November 2012 Duebies Part 3 - <insert cheesy name of choice here>

[FoofFighter]

The Stats:

madasahatter EDD 31/10/11
GTBaby [29] DC