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May 2014 - the Maybies get even closer to Definitely!!

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ClearlyMoo · 17/02/2014 11:40

I've been brave and started a new thread. Hope the name is ok....

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Bornin1984 · 04/03/2014 08:55

Yet!!!!! Somebody with reason!!!!

Hezbean · 04/03/2014 09:18

Thank god for that. Lovely FIL! Delighted for you moomin.

NannyPlumForPM · 04/03/2014 09:44

Hooray for one fil with common sense! There is hope for your oh yet!! Grin and it's sunny! All is well with the world. (Apart from clearlys nighttime loo crawl Sad that sounds horrendous!)

Congrats polly let us know what it's like?!!

loopylou52 · 04/03/2014 09:53

Yay for FIL-to-be!! Grin

Spirael · 04/03/2014 10:15

Glad it's all resolved, Moomin! :)

Your night time crawl sounds awful, ClearlyMoo. :( Can you go back to the doctors and see if there's anything else they can do to try and ease things a little?

I'm starting to get more pelvic pain here, if I sit still for more than thirty minutes then I hobble for the next hour. Probably doesn't help that I was crawling around on the floor at the weekend shortening some curtains for the nursery, admittedly. Sitting at a desk all day isn't helping, nor is the fact that I have to walk a couple of miles each day (not all at once) as part of my commute.

I guess I'll mention it to the MW when I see her next Monday. (First time this year, only my third appointment. I'm clearly less interesting as a second timer. Wink) I suspect I'll be told to live with it, however.

For those who asked about bedding...

I tend to run with four sets of fitted sheets and four mattress protectors, the sort with an absorbent towelling side. Having four sets means you can have one or two in the wash at any given time and still be able to make up the bed with a backup set. They tend to sell the things in packs of two, anyway.

When making the bed, put two or three alternating layers of protector/sheet. Then, at 2am when your LO has made a mess, it's easy just to whip off the top layer and find a new one ready underneath. :) Then you shove the mucky layer in a basket and deal with it at a more sociable hour-!

You'll need some blankets for initial use, as I don't think newborns are meant to use sleeping bags. There's a minimum weight for those, but I think DD1 reached it within a few weeks so it's not too long to wait. (Just as well - sleeping bags are awesome!) I used a cotton blanket initially, but that was just personal preference.

When DD1 moved into sleeping bags, I had three in each size. One to use, one to wash and one to have in reserve. There are heavy weight ones for winter and single tog for summer, but you could use a summer one with a blanket during colder months to save some money.

If you have access to a tumble drier, make sure you choose ones that can be tumble dried! It's a life saver when your LO has a tummy bug and is throwing up every few hours.

I found that front zips were easier than size zips and ones that could be unzipped from top or bottom were great for stealth nappy changes at night. It's an awesome feeling of smugness when you manage to sneak in and change your LO's nappy without waking them! I managed once.

Also, personal preference but I had a couple of these and found them useful. They're safe to use from birth. DD1 always seemed happier with her head and neck supported, otherwise her head lolled to the side which looked uncomfortable. She also didn't develop any flat spots, which may or may not be related.

Bornin1984 · 04/03/2014 10:24

Signed off for two weeks withower baby back pain Hmm

pickletalk14 · 04/03/2014 10:35

Double layer bedding suggestion is genius! Definitely going to try it!

Working from home today and it's such a relief to drop the commute (train and tube) for a day.

Cake for all those suffering today

PotatoPolly · 04/03/2014 12:40

Glad to hear things are looking up Moomin!

Randdom what's a kiwi birth?

Oh clearly, you poor thing :( and you spirael ThanksThanks

Good plan with the double layers, it would work the same in a Moses basket right?

Hospital bag is all packed, though I seem to have developed this completely irrational concern that if I don't have the right clothes for the weather to bring the baby home in, the MWs will frown at me and won't let me bring him home, so I've packed baby clothes for every eventuality! Blush Actually... Should probably think about clothes for me to come home in...

Bornin1984 · 04/03/2014 13:26

A kiwi is a instrument they attach to the babies head to help deliver the baby

PotatoPolly · 04/03/2014 13:52

Like forceps?

Bornin1984 · 04/03/2014 14:17

Forceps are like sAlad spoons and kiwi is a cup

AliOh · 04/03/2014 14:41

Yay Moomin! glad all has been sorted :)

Poor you clearly :( i do hope you get some relief soon, sounds excruciating :( Thanks and you too spirael.

Bornin, is a kiwi the same as a ventouse??

MoominIsWaitingToMeetHerMiniMe · 04/03/2014 14:45

I was born with a ventouse. My dad said it made me look like I had two heads, the doctors were talking about my ten fingers and ten toes and all he could think was "count the heads!!!" apparently Hmm Grin

MrsFooCough · 04/03/2014 15:33

Haha! Two headed moomin!! That's brilliant Grin

Getting real sick of hip/pelvis pain and diarrhoea (sorry if TMI) tbh. The nasty tummy means I'm up way more frequently in the night than just for weeing, which means that (due to pelvic pain + shitty mattress topper + cumbersome body pillow) I have to turn to get up out of bed and try to do it quietly so I don't wake everyone because of squeaky/clunky bed frame! Although I know this is a silly complaint because a) I can still walk, albeit uncomfortably/painfully and b) I have my first physio appt on Monday at 9am so I've been referred really quickly!

