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Graduated Elerberries - 30+ and expecting DC1 (thread no 4)

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HazleNutt · 14/05/2013 13:00

Welcome old and new graduates and everybody else who wants to join us, elderly primigravidas aka Elderberries.

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janey1234 · 17/05/2013 13:46

Purple - you nearly made me sick with jealousy then over your few 'finishing touches' that need doing, but then I read the rest of the sentence. In a really horrible, kind of sadistic way, I'm glad (sorry) that it's not just me living in complete and utter chaos with a baby due to arrive very, very soon...

Alexandra6 · 17/05/2013 14:12

Selfishly I would like to thank you two for helping to put me off building work this year! Think I've managed to convince DH it's not a good time, especially with recent dramas as I need as much rest as poss. And hey, it will be much easier to manage with a baby on the scene right? Wink

Purplemonster · 17/05/2013 15:54

Yup. UTTER chaos I'm afraid and I only mentioned the attic, you should see the rest of the sty house! Bits of our bedroom ceiling falling off, cracks, entire stud walls that need moving, every single room in the place needs redecorating...but I'm up to my ears in sand so I don't care, la la la.

Alexandra6 · 17/05/2013 17:40

www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/m/pubmed/21280989/

Saw this on another thread. I'll be avoiding dates - purple, dates will be your friend!

Purplemonster · 17/05/2013 17:45

Thanks Alex! Bleurgh I don't like dates but anything for the cause right? Gotta be easier than trying to eat 8 fresh pineapples in a day anyway Wink

BraveLilBear · 17/05/2013 17:49

Lol Alex that's a good find. Completely random though.

May have to acquire that taste as time goes on... Have a lovely weekend everyone (unlikely I'll get back online this weekend) hope you all enjoy Eurovision tomorrow night Grin

Hazle - with all of your affiliations, who will you be rooting for? No way the UK will get more than 5 points yet again - rubbish song, all of pro-Europe hates us cos of Cameron etc...

HazleNutt · 17/05/2013 18:16

Brave still Estonia, although I actually haven't heard the song yet. The singer is pregnant too, by the way - too bad they've decided not to show it off but dress her in some kind of a tent.

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BraveLilBear · 17/05/2013 18:23

Awesome - will wave a small flag of support for Estonia too then Grin

janey1234 · 17/05/2013 18:34

I think you will want them Alex - I think it's saying that once in labour, and admitted to hospital, the latent stage of labour was quicker for those who ate prunes (501 mins vs 928 or something Shock). Think it says there was no difference in gestational age - so eat away!

(Yuck, I hate prunes!)

MotherOfCleo · 17/05/2013 18:58

I hate prunes too, do they still count if you put em in a sauce? I'm thinking casserole or tangine etc?? Grin Maybe I need to man up an learn to enjoy them.

Cavort · 17/05/2013 20:03

Which? review of the Britax B Smart for you Mother. It scored 67%.

The Britax B-Smart three-wheeler pushchair is compatible with the Britax Baby Safe range of car seats and carrycots (which you have to buy separately). Is this three-wheeler pushchair as good across rough ground as on city streets? We put it to the test to find out.

The three-wheeled Britax B-Smart travel system handles rough and smooth terrain with ease, although it is more suited to the city than rural life. It's a reasonable pushchair, but it's heavy, too bulky to use on buses and does not provide a good enough pushing experience to be a Best Buy.

Parent-facing travel system
The B-Smart 3-wheel is suitable from birth up to 15kg (about six months), and has a reversible seat which allows you to interact with your baby face-to-face, or to let them watch the world go by. Car drivers will appreciate the integrated Click and Go adapters, which allow the car seat or carrycot to be fitted and removed very easily.

Comfy seat
Plenty of padding ensures that baby gets a comfortable ride, and the backrest reclines nice and flat for restful snoozes. The recline lever can be operated with one hand - once you've located it beneath the voluminous hood fabric, which can be challenging. The leg rest can be adjusted to provide better leg support, too.

The seat fabric resists stains well and is easy to wipe clean with a damp cloth. The seat covers are also removable.

Weight is a disadvantage
The handlebar is comfortable to use and the angle adjustment provides a range of heights for different users. But this pushchair is not the most comfortable to push - it's heavy and the handle feels a little bendy, particularly on stairs. The wide back wheels make manoeuvring it in tight spaces more difficult too.

You'll feel its weight pulling it up a short flight of stairs, so it's good that it is easy for two people to carry.

Like many three-wheelers it can feel a little off-balance on slopes, wheeling it up or down kerbs and around tight corners.

Bulky when folded
You only need to remove the seat to fold it if the seat is in parent-facing mode. It folds and unfolds very easily and has a clip to keep it together. It's a very bulky 380 litres when folded (55x108x64cm) and weighs 12.5kg. This makes it a heavy pushchair, tricky to lift and move when it is folded, particularly as it has no carry handle.

