no time to start a new thread so will update you ladies only!
contractions started at 8pm on sat night and were 3 mins apart and a minute long right from the start.
got to the hospital at about 9pm by the time mum had arrived to look after ds. midwife who booked us in said i was 5/6cms dialated. i requested the pool room and was told they were chocka and it would be unsafe for me to use the pool.
into panic mode i went- ive only ever done it in the pool before!
i asked her to call my midwife who was on a night off and she said she would come up to deliver me! thank god! she instructed them to fill the pool.
she arrived and i got in the pool. my notes say the following:
duration: 1st stage- 04.36 hrs
2nd stage- 00.07
3rd stage- 00.06
Total: 04.49 hrs
very quick compared to last time!
1st degree tear, no stitches. it feels pretty good already, nothing like last time. i must say it did hurt an awful lot more than last time and i got a bit delerious saying i couldnt do it anymore. the midwife told me to push and i lost it!
'i am f'ing pushing' unfortunately slipped out this time.
ds2 appeared in his sealed amniotic sac (i told her my waters hadnt gone but she insisted they must have till she had to 'open' him!)
there was also a huge knot in his cord!
placenta literally fell out as i got on the bed (sorry, tmi, but it took an hour to appear last time)
then it all went pear shaped....
i was told i had postpartum haemorrage (sp?) and blood was being rushed in for a transfusion. doctors kept poking my bits about, trying to see 'up there' at how fast the blood was flowing.
dh was holding ds, in tears, as he couldnt get close enough to comfort me even if he hadnt been holding ds. docs asked him to hold ds to stop him crying so they could discuss action plan.
initially it would be a drip for four hours to try and contract uterus quickly. if that didnt work a d&c under a general (didnt understand that though as they had confirmed the placenta was whole) and failing that an emergency hysterectomy! i am 23 ffs!
anyhoo, had the drop done and stayed an extra night under obs and luckily the bleeding is just normal now, hence i can update!
i saw dh updated. 'nin-in' is nanny by the way, my mum. ds calls her 'nin-in'
i am all ok now and so is ds2.
ds1 is a bit mixed up but he is doing rather well really. i have a beautiful picture of his first reaction to ds2 and it brings a tear to my eye.
my milk is in already so thats a relief!
congrats to all who have also popped and to those yet to pop. i will obviously hang around as i would like to 'see' everyone pop.
pop, pop, pop!!
that's deffo it for us now. 2 boys, both born on sunday mornings in the same pool.