But the tummy stuff is a real bastard, not going to play that down at all. I was at first rather confused as to how I got my pile (singular thank god and disappearing quite nicely now) when I have not had a single solid bowel movement in over a month, then I realised you strain to try and get rid of your cramps quicker if you're on the bog at 3:30am for the third time that night.
So it's quite simple really. Us preggos CANNOT WIN against the crap our bodies may decide to throw at us, so we'd best just enjoy whatever snippets of joy we can because tomorrow we might be unable to walk! HAHAHAHA ~sobs piteously into pillow, realises getting up from bed is impossible, gives up and goes to sleep~

Ohhh and it's my birthday on Friday!

ClearlyMoo · 04/03/2014 15:34

SmileWAVES! Smile Hello! Thank you for all the lovely messages.

Not much has changed except perhaps for my attitude! I'm being as positive as I can!

Ok so I'm feeling much brighter and trying to stay positive and want to apologise for my attention seeking middle of the night whine.

I took some codeine this am. It made me VERY sleepy! I also arranged a private physio appt for tomorrow. I'm still in pain yes, but managed to shower and dress and make pancakes for DH breakfast. Then I tried to work but slept for two hours.

Then I saw MW who said I'm still not too fat for MLU. That baby is head down (but still has loads of room to move) and that it's probably everything weighing on sciatic nerve (slightly different to PGP -I have a touch of that too but nerve is winning). She also explained if I take codeine containing meds up to a fortnight before delivery baby and I need to stay in 48hrs for observation and that if I can manage without then that's better. Hence Moomin why they said to you not to take past 36 weeks.

I'm getting a bit bloody minded and want to get on with things so will have to learn to live with pain. Taking the codeine as a last resort when I need to sleep etc. At least I can sit on my ball comfortably. That's something.

Moomin brilliant news.

Hugs to everyone who needs them x

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MrsFooCough · 04/03/2014 16:02

Oh clearly that's great isn't it! The MLU news that is, that's just brill for you Grin
Being brave about the pain is a hard thing to do, sciatic nerve pain is a bugger I know. I have a feeling that I've got some of that waiting in the wings for the next few months. Whoopee. But we'll see what the physio says, eh! ~fake excited face~
Big hugs to you clearly xxxxxxx

randdom · 04/03/2014 17:30

Kiwi is basically a little cup about 10cm in diameter with manual suction via a hand held pump rather than an electronic vacuum. It can be used to help the delivery of the head some times instead of forceps but it is dependent on the position. I always think it looks a bit nicer than forceps .

kally195 · 04/03/2014 17:49

Afternoon!

moomin really pleased for you that FIL has seen sense.

Sorry for all the nasty pain around at the mo. I am currently feeling a bit knackered - combination of a nightshift Sunday into Monday which turned into a 14 hour marathon, and having been super busy today with decorating and running errands.

Also got a phone call from the midwife this morning - my 28 week bloods have come back as showing my iron levels a bit low. Been put on 420mg a day - have a midwife appointment tomorrow so will check what my levels were and whether I really need that much iron!

Who is having pancakes tonight?!

Bornin1984 · 04/03/2014 17:50

No no no not to forceps!!

MoominIsWaitingToMeetHerMiniMe · 04/03/2014 17:58

What were your iron levels Kally? Mine were originally 104 and then 99 and I'm on 400mg a day.

NannyPlumForPM · 04/03/2014 18:04

Sometimes forceps Are the only option bornin !

NannyPlumForPM · 04/03/2014 18:05

And I had pancakes this morning with dd before pre school and we've got more to do out of the bottle after she eats all her flipper dippers! Grin

Bornin1984 · 04/03/2014 18:12

I know sometimes forceps are unavoidable! But also failed forceps means emergency c section!

kally195 · 04/03/2014 18:22

moomin if I am reading my blood tests right, then at my 12 week bloods they were 114. I will find out tomorrow what they were at the 28 weeks bloods - all she said when she rang this morning was that they were low and there was a prescription to pick up.

We're having Moroccan meatballs tonight (fab Leon recipe), followed by crepes with lemon and sugar. I am using the excuse that I need lots of energy ready for painting the living room tomorrow!

MasterFlea · 04/03/2014 18:39

Clearly so much sympathy for you. Glad you are feeling more positive today.

The baby belt has helped my PGP enormously. I'm amazed how much. But I'm nowhere normal and let DH do everything these days whilst I sit on my bum. Often feel guilty for being lazy but if he was in this much pain, I'd order him to rest.

About position, I found on my back horrible. With DD2, I went on my knees and held on to the upright head of the bed. It was much easier and quicker birth than DD1. Sat on the birthing ball until I felt the urge to push then climbed onto the bed.

My DD1 (4) has just started drawing stick people and included the baby in her picture yesterday. I think she is looking forward to the addition.