Wow baby explosion!
congratulations to all the new parents.
I'm still very much lacking in Internet or phone, I feel like a bloody hermit. 
J is 8 days old now, I'm still having cracking after pains but the bleeding has pretty much stopped and my hips are a lot better.
I have an advent breast pump that I can't get suction on at all so still have a small person attached to my breast pretty much always. I'm considering a dummy but maybe still too soon and I worry I'll regret it on a few weeks time.
He's co sleeping with us at night and has for the last 2 nights, latched himself onto the breast whilst I've been asleep so I've awoken to the little milk vampire happily suckling away. 
He's got quite spotty and has lots if dry flaky skin on his chest and tummy, can I use any massage baby creams/oils to help him?