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March 2013 Mk IV: Knicker-checking; knicker-wetting; knicker-knackered

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tiddleypompom · 25/08/2012 11:03

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/antenatal_clubs/1535575-March-2013-Mk-III-Hopefully-the-nausea-will-wear-off-soon

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/antenatal_clubs/1499519-March-2013-stats-thread

There you go chick-a-dees

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theTramp · 30/08/2012 08:07

Morning all. Happy Birthday viv!!!!

Zoey et al - don't worry too much pre scan & enjoy saying hi to your beans.

JoJo - I wish MrM had thought to get me one this morning.

I'm having a duvet day, feeling seriously ropey. But because builder is in working on doors in bedroom & bathroom today I've moved from bed to ugly uncomfy sofa. Me, the v big duvet, two cats & shortly my lap top. Sofa based work today. Snottiness feels like full blown cold today & I'm just feeling exhausted. Despite long nap & early night. What will be will be I suppose.

Viv - opening ceremony tickets - that's fantastic. We don't have a TV so I've yet to see it, what was the show like?

sundaesundae · 30/08/2012 08:55

Morning all, I feel much better about it this morning. I was just panicking that maybe there was something wrong as I was SOOO sure of my dates, and then i thought about my dates and my periods and can get how I am 10 days or so out.

I feel grim this morning, my hormones seem to be peaking, so that is right for 10+5 and it also explains why my first preggo test was so feint and then I had some negs, it was because it was much earlier than I thought, so that is better.

Going back on the 12th for an EDD proper and NT and to look at the other things they check at 12 weeks.

I'm also not sure about telling people now, we were going to tell the would thinking I was 12+2 but now I am 10+5 not sure!

Sorry about mememe haven't caught up yet!

Funnylittleturkishdelight · 30/08/2012 09:07

Sundae I know how you feel- I was four weeks out when I went to my dating scan!! I just couldn't figure out why I'd got 3+ weeks on my test when I was only 14 days at that point (counting from DOC) and I have concluded that my maths teacher was right- numbers are a mystery to me! I would tell people at 10 but it is up to you- the next two weeks will fly by AND you get an extra scan! Whoop!

Zoey, I hope I get scanned again as I worry do much about not getting enough food to Turkish. I've even been drinking bloody complan like an old lady! Bring on the wiggling so I can feel more reassured he or she is ok in there!

Off for a serious hair cut today- my waist length hair needs a proper trim!

tiddleypompom · 30/08/2012 09:08

Morning all,
Very quick post to tell manda that there is a prog about twins on Radio 4 at 9.30 - thought it might be of interest.
sundae sorry the scan through you off course a bit - but glad you are happier this morning. These EDDs are really only a guide anyway and most of our Marcher babies will be born right out of sequence! I was brought forward with DS by a week and was sooo chuffed. He then proceeded to be born a week late - typical!
Happy days all
:)

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mandasand · 30/08/2012 09:44

Good luck to everyone having a scan today!

Happy Birthday to you, Vivee! Hope you have fun things planned .. and cake! Cake is very important!

Glad you're happier about your dates sundae and hurray for your waving bean! It's a difficult one whether to tell people before 12 weeks. If you're worried about MC, the private clinic I went to for 8 week scan said my chances of MCing dropped from 20% to 2% after 8 weeks (and you can halve that if you're under 35). So, on that basis I'd say you're in a pretty good place. But you might just want to keep it to yourselves for a wee while, anyway. I know DH and I enjoyed it being a secret for a while then sharing it with all and sundry (apart from my boss who is the only person in the world who doesn't know! ? waiting for him to come back from hols and then for a face-to-face meeting, eek).

Funny I'm seeing consultant obstetrician for first time next week, but for different medical reasons. Not sure how often I'll have to go back but I think I will remain high risk throughout pregnancy, regardless of any of the medical conditions, because it's twins and first birth.

Kirsty I think they need to combine the blood tests I had with MW were for my health - and they phoned the next day with two problems (low potassium + borderline u/active thyroid) - but at the hospital for 12wk scan on Sat they took new bloods and did nuchal test and now I'm waiting for the combined results of those (tho they didn't feel anything was wrong from the visual measurements they took).