All the wheels are removable using a quick-release mechanism, but the pushchair is so bulky that you'll need a large car boot to fit it in, even with the wheels off.

Our testers liked the large storage basket, which is easy access, but its shallow back edge means that items could fall out on bumpy ground if you're not careful.

Do you already own this pushchair?
If you do, click the customer views tab - above the picture - and tell us what you think of it.

Pros: Gives a smooth ride even on bumpy terrain, car seat is easy to fit, reversible seat position, easy to recline, good access to storage basket, removable seat covers

Cons: Too bulky for use on public transport, heavy to carry, handle could be improved

Purplemonster · 17/05/2013 20:10

Sod casseroles Mother, if I've got to eat dates they're going in a sticky toffee pudding Grin

janey1234 · 17/05/2013 21:14

Hiccups again.... And theyre always in my fanjo these days, now baby is head down. Most odd. Oh, how my Friday nights have changed!

Quodlibet · 17/05/2013 21:22

We cook this recipe fairly often if you're after a tasty Tagine with prunes, its really yummy and also freezes well if you make a batch.

Thanks for all the reassurance re the spotting, it really was so so so light and went in a day so I think I prob just irritated my cervix Blush. I realised today that I will be so so so glad to have the 12 week scan over on the 31st (two weeks today) and fingers crossed hopefully be finally put of the first-trimester Groundhog Day which I've been in since October it feels like! I think moving into a new trimester is going to feel like a massive shift and hopefully I will finally start feeling like this is actually happening.

Cavort · 17/05/2013 21:22

Mine also gets a lot of hiccups Janey. I wonder if it's likely to continue after they're born?

That's really interesting about the dates. I also hate them but I wonder if you can blend them into a smoothie? I am willing to try anything to lessen my fear of labour and birth. If you have to start gagging at eating them at 36 weeks i've got a few weeks to psyche up to the challenge unlike the perineal massage which I'm supposed to start now.

Purplemonster · 17/05/2013 22:09

Arf at fanjo hiccups, mine gets hiccups a lot...the baby that is, but my nether regions stay well out of it. Maybe Monster baby is the wrong way up, that would be a novel addition to my birth plan woes.

Although according to the stupid woman in my office, who strangely hasn't had children but knows all about it, my baby has moved and is 'in the right position now because you look smaller today, yesterday you looked like you were actually going to pop!' I may have muttered something about me having an amazing shrinking baby under my breath then kindly pointed out that it was perhaps just because I was wearing a looser top today. Fucking idiot people, apparently all I have to do to fix my agonising backache is 'tilt my pelvis' as well, she's full of gems this one Hmm

Glad you're doing ok Quod x

Cavort · 17/05/2013 22:46

Purple YANBU to tell this woman to fuck right off. Unless she has trained as a MW, how could someone who has never done it possibly give pregnancy advice?! You have enough on your plate without having to deal with arseholes.

I think my baby has changed position again because the kicks have moved to different places. I am optimistically hoping she is still head down though. At 20 inches long and nearly 5 pounds I would like to think I would notice her flipping to the other end.

Purplemonster · 17/05/2013 23:04

yes but she's not very bright in her 50s and she's got nieces and nephews so obviously she's an expert...anyway, if I told her to fuck off, what would I do for entertainment for the next 4 weeks? Grin

Cavort · 17/05/2013 23:19

Ahhh I get it Purple Grin

Has anyone bought a changing bag yet? I have just started looking online another one having an exciting Friday night and I am Shock at the price of some of them just for a wipe-clean bag!

Purplemonster · 17/05/2013 23:23

I got a free one from Boots

MotherOfCleo · 18/05/2013 08:19

cheers cavort, hum that doesnt sound so good! Ideally I want to be able to fit pram and pooch in the boot, so pram needs to fold up pretty small. Hmm

Haha, about the sticky toffee pud Grin I dont really do desserts yes I know Im a freak I'm more into savory, but that does sound like an awesome way to eat them! Cheers for the tangine recipe sounds yummy!

MotherOfCleo · 18/05/2013 09:12

is it odd that I'm only 15+3 but I have this urge to try out prams Confused

Ive sold the sofabed and rowing machine which are in the current games room, soon to be babies room. I figure I need to clear it out before I can start buying things. Grin

Cavort · 18/05/2013 10:29

It's not odd at all Mother, I was desperate to start buying all the cute stuff and, like you, had to force myself to wait until we'd sorted out the baby's room so I had somewhere to put everything. As soon as the room was finished I went a bit mad on the baby buying. Blush

MotherOfCleo · 18/05/2013 10:32

Glad I'm not alone cavort Grin

MotherOfCleo · 18/05/2013 10:53

I bought my first baby items yesterday Smile 2 babygrows, one says 'I love mummy' one says 'I love daddy' they were too cute to resist and only cost £1.50 each. Then I got home and my OH had also bought something, a little tshirt for his favourite team. Think its becoming very real to us both now. Smile

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