that took forever to read through! i've only been gone a week but you've all been very busy!
arabica, haven't had the chance to check your thread yet but my thoughts are with you today pet, best of luck 
so incredibly sorry to hear about sheonas lose, hope you find the comfort and support you need sweetheart, {{{hugs}}}
was poked at by a consultant last week because of the braxton hicks and she said baby is head down (he has been since 25 weeks as i'm quite small and he got stuck turning the last time) and 'a good size', which is irish for huge, so like Snowboo i'm planning for a july baby by the looks of it.
not measuring myself anymore as everyone who sees me feels the need to point out that i'm as big as i was at 8 months with dd and it's depressing me, luckily it's all bump again this time though, actually managed to buy myself a size 10 non-maternity top the other day thats really long and stretchy so it covers the bump. that cheered me up no end 
the books i'd recommend would be the Vicky Iovine one for pregnancy supplemented with lots of magazines, and 'what to expect- the first year' for after, massive but it covers everything and is unbiased for the most part so it doesn't make you feel like your failing when things aren't going to plan like some of the other books tend to do
welcome to all the new people by the way, can't get over what a busy month novenber must have been 
off to enjoy some more lovely sunshine now, had a glorious day yesterday and spent it on the beach, nothing like freezing cold atlantic water to cool down a pregnant woman! luckily being a week day it was pretty quiet though so i didn't frighten too many people with the gient belly in my pre-pregnancy bikini! dd and i are all tanned and golden now though and dp is burnt to a cinder bless him and his irish skin 
sorry for the long post, been in withdrawal not coming on for a week!