Pip oh dear, I feel your crossness! How bloody annoying. Hope somehow it can be sorted out so he can be there. My DH hasn't got a diary. He is clueless. He didn't even know that it was a bank holiday on Mon till I told him (and pre-me had a history of turning up to work on Saturdays or BH Mondays!!) But, thankfully his job requires him just to commune with a computer and rarely to do anything else, so I can be in charge of the diary and I just shepherd him about as and when...

Backward well done on the final TMA! And good luck for revision! In addition to my main job, I also serve as an associate lecturer on one of the OU's humanities courses in the south region and it's by far and away the most rewarding univ teaching I've done. Yay for OU students!

What a nice boss Three!

Bless your OH for that morning cup of tea, JoJo! What a star! And how great just to crack on with the work on the house. What an oddly precise figure, but how reassuring that it's a very good stat! Last night's butternut squash dinner was lovely. Had it with the last batch of peas and some of our endless supply of French beans from the lottie. And I roasted all the squash so we'll have it again tonight with cous cous! And since you ask (you may regret it!!) ?. I've not done so well on the book this week but I have done a lot of administrative stuff - sent off two abstracts for Calls for Papers, sorted out mat. leave with the OU, done a big publicity drive for a conference I'm organising, cancelled talks etc I was scheduled to do Feb/Mar, dealt with first round of queries from copy-editor for a book that's in press, and - most importantly - got my editor to agree to a couple of extra weeks for the book that's supposed to be in on Friday, woop! Really pleased about that tho the timing is pants as I need to get it in and move on because boss has been very good in letting me have the summer off to write it and I'm about to put major spanner in works re mat. leave. Sorry for essay! So, I have a bit of breathing space re book but can't afford to slack off any more as it's business as usual with my job from next week, yikes!

mandasand · 30/08/2012 09:45

And I spent so long writing that epic post that I missed Tiddley's note about the R4 twins prog! Will get it on listen again - thanks, my dear! Hope all's well with you and family.

zoeymlucas · 30/08/2012 09:51

Well have been for my scan. walked down the hall and consultant was just coming out to find me so went straight in for once :)

We have a very dramatic baby who the whole time had its hand on its forehead, was very wiggly and jumped a couple of times when he changed angles with the scanner. He showed us all the face, hands and feet and was very good as showing my DS1 (9) everything with baby which was nice. Tried to look at nub angle but baby had its ankles crossed and refused to move them at all.
Got some lovely pics of baby with hand on head :) Second scan was much the same and as was only a dating scan just agreed with consultants date :)

Due date is still 13.03.13 and I am 12+1 today he said baby was perfect size and no point adjusting due date by a few days either way as its really only a very rough guide for me!!!

Feeling so much better now and hoping everyone has an equallly lovely scan today - have my next scan booked for 3 weeks today, a week after operation to check everything :)

StealthToddler · 30/08/2012 10:03

fingers crossed for all with scans today - lovely to see baby for the first time! Glad yours was fine Zoey
Can't remember who was shocked at me having been told with pg3 that I was miscarrying but then finding out I was ok - it was the stupid A&E dr who examined me and told me that my cervix was open and baggy and that I was 97% for sure miscarrying. Then the early pregnancy unit couldn't see me for another 3 days so we went to a private place later that day and they were like "what is she talking about" - everything was fine. I was bleeding because of a low placenta and it stopped later that day but was very scary. the early pregnancy unit told to me to ignore the A&E dr as because I had already had 2 children my cervix is always going to be a bit baggy and feel a bit like it might be opening! Lovely!
When I had problems with my second PG it turned out I lost a twin, so as I have had problems at 11-12 weeks in the last 2 weeks pregnancies I am still feeling very nervous, particularly as I was at work the last time that I started bleeding very badly and I am terrified of it happening again. I was told at my latest scan that I don't have either of these issues this time, so I am just crossing my fingers as whilst I didn't MC it was still very scary. I cant' imagine what those of you who have MC have been through, but I completely relate to the fear about what could happen.
I only need to hide it for today as am working from home today and then my boss is back on monday so shall be very happy to unburden myself!
Feeling very emotional as my oldest son is starting school on thursday next week and am so used to having a small tribe of little boys at home. Am takign lots of time off next week to help him settle in, but know I will cry lots! he will probably be fine!
epic post - sorry - can you tell am bored at work!!!!

sarahs999 · 30/08/2012 10:21

Bonjour tout le monde. Good luck all scanees, we're rooting for you!

