 10/07/2014 18:06

I'm ok RPopz, thank you. I couldn't do cloth nappies, don't think I have the stomach for it, lol

lindamagoo · 10/07/2014 18:07

13 + 4, I always forget that bit Smile

cheshirem2b · 10/07/2014 18:09

Good point about tumble driers. We have one but since we moved it's in the shed as the kitchen is all integrated and we have no room for it in there. Will have to make room somewhere I think for all the baby clothes!
We are trying to save money too but something always seems to crop up!

KatnissEvermean · 10/07/2014 18:26

We will be doing things as cheaply as possible too. I made a list of all the things we need last night, it's quite daunting. It looks like this baby is going to be spoilt by our friends and family though so hopefully that will be some of the cheaper bits and pieces covered.

Got home from work and my DP said he had a surprise for me, he'd been out and bought me some maternity clothes! Two lovely tops, a skirt and some jeans. I suddenly have a bump and nothing fits, and he noticed the pile of discarded clothes on the floor this morning!

Whoever mentioned cats and kneading on sensitive boob problems, I feel your pain. I have four cats and they all like a cuddle in the morning, but I can't bear to push them away because they are so cute and lovely.

Minibagel · 10/07/2014 18:31

A tumble drier is pretty much essential with a winter baby if you dont want your house full of drying washing. I don't know what we'll do. Maybe go to the parents and use theirs?!

Our cloth nappies are for sale for £125 if anyone can use them, we did research and found them to be the best for us as they grow with the baby, you pay a one off fee from newborn to potty trained at 2-3 rather than having to buy more as they grow, also bamboo is very absorbent www.closeparent.com/Popininfoandadvice/Popininstructions/tabid/279/Default.aspx

New these ones work out at the same cost as 6 months of reusable nappies (I think that was £250 at the time we calculated it). Newborn disposable nappies are the cheapest kind but you'll get through several a day, if not more, and when the baby gets bigger they get more expensive and become fewer per pack.

Obviously you have to factor in the unknown cost of a wash. At first we did a hot wash every other day as we used 10 a day. Then as he got a few months older we used fewer, and washed every 3-4 days. So it becomes cheaper as the baby grows. But its not onerous. You'll do more washing of babies clothes, towels, flannels and muslins than you will nappies.

As for the smell its really not bad. Your own babies nappies arent as bad as you'd think, especially if bf, although we ff and they were fine. You dispose of the liner which catches the solids, down the loo or into a nappy bag, so its the same as disposables.

The only thing you'll need for a winter newborn (mine was summer) is more liners to shells if you dont have a tumble drier as they take a day to dry outside. If you have a tumble drier the liners take a couple of hours on low. The shells dry very quickly on an airer.

Sadly we have no room for a washing line or a tumble drier and with having our second dc, we won't be able to use the 20 we have, which is enough for one baby full time in reusables.

If anyone is interested in finding out more, inbox me?

Saraswati · 10/07/2014 18:51

mini thanks so much for the offer but DH has banned me from buying anything second hand for the baby! He grew up properly poor and on benefits and he's really funny about having everything brand new and expensive for the baby. I think it's his way of sticking two fingers up at his rubbish (alcoholic) parents who spent all their money on booze! So that's why our baby list is so bleeding expensive! I, however live in clothes from charity shops/ebay/vintage as I'm more concerned about the environment (hence the cloth nappies) but I'm letting him have his way with the baby stuff as it's important for his male pride :)

Am I crazy to consider cloth nappies with no tumble dryer?! We do have a fair bit of space for drying washing and live in a warm terraced house, so I was hoping that would be ok?!

I've found the nappy lady website quite useful - you fill in a questionnaire and she tells you what brand would be best for you.

Minibagel · 10/07/2014 19:00

Ah ok, that's fine. I'm sure someone will buy them if they are going for reusables either to save money or for eco reasons.

As long as you buy either ones with detachable inserts and buy more of those than the outer shells or some come as one piece, and you'll just need more than they recommend, you'll be fine sara

Minibagel · 10/07/2014 19:01

Also ask around friends who use them as its that kind of info that is invaluable. Some wont fit tightly around newborn skinny legs so cause leaking etc.

RPopz · 10/07/2014 19:03

I like the nappy lady website but the choice was overwhelming!

I'll have a look at that link and get back to you Mini Smile

Minibagel · 10/07/2014 19:05

Also, some local authorities run schemes where you'll get a money off voucher and can go to meet ups to rent nappies to find the one that suits your baby best. Once a year it's cloth nappy day and lots of places do 10%discounts that day. Can't remember what time of year that is though!

KeepOnPloddingOn · 10/07/2014 19:05

Good news! Got first part of our results back and got the all clear! We have 10 days for the rest - but they're are not really anything I am worries about as I only rested high risk for downs. Midwives assured me on that. So relieved. So grateful. I am in shock! Dh is ecstatic and is out celebrating with friends bless him. He says he can now properly start enjoying things now. Linda I am sure you will have the same outcome :) keep your chin up!

Oh- and as for tumble dryers- my god did we need ours. Dd was the biggest puker alive. I honestly would have been lost in those winter months / rainy summer days without one. I say go with anything that is going to make your life easier in those first few months. I know they are not the most environmentally friendly but they are super efficient and save on ironing too as they decrease the creases. :)

Minibagel · 10/07/2014 19:09

keep EXCELLENT news, what a weight off your mind! Wooooo!

Minibagel · 10/07/2014 19:10

linda I hope this gives you some reassurance, I know it must be hard to be in limbo.

Has anyone heard from mademoiselle?

lindamagoo · 10/07/2014 19:14

Keep that is fantastic news, I'm so happy for you, I'm actually crying, lol, god damn hormones Smile

Mini, mades not had good news I'm afraid Sad

Minibagel · 10/07/2014 19:14

These are the colour pack we have:

Minibagel · 10/07/2014 19:15

These are the colour pack we have:

Minibagel · 10/07/2014 19:15

We bought the pastel colour pack: m.nctshop.co.uk/product/5321

Minibagel · 10/07/2014 19:17

Sorry for the multi post! Random phone failure.

Oh no linda that's so sad. I can understand why she has gone quiet. Do you think she will come back?

KeepOnPloddingOn · 10/07/2014 19:20

Thanks mini!

Aww Linda you darling! I will be crying tears of joy for you too. I know it x

I have heard from mademoiselle - she is ok. I'll let her share her news though as I don't really feel it's my place, sorry.

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