April 2013....from Flumper to Bump! (Part 4)

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Over here!

Another place for us April 2013 Ladies!

We have old thread & stats threads as below:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/antenatal_clubs/1569780-April-2013-part-3-scan-scan-scan

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/antenatal_clubs/1560543-April-2013-stats-thread

As the days darken & winter approaches may this thread bring us all blossoming bumps, peaceful nights & more friendship and laughter.

Essex I also think you should call your midwives, it's what they're there for, they won't think you're fussing, honest :)
There should be a number in your folder of notes to call. Or just ring the hospital switchboard and ask for the midwife team.

Hopefully it's nothing but better to check, for peace of mind if nothing else :)

essexwelsh I agree that calling your midwife is a good idea. Better safe than sorry.

mama I hope that baby is not in distress and pray that you can both hold on for another few weeks. I am so sorry that your scan brought stressful news after all you have been through.

Our scan on Thursday revealed that baby's heart had stopped. Labour was induced the next day. Baby was a girl--Rachel. This is not our first late loss so not completely out of the blue.

I will continue to follow the threads and I look forward to births in April.

cadmum I'm so so so sorry no word can really express, I wish you all well and take time for yourself x

mama I have everything crossed for you and your little boy and hoping the next 2 weeks go quickly x

cadmum all my thoughts are with you. No matter whether it was out of the blue or not I cannot imagine how you deal with that news. I hope you have all the support you need in RL and do take the time you need for yourself. Lots of un-MN hugs.

cadmum I'm so sorry for your loss, that's just so sad. Lovely that you named her, but so sorry you've had to go through this. Hugs.

cadmum you poor thing - I'm so sorry for you. I can't imagine how awful it must be to have to deal with that. I hope we can all send you some strength to help you through.

essexwelsh I have had similar - midwife says that's it's nothing to worry about and if it is part of the plug, it can regenerate. She said that (tmi alert!) sex or straining for a poo can cause it.
Still worth calling your midwife though for peace of mind.

So sorry cadmum you are already being so strong, best of luck with the coming days.

I spoke to midwife who told me to phone local EPAU, they took details, asked if I had had sex, yes we DTD yesterday (3rd time since finding out), so they said was probably that, but the amount and texture has put me on edge a bit. Triage midwife told me to rest today and monitor any changes and if I get any pain call straight away.

Again sorry cadmum don't want to take away from what you are currently experiencing.

Cadmum I'm so sorry for your loss xxx nothing we will say can take away your hurt and upset. Just stay strong xxxx

Oh cadmum I'm so very sorry for your loss. Rachel is a beautiful name. I don't know what to say but I'm thinking of you. You are very kind to think of me at this time it is so appreciated. Be gentle with yourself and take care sending love and hugs whether they are mumsnetty or not.

cadmum I'm so sorry. Wishing you as much peace as possible and I hope you can rest up a lot and be very kind to yourself for a long time.

mama 1980 crossing everything for you

xxx

So sorry to hear such sad news cadmum can only imagine how heart breaking it must be, not only now but to go thru this again. My thoughts are with u and ur family x

cadmum I'm so sorry for the loss of your baby girl. Sending you hugs and strength to get through this difficult time xx

Sorry to hear your news cadmum thinking of you xx

So sorry cadmum to hear your news..beautiful name xxx

Wow cadmum that's so sad. Even if it's happened before nothing takes away from the sadness of it, especially this far on. Hope you get all the support and rest you need.

I was going to post about accidentally eating goat's cheese. Seems a bit trivial now!

So sorry cadmum, nothing I can say will make it any better but just to know I'm thinking of you and will light a candle tonight for you and your daughter. Big hugs. X

I had my scan today. We're having a boy and he's now due on 1st May.

So sorry for your loss Cadmum.

I also had my scan today. I'm going to even it up again - we're having a girl.

Cadmum so sorry to hear of the loss of your beautiful Rachel. Such a lovely name you chose for her. Sending you lots of love & gentle hugs as you recover from the physical side of Rachel's birth. Hoping that you are surrounded by loving family and friends who can support you & your partner.

Mama also sending lots of love & thoughts to you tonight.

cadmum so very sorry. Hope you are ok as you can be in the circumstances

Cadmum I am so sorry to hear about your terrible loss. I hope in RL you are surrounded by caring people who can give you the support you need at this time. Thinking of you, your partner and your beloved Rachel. XXX

So sorry cadmum. aufaniae just wondered how your scan was i remember you were concered about some problems before xx

Oh cadmum I am so, so sorry for your loss. Know that we are all thinking of you, your partner and baby Rachel. I hope you have lots of love and support from those around you at this very sad time. Sending you proper hugs, be gentle on yourself xxx