I had a very disappointing maternity parcel from ebay yesterday. You know when you are really looking forward to something and you've already mentally put together outfits etc and then it arrives and all hopes are dashed? I'm kind of cross actually.

So, all these were supposedly brand new with tags, but they all smelt musty, like they'd been in the wardrobe for years. So that put me off first. And then I had to check and recheck that they were actually maternity wear. There was a denim skirt, long and tight, which tbh only just fits me now, it has a really mean stretch in it - can't imagine it lasting past four months. How on earth can they call that maternity? And a white vest top that is shorter than my current vest top - hello? Plus a chunky cardigan that looked sort of wheat coloured in the pic but is basically a sort of munge colour. Don't like it, frumpy. And a long blue dress from jojo maman which is very tight and far too revealing even at the moment. And these are all the right size for me, allegedly! The only thing that was sort of good was a coral linen sleeveless top, but that's going to be pretty useless in the winter. Bah.

Still, at least I ordered my isabella oliver dresses yesterday :)

And this morning at 5am I ordered a bump band so that I can continue to wear my normal clothes for as long as possible because tbh I'm a bit disillusioned with it all.

And after yesterday's poomageddon I ate a large bowl of prunes for breakfast in case you're interested! Stand well back...

theTramp · 30/08/2012 10:39

MrM has informed me that the whole not telling anyone is getting embarassing now and he's looking forward to next week's scan so that we can. He thinks I look pregnant and it is all very obvious. I suspect it is all bloating and flab - but I agree, there is a proper bump, but I think I look fat rather than preggers, so rather nice to know he thinks I look preggers. :)

Zoey - how lovely. So you have yourself a RADA grad in the waiting :)

Stealth - I understand your fear completely and it sounds very rational to me. I think part of the worry is that there is nothing you can do about it. You want something to be within your control, but apart from avoiding foods you are told to avoid and not drinking alcohol or caffene there isn't really much you can do. It is frustrating and a little frightening.

Sarah - I would be miffed to. Much as I love buying things online, I prefer doing so from stores where I already roughly no their fit on me so that I don't get that horrible disapointed feeling when clothing arrives and it is either too small or too large. Or indeed, not at all what I was led to expect based on pic. I haven't bought any clothes from eBay because I would fully expect them to be 'all wrong'. This is based on no experience or facts at all by the way. I'm hoping the IO dress works - I went a size bigger than I usuall would because it looked like it was meant to be worn as a tight dress and I thought a little looseness might be better with my present figure. I always buy jumper dresses at least a size, often two, bigger than I am as well - I think they're more flattering that way. Or perhaps just more forgiving...

I'm feeling enormously sorry for myself here on the sofa, sneezing away and trying not to feel sick as I attempt to make my way through my task list. I may send MrM off for comfort food at lunch time, although right now crunchy nut cornflakes are doing the job.

dameflamingo · 30/08/2012 12:10

I turn my back for five minutes and y'all go and move house! hello everyone hope that you are all doing fabulously.

I'm going to catch up on the 336 posts I've missed now.... but quick heads up ( me me me post alert)

Had my 12 week scan - all good - nuchal transparency and blood test came back with a low risk result and although I'm still being a bit sick I am feeling happy.

