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ishopthereforeiam · 04/06/2012 03:20

Congratulations again to poppy, here's to the rest of us still with increasingly big bumps Wine Brew or Biscuit of your choice!

Bring on the final trimester in all it's glory!

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NeedlesCuties · 22/06/2012 10:52

Hello!

It is pelting with rain here :( Went out this morning to get groceries and had to change my shoes and trousers when I got home as I was soaked up to mid-calf level! Urgh!

Currently making a huge amount of soup for a church fundraiser event tomorrow. Thing is, I actually can't go to said fundraiser as DH is working and it's too late in evening for DS. But just thought I'd be nice and cook for them anyway.

Very excited as this afternoon I'm having a 'bump' photoshoot done Grin A local photographer is doing a 'bump-baby' offer which is photoshoot when pregnant, another when DC is born, another when DC is 6 months and another when DC is 1 year old.

I've asked if it is possible for DH and DS to come along too, so it's a family portrait. So we're looking forward to it.... well, DS is as he loves posing for pics! DH is grumbling a bit, but I'm sure he's just being modest. Can't wait to see what the pics look like!

Hope everyone is doing well. >waves and shares round some yummy soup<

(31 weeks today)

frillylemons · 22/06/2012 11:19

OLA!

Soup sounds nice Needles :) You are a good citizen! It would be nice if our church did something like that...

IT'S FRIDAY!!

Any nice plans for the W/E? I don't know what we'll be doing. I am desperate for DH to hurry up and finish painting the coving and getting the skirting board done in the nursery so I can NEST! I WANT TO BLOODY NEST!!

tashaw28 · 22/06/2012 11:56

Congrat's Ham that's amazing news!!

Welsh we put the moses basket in the cot next to our bed and attach the mobile to the cot,also means the basket is nice and safe if you have little ones as you can put the cot bars up, and you don't need to buy a stand!

Re c sections, I had to have a planned one for DS2 after natural for DD1 as he was breech, and have to say it was a very pleasant experience! (It was planned so no rush etc), worst part was the not eating all day before, but if you as for a drip as soon as you're in hosp then at least you are having fluids as don't dehydrate/get a headache etc. Also ask for the screen to be lowered as they pull baby out, it really amazing sight!
The only thing that really shocked me was the fact that the operating theatre was basically an open corridor with people milling about all over the place, chatting, music etc, very casual, I was expecting something like Grays Anatomy I think!

All good here but over the last few days loads of people have commented on how big I've got suddenly, GREAT!!!!

32 tomorrow!!!

susiegrapevine · 22/06/2012 12:09

welsh we had a light up singing winnie the pooh to put in the moses basket that soothed ds after we discovered actually you can't put mobile on the basket!
Ishop will tax credits not supplement nursery fees?? Or could you not go back part time.

Got scan date now! Tues 3rd july. Everyone says how small my bump looks so really is my baby gonna be big?? I am so confused!

Busy weekend as we have ds's 2nd b'day party and I still have this horrid cough!! And now dh is feeling unwell and took the day off work (mainly so he can survive the weekend I think!! How will we get the energy to get everything ready!!!

Lovemarmite · 22/06/2012 12:25

Oh yes please to yummy soup, it feels like winter again! Brrr

Great to hear you have your scan date through susie!
We have our scan on the 2nd July and I think this is our last one, but not sure. Our consultant sonographer is a little strict and was quite abrupt to us last time and so hoping she maybe a little nicer as she bears her tools on my stretched belly!
yes, me too very large now: 33 weeks tomorrow.
LO has decided to get more active all day now and I'm getting constant pummelling and a weird feeling of constant buzzing too.

Hoping to get LO's bedroom finished with all the decorating this weekend. The black out blind is arriving today and the ceiling needs another coat of paint and then some of the furniture is coming early next week including the moses basket.
Hmm we're also being mad as the garden is undergoing a complete transformation too (new garden office / build) and so we'll be having workmen here right up until I'm 39 weeks - are we crazy for doing this?

PictureThis · 22/06/2012 12:42

Just home from a night in hospital. My naughty little boy has been practising his best karate moves in utero which started off some contractions. All tests were negative fortunately but they kept me in for observation. I've been sent home under instruction to rest, so rest I will. 30+4 today and I'd rather he stay put for a bit longer.

Lovemarmite · 22/06/2012 13:00

Hope you're able to have a big rest and feel better Picturethis and LO behaves himself, maybe a black belt in training?!

ishopthereforeiam · 22/06/2012 13:07

Picture hope you're feeling ok? How frequent were the contractions?

Susie Am thinking of going part time to be honest, I want a balance of working sometimes but also being home : i want to have my cake and eat it

Needles great work on the soup making. Very good of you! Making me hungry. Enjoy the bump shoot, sounds like lots of fun!

