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MrsFooCough · 24/01/2014 14:13

All of us May mummies are BACK like the Terminator only less deadly (unless preggo rage strikes and we're within waddling distance of sharp things)

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Have a Brew, some Cake, and TELL US EVERYTHING ~listening intently~

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kally195 · 17/02/2014 09:54

mrsmummy I'm as clueless as you! I am however going to head over to the Gap website very shortly... I live their stuff. Currently living in a mix of their maternity clothes plus fatface tunics and leggings.

moomin sorry to hear housemate is being even more of an unmitigated arse. I think some egg rustling is definitely in order!

I bit the bullet and took advantage of the Boots baby offers yesterday - ordered some nappies, wipes and disposable changing matt's. With the three for two, parenting club points and the free changing bag it worked out massively cheaper than anywhere else at the mo - even Asda's baby deals etc.

It's been a bit of a week for bad news - topped off by finding out yesterday that a very dear friend (who has a 3yr old and a 7 month old) has got breast cancer. So upset for them.

Hope everyone is OK. I'm the middle of a full on run of 12 hour shifts - starting to feel quite tired. Two more to go then two days off!

dobedobedo · 17/02/2014 10:10

Ds was born in January 2005 and it was a bit of a frosty Winter then, so much easier for buying clothes than May! British weather is so unpredictable, it could be freezing or roasting! And then they grow so quick too. I think the best thing to do is to wait until baby arrives and send someone shopping depending on the weather!

Do newborn babies still need hats even if it's warm outside?

MrsFooCough · 17/02/2014 10:31

My plan re: clothes is to buy a basic load of short-sleeved bodysuits and long sleeved sleep suits and then get a load of cardigans. Then send family out for things once they know what gender to buy for when it's popped out! So a basic layette I think it's called, with vests/sleep suits/bodysuits/hats/mitts/socks and then see how the weather is with blankets and cardis etc for the journey home - that make sense? I dunno though, I'm rubbish at dressing myself in silly weather so here's hoping I get better at it!

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Spirael · 17/02/2014 11:03

Hi all! Bit of a long absence from me, sorry-! Had a bit of a rough patch with the lovely hormones, but I seem to have come out the other side now. Also had a bit of a scare as DD has picked up Chicken Pox! Fortunately, we are 100% sure I had it as a child so I should be immune. It's looking like it so far. :)

For clothes and stuff... You'll need a few newborn hats, but mostly for the initial 24 hours or so. I got told off by the MW last time for only having one hat ready, as they popped it on as soon as DD materialised in order to keep her warm, so it got rather wet and mucky. DH ended up washing it out and drying it with a hair dryer while DD was being cleaned up. This time, I have 3 hats ready!

Aside from that, I have a couple of cardigans but mostly just vests and full (covered foot/long sleeved) sleepsuits. Around 6/12 of each, depending how often you want to do laundry! Remember to buy some in Newborn and some in 0-3 Month size. DD was 8lbs 3oz and only wore Newborn size for about a fortnight.

We had a few cardigans, but TBH it's easier to just cover them with a blanket if you suspect they're getting cold. Trying to get a cardigan on/off a newborn (especially if they're asleep in a car seat/pram and you don't want to wake them...) is a bit of a nightmare. But you can whip a blanket on/off easily.

Rough rule of thumb is that newborns need one more layer than you are comfortable in. So if you're comfy in a t-shirt, then baby needs a vest and a sleepsuit. If you need a jumper, then put a blanket on baby. If you're sweltering and would like to strip off entirely, then just leave baby in a vest.

For the sleepsuits, look for ones which popper all the way down the middle and the insides of the legs. Ones which have to go over the head or ones that popper down the side are a bit of a hassle. Remember that you'll be doing a lot of nappy changes, so the ability to access the bottom without needing to strip baby off entirely is very useful.

Also, if you're not comfortable trimming your LO's fingernails right away, look for sleepsuits with fold over sections to cover the hands to stop them from scratching themselves. You can use scratch mits but they will fall off. Constantly. Fold over arms are much easier!

Personally, I just trimmed DD's nails when she was a day or two old. But that is a terrifying job, as they are teeny tiny and so soft it's difficult to tell what is nail and what is finger. Not a job for the fainthearted!

There are sleeping bags available from very young, I think there's a weight requirement. DD was in a sleeping bag from about two weeks. Initially she had a blanket, which I safety pinned to the bottom of her moses basket to stop her pulling/kicking it over her head.

Sorry for the essay, hope that helps! :)

mrsmummytobe · 17/02/2014 11:05

I've just joined boots parenting club! I definitely need to go shopping for some newborn stuff I think. Going to do same as mrsfoo & get a range of things I think, then we've got a choice depending on the weather. My friend told me some hospitals only allow cellular blankets on the ward not wool, so I've got 2 of those.

I'm on half term this week so I'd like to get my hospital bag sorted. Going to bite the bullet & get nappies, maternity & breast pads etc I think so I'm all ready!

ClearlyMoo · 17/02/2014 11:42

NEW THREAD KLAXON!!!!

I did it!! Hope it's ok brave face

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/antenatal_clubs/2000316-May-2014-the-Maybies-get-even-closer-to-Definitely

I'm afraid I can't do links to google docs... Please someone else get in and pop them at the top!

Hope it's ok!!!

SicknSpan · 17/02/2014 11:42

dobe My ds1 was born in Dec 2004 so we were in the same situation as you back then. V cold! Remember me telling dh to hurry up defrosting the car on our middle of the night trip to hospital when I was in labour...

Ds2 was July 2008 and a v hot sticky fortnight so tally different clothes, this one likely to be middle of may because of 38 week csection so will be doing a mrsmummy and mrsfoo and getting lots of variety.

Going on a baby shopping extravaganza on Weds- half term and i have the whole weeknif work. The boys are booked into a holiday club for the day so me and bestie who is 20 weeks off for the day. Can't wait, big list ready!

Have a happy Monday all x

SicknSpan · 17/02/2014 11:44

Posting from my phone, blardy thing, I can spell honest!

ClearlyMoo · 17/02/2014 11:44

New thread new thread new thread..

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/antenatal_clubs/2000316-May-2014-the-Maybies-get-even-closer-to-Definitely

impatientlywaiting · 17/02/2014 12:19

Thanks for the new thread Clearly.

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