Gingys sorry to see your news. Hope you have all the support you need. Hopefully you will get some kind of peace and way forward from the testing xx
Congrats on the twins Bangkok
I have no intention of being thoughtless - but given how concerned I am for my scan next week, and I know at least one other member on this board is worried about the same thing, thought I would share a conversation I had was SIL last night.
Spoke to my SIL (well, truthfully, she spoke to me) about my pregnancy. This is the SIL who has been trying for a long while, and has a recent mc. We were talking about the scan and I told her how I was worried about MMC, as it seemed to be more frequent than I would have previously thought.
She had a previous MMC years back, but she said last night not to work myself up as it is actually pretty rare. She confirmed that with her MMC, she had felt pains etc and little indications things were not quite right (I didn't ask as she stopped talking so figured she didn't want to say more). The only reason she didn't call it a MC was lack of bleeding, although she did know in her heart before the 12 wk scan something wasn't right.
Whilst this pregnancy is different to when I was expecting DS, I am trying to remain positive - which is easier said than done - but her words did help me.
My other SIL is being a prized t**t at the minute. I am not sure if she has stepped up her "game" or if my tolerance levels are down. If you see on the news later someone has been arrested for stapling a family members mouth shut - it wasn't me... 