Frilly I want to nest too but as we have no idea if we're moving or not as it's all taking sooooo long it's tough. Having said that I gave in and bought some new bedding for kingsize bed today which we don't have (!) unless/until we move...

Tash thanks - that's reassuring. With dd I was induced and epidural and didn't eat for ages (which was fine) either. Is it scary to see a gaping hole tho if the screen is lowered (I faint / get light headed if I see blood and gore)!?

3bears am going to start reading soon, think it will cheer me up from the grumps!

For when the babies are here (35 days for me!) this is very good photos of baby Ignoring the competition we just found it a very good way to find a local photographer who is affordable and has done 3 great shoots of dd. One at 3 months, one when she was sitting (6-9 months) and one when she was walking (recently) and they have all come out so well. Also used it as an opportunity to get some family pics and bump pics too. If you don't want to buy the photos you don't have to but you get 3 free pics in a nice folder. Grin Also not sure if anyone's mentioned the bounty portraits they do them in hospital and we got some of dd. You can take in pink / blue blanket / soft toys if you want them included in the pics. It's nice to have that picture of them looking all wrinkly and brand new! Ok enough of the unwanted advice. DH is taking me to lunch to cheer me up xxx

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MrsMigginslovespies · 22/06/2012 15:10

Thanks for the photo advice Ishop. It's something I'm keen to do but not sure where to start and also not sure we could afford our hideously expensive (but amazing) wedding photographer again.

Am really craving cherry bakewells. Am going to make a proper bakewell pudding later and try not to eat it all myself. Yum.

Frilly, as you may realise, realy REALLY want to nest...totally share that feeling and long for the day when it's all done and lovely. We've got to post up nursery pictures when all finished!

Feeling really tired now after all the driving about doing bits and bobs, plus had 40 min walk with Dad and Ddog earlier, so bit achy too now. But my Angelcare monitor and hall sensor light has arrived (no idea what's happened to the changing mat that was also in the same order...) which is exciting. Can't wait to road test it at the weekend with DH! Am imagining all kinds of Smokey and the Bandit-type stupidness with sound checks Grin.

Have a lovely weekend all. We've got nowt planned except finally spending some time together aswe've only had 2 nights at home together over the past 8 days. We're seeing a friend on Sunday who had a little boy in April, so looking forward to talking about babies again! Have a good Friday ladies xx

hamncheese · 22/06/2012 15:37

Ditto on the HUGE chest freezer at the new place ishop ... argh all this waiting!! Was also going to mention PT work but got to it first as I read down :) Also I THINK that they can lower the screen so you don't see the big hole but JUST above it and baby emerging

Photos sound great needles :) I always planned on doing like each month pics of the pregnancy and then til 1 year of the LO but MS came and blew that right out the water so never followed through!!

Hope everything is going ok picture and LO continues to stay put!

Back from the cloth nappy meet today. Upshot is there are lots of options. I think the best thing seems to be to get a few different types at first to try out in the early days and see what you like, using disposables until you get the full stock. They can fit from 7lbs though. There seem to be two main types - all in ones, and ones with layers, i.e. fitted nappy with separate cover.

The all in ones are all sewn together with towelling nappy on inside, waterproof cover on outside and inserts that slide in/out. Has velcro or poppers on outside only to secure. Pros= all in one so no hassle, bits etc. Cons= take ages to dry, more likely to leak than fitted. These come in one size fits all with poppers and elastic that expands as baby grows, but hence will not be a totally perfect fit all the time. You can also get different sizes.

The other is a soft formed towelling nappy with poppers or velcro. In this there is a pouch to add in other booster pads for more absorption. This then goes in a "wrap" which is a waterproof cover which goes over/around the nappy hence being less likely to leak. Pros= less likely to leak, dry quicker as in bits. Cons=more bits/hassle. These come in size 1 and size 2, size 1 will fit from birth to 6 months. Size 2 6 months on to a certain weight (see the nappy).

There is also the option to use the wrap covers with a towelling or bamboo flat nappy olden days style with nappy pins OR these things called nappi nippas which do the same job. You make up the nappy for baby and then just put it inside the wrap. So you could use a mix of flat nappies and fitted formed ones with a universal wrap. This will provide the most flexible situation in terms of the nappies fitting your baby as it gets bigger.

With both there are the benefits of adding extra layers/booster pads inside. In terms of practicality you basically get a nappy bin with a mesh bag that sits in it. You put the dirty ones in there and then chuck the mesh bag in the washing machine. If you are washing lots of baby clothes anyway it makes little difference to the number of washes a week, prob only one more. You can put a little water with tea tree oil into the bottom of the nappy bin too which takes away smells. When out and about you just put the used nappy in a waterproof zip/toggle bag and then into nappy bin or washing machine at home.