JoJoBella84 · 30/08/2012 12:18

Wahey I met my little bambi again. Growing nicely and now too big to be measured head to rump so it was all about head circumference etc! Oddly my dates suggest im 15+5 but the sonographer kept referring to me as 16+1 and the assistant in the clinic has just jotted me down as 16+0... Im so confused!!
Unfortunately the cyst has also grown so I'm waiting to head into the clinic with the specialist. This could take some time as its blooming busy and I wasn't booked in!! Poor oh has had to dash off to work so I'm stranded in the middle of Aberdeen with maps on my phone when I'm ready to leave!! I can do this!! Could murder a jacket potato right now!! I've already munched my way through two bags of crisps!! And a huge bag of peanut m&m's!!

zoeymlucas · 30/08/2012 12:23

Glad you had a lovely scan Jojo and hope every goes well with consultant re your cyst and keep us posted - you have made me hungry so might have to pop to Tesco in a second to grab some food as beely is growling as havent eaten yet today!

Havent properly announced pregnancy yet so cant plaster my pictures everywhere so have put one on my profile here of baby with hand over face, sneaky :)

dameflamingo · 30/08/2012 12:31

Wow Zoe that is so cool!! just taken a sneaky peak!!

JoJoBella84 · 30/08/2012 12:42

zoey how do you do that???! I don't know how to access any of that!!

zoeymlucas · 30/08/2012 12:49

Go to 'My mumset' then 'My Photos' and then add album and upload from pc and you can choose who sees it etc etc - this way I could feel I shared it and DH cant tell me of Grin

pinkpeony4 · 30/08/2012 12:55

Zoey, JoJo, Flamingo & Sundae yippee for good scans Grin

Stealth when I was pregnant with ds3 the midwife told me that my womb would be 'baggy' with it being my third. Dread to think what it is like now! Makes you feel great to be described in this way!!

Vivee Happy Birthday! Hope you enjoyed the opening ceremony. My birthday is tomorrow so it's a good time of year to be born!! Smile

Tramp I hope you feel better. A duvet day sounds lovely Envy

pinkpeony4 · 30/08/2012 12:56

Sorry pressed send too soon.

Sarah rubbish about your ebay purchases. I am always a bit wary too because I have heard so many stories about stuff arriving stinking or totally wrong. It's a shame because it should be the perfect place to get stuff from. Can you re-list it?

Funnylittleturkishdelight · 30/08/2012 13:04

Right, so far today I have had two bowls of cereal, bacon sandwich and a daim milk shake...and not had lunch yet! So glad my hunger is kicking in again!

Thanks for the reassurance from ladies under consultants- it makes me feel better about it.

Ugh school on Monday. Why did I waste my six weeks with morning sickness?? It was my last ever six weeks and I spent it in the bathroom!!

Sheldonella · 30/08/2012 13:04

Just a quickie before I catch up properly. I'm back from my scan and have a lovely bouncy baby measuring 12+5! That makes me due on 9/3/13 now which is lovely. NT measurement was 1.6mm which I think is ok. So happy :)

theTramp · 30/08/2012 13:16

Sheld - fab fab fab news

Dame - also fab news and JoJo - more fab news, and Im sure cyst can be sorted.

Sounds like a great day all round.

Thanks for well wishes folks. Oddly Im having quite a productive day so far so not all bad.

ThreeForTea · 30/08/2012 13:27

Ah, loving the good scan news!

Nothing to report here today but enjoying reading stories and news :)

EthelredOnAGoodDay · 30/08/2012 13:30

Another one here living all the good news!!! Having very trying day at workAngry! Talk more later.

EthelredOnAGoodDay · 30/08/2012 13:30

*loving
gaaah!!

tiddleypompom · 30/08/2012 13:40

Just popped on for another quickie (is it just me or did that sound rude?). Fab fab fab to hear happy scan stories - a full house today, yes? I should coco. Enjoy those photos and give the belly a rub from fellow marchers :)

Just back from toddlers group. Not feeling like such a newbie now but still no 'clicks' with any particular mum. Am shattered after chasing DS about, as yesterday he learnt to walk pushing a trolley, and he now wishes to practise this feat 24/7.

Boo to crap eBay bundle. Boo to maternity clothes in general unless you can afford the full IO collection (which I most definitely cannot). I swear DS is better dressed than I am most days, with his cool Breton stripes and cord dungarees. Dude.

Anyone tried Gap? Bit dull but some useful staples.

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