Oh, I find girls names easy, it's just that DH doesn't agree with my choices and he likes dull middle aged woman names names that sound like his class register from his primary school!
Annoyingly, have just looked at the thread in baby names about pretty names, I'd already suggested Persephone or Genevieve as both names I love but DH absolutely hates (so have been taken off the list as it's not fair to ask him to have a DD with a name he hates), and I have another couple I have loved for a long time that I've nagged in into submission over I'm bringing him round to - it's just between those two now if it is a girl and I'm not sure which I prefer, yet now reading that list, someone has suggested "Lydia". Now, I actually like that too. (and I've always had a soft spot for Lydia Bennet in P&P, she strikes me as a lot of fun!) I'm now considering adding it to my name list, but that makes it 3 girls names I'm arguing for, and then DS's name starts with "L" - that rather starts a trend if we want more DCs to have to give them an "L" name...
Boy name is pretty much sorted, DH and I both like the same shortened name, but we both agree a 'nickname' shouldn't go on the birth certificate. The name we like has 2 possible "long" names (well, actually more, but 2 main ones) and we both like a different one. He's said he's happy to compromise on that, mainly because I think he doesn't think we'll actually use the long name except when telling the boy off (I might have given this impression, but fully intend to use the long name once I've got it on the birth certificate and make sure everyone else does, sneeky, me?!? 
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