To be totally using disposables (once you have picked the kind you want to use) you will need at a minimum 12 nappies, better 15-20. If using layers then you will also need wrap covers probably about 6. You can rinse and dry these quicker you see as are waterproof. You will also want to buy a stash of booster pads for inside, probably around 10.

Another two things that help are fleece inserts which are just pieces of fleece making an extra layer right next to baby's skin which takes water away from the baby and also catches any poo. These can be washed too though recommended that you flush the poo first once baby is on solids. If that is a bit hands on with the poo then you can buy biodegradable flushable liners that go in which catch the poo and you just put down the toilet, they dissolve in the sewer water in 8 hours so don't end up in landfill.

Cloth nappies are less likely to cause nappy rash. Also there is less likelihood of a poo explosion scenario.

Final thing to mention apparently you get biodegradable disposable nappies. However what the don't tell you is that these are only going to biodegrade in certain situations i.e. a compost bin, NOT in landfill, in a nappy sack, in a black bag, on top of rubbish and nowhere near things that will degrade them. So for the environment-minded that's a heads up that you may think you are doing the right thing but are not. However those nappies use less chemicals in the making process/ are better for baby's skin in general so still better than regular disposables in that sense!

PHEW. Sorry it's so long but put up incase anyone wanted the info. Feel free to ask me if there is anything else I may have learned and can pass on. I think I am going to get a few different types of layered ones (so some fitted and some wrap covers) and start off with trying out these along with disposables at the very beginning, probably buy 3 different kinds and one wrap cover (the GEN-Y as it will fit any nappy inside it and is the softest outer) and see how it goes.

hamncheese · 22/06/2012 15:44

example of all in one

example of fitted nappy

example of nappy wrap that goes over the fitted nappy

boosters look like this

Lovemarmite · 22/06/2012 16:24

Wow ham thanks for the info! you can tell you're a research Masters :o

DH and I spent most of Saturday morning getting to grips with nappies and which type to get and we chose (after a recommendation on here) the little lamb ones. I think we're going to try the bamboo as they're meant to be the most absorbent for night time. Little lamb seemed to have the most information on the website and DH liked the FAQ which answered lots of our silly questions! Also the nappy lady does demos of them on youtube and other types with a comparison of them too.

Also looking at using disposables in first few weeks just to get to grips with LO and have chosen the biogradeable ones, which as your research shows, is good for less chemicals but not brill for the environment then!

I read somewhere that nappy rash can come from disposables but also from washable ones too - it depends on moisture build up, if they're changed regularly but also on the LO skin if they're particularly sensitive too.

My only thought is that washable ones seem more bulky than the disposable ones and clothes for certain age groups may not fit so neatly if using a bulkier nappy. I came across Frugi clothes and they specifically say that they accomodate cloth nappies as well as disposables and so that got me thinking of the lovely things I've bought and how a cloth nappy may make the clothes too tight over them?
Oh there's so much learning to do!

frillylemons · 22/06/2012 16:44

That's really useful Ham, thanks.

Marmite, my sister used terry towel type ones and it meant that she struggled to fit her girls in 'normal' clothes and they both loooked like they had HUUUUGE bottoms!!

frillylemons · 22/06/2012 16:44

Saying that, it may have been the type she used?!

Lovemarmite · 22/06/2012 16:56

frilly like it! I have the huge bottoms picture in my head!

Hmm surely clothes will fit over the cloth types otherwise there would be different ranges of clothes sold as to what nappy you use? Or am I completely naive?!

Just baking a lime drizzle cake, my contribution to all the cooking on this page Brew Biscuit!

Lovemarmite · 22/06/2012 17:41

Just been researching the clothes/nappies dilemma and it seems this is a common complaint - many clothes don't accomodate the cloth nappies and also if the LO is larger in size too. It seems that you have to buy the next size up in clothes sometimes but then the legs maybe too long. A few shops seem to be mentioned as more accommodating - next, frugi and a few more expensive place like cambridgebaby Hmm
Also bamboo is perhaps thinner and so this type may not be as bulky and so more clothes can fit over them.
Would love any advice please!

