So sorry to hear the sad news, dobe how awful for your cousin, as you say it makes us feel grateful for our little ones hanging on in there... every week now makes a huge difference to their chances...
clearly if you didn't know you can't have been insensitive, now she's told you I hope you're able to give her the support she needs and that she can share in your joy of your little one.
thistle and moomin sorry to hear about your losses, sending you big hugs.
SO great to hear every-ones bfeeding experiences here, I'm really keen to try but a little worried about the pain etc... can't remember who suggested it but I love the idea of setting little goals to reach... for anyone who's keen maybe we can have a little cheer-leading squad here for each little goal we reach!
Also loving the non-judgemental attitude, a friend here was one of the few unlucky ones who really didn't produce enough milk, despite the huge amount of drugs she was given to bring it in, the pressure she felt, esp from her DH's family seems to have been quite a contributor to the bad PND she suffered from...
dobe hope you get some let up from the pain you're in or can get some crutches to help, it sounds excruciating you poor thing.
Hi to everyone else!!