Welcome hitch... Nice to have you on board.
Congrats tiddley. Ok, re. Being a SAHM, there is no 'just' being a SAHM about it! Your days will be very very full. Hard work, especially physically with my DS but absolutely frickin' wonderful. Sometimes I pang to go back to work (I was an analyst in London, loved the work, team, social life, pay, everything) but I have realised my experience of work would be so very different now. There would be no after work drinks, or staying late to get something finished. It would be rush rush rush. And my commute would be 2 hr 15 mins a day. In short, it is a lot of fun being a SAHM and has its amazing highlights I.e. picnic lunched in the garden whethe sun is shining, but let's be honest, it can be boring, mundane and highly frustrating. Overal though, wouldn't change it for the world ATM. Plan to go back to work when no. 2 is 3. Depending of course on whether we can afford it.
Anyway, I have real shooting pains on my left side. I remember from first time I had this. In fact it was why I went to the doctors in the first place the first time around (I had no idea I was pregnant as wasn't trying). This time of course I know this is normal, but it is terrifying. Real shooting pain. Will mention to midwife tomo.
Busy day entertaining people today, going to tell my very closest friend about the pregnancy. She has been ttc for many months now. I am considering holding off maybe, although our other very close friend knows. Oh, I don't like this. She is so dear to me, I don't want her to feel sad, even though I know she will put suck a brave face on it.
Sorry to waffle, have a good day xxxxx