Loupee · 22/06/2012 17:41

Hey all,
Not been around much this week, just been catching up on the posts just now. That's great news about your masters ham and awesome information about the nappies.
picturethis hope your boy calms down a bit now and the rest of your pregnancy is stress free.
My BIL is an amateur photographer, he did the photos for our wedding 2 years ago, that kicked off some weekend work. So now he's excited to be breaking into baby photos as well. We are so lucky, his photos are amazing, and he has all the professional kit as well. Should get plenty photos of this wee one.
I got a surprise yesterday, got an iPad delivered, my DH ordered it as an early birthday present, and I think to keep me amused while he's away. Still getting used to it, so if anyone can recommend apps that would be great.
Saw the midwife on tues, baby is measuring slightly big, everyone that knows me says my bump is really small, and randoms, ie shop assistants seem to think I'm moments away from labour. This truly random I think.
Think I might take inspiration from here and have soup and cake for dinner, fed up with the miserable weather again.
Anyone got much planned for the weekend?

WelshLadyCDF · 22/06/2012 18:27

My weekend... am finishing my nursery corner and have an NCT class all day tomorrow, we're learning about pain relief and breastfeeding (last week we covered labour, induction and caesarean). It's been a great course so far. Sunday, DP goes on a big walk somewhere so I get to take it easy.
Happy weekend all Wine (I miss wine SO much)

frillylemons · 22/06/2012 20:40

Totes just cried for no reason! Yay to pregnancy!

tashaw28 · 22/06/2012 20:51

ishop don't worry you are flat on your back and can't see anything even with the screen lowered! However the baby is covered in blood whereas in vaginal delivery it's white not bloody!

picture hope you're ok now, must've been scary.

Made apple and rhubarb crumble for tonight, nice and wintery Wink

hamncheese · 22/06/2012 21:11

Yeah they said that about cloth nappies making their bums all podgey marmite. I think it depends on how much you stuff them with boosters etc. So you could have a not too big nappy but will have to change more regularly. And then you can add more layers at night or if you know you will be out for a while and wear more accommodating clothes. From the ones I was looking at today it definatley seems to be the liners/boosters that add much bulk. Also when they are smaller they will seem much bulkier as it's the same amount of fabric etc up to 6 months. Also want any advice on the clothes if anyone out there has used cloth before...?

Nice present from your DH loupee .. my DH has a pad and the apps I like on it are flipboard (combines all social media type updates and makes it into a kind of magazine format to flip through) the guardian eyewitness app which is a daily photograph and blurb very interesting... sky go if you have sky ... kindle too if you want to read on it there are quite a lot of free classics etc to try out if you are not sure. Enjoy :)

Just went to the pool and it was closed due to an accident :/ so went to a different pool but it wasn't that much fun too many misbehaving children. Also weird when I go to our regular council pool you smell the chlorine when you go into it but the smell never lingers on your skin/hair the next day. Yet at this private pool we went to the chlorine was nipping my eyes and making me cough... ugh. Wonder how they decide how much is too much...hmm.

Enough of my thread hogging then, have a nice evening

frillylemons · 23/06/2012 05:44

Sleep sleep sleep...it's just not happening! Baby had hiccups after I had my 5am wee and now I can't sleep. Downstairs for some Weetos it is then!!

ImissMiniPop · 23/06/2012 08:41

Picture how you doing today? hope the little one has stopped wriggling around?

Minipop's a little bit poorly and he's got a sore bum, I think probably from being left in his wet nappy for longer than his skin can take. he screamed when i changed him, which was heart breaking as i knew it was because he was in pain. :(

Also, I normally don?t watch eastenders, not seen it this year I don?t think. So why oh why on earth did I watch last night? bawled my eyes out at the end scenes :(

PictureThis · 23/06/2012 08:44

Thanks for the good wishes everyone, happily no further action since Thursday night. It all started around 6pm and initially I thought it was baby trying to turn. I felt very uncomfortable like you do when baby is lying transverse ( across ways). As yhe evening wore on this discomfort was coming and going and I couldn't eork out if it was fetal movements, Braxton Hicks or contractions. As a midwife you think I should know!!! Around 9pm they were getting really quite 'pinchy' and coming every 3-4 minutes but were short lasting. I knew they weren't established labour pains but as baby is breech I was worried about my cervix starting to open and the risk of cord prolapse.....too much knowledge and all thatWink. Anyhow, MIL came round to mind DD whilst DH and I trundled off to the hospital where I was put on the monitor and was indeed found to be contracting. The Dr did a speculum exam and a fibronectin test which was negative thankfully so the overall conclusion was an irritable uterus associated with fetal movement. Just before 1am everything settled down and has stayed that way. They kept me in for observation and I came home yesterday morning right as rain. Boys....they're bloody troubleGrin.

MrsMigginslovespies · 23/06/2012 11:47

Blimey Picture all sounds dramatic. But good you're home now and taking it easy hopefully today.

DH and I are only now having brekkie, and I'm still in my pjs after a restless night! Rainy here and feels like Autumn.

Going to make my bakewell pudding in a bit Smile.

Hope you all have a nice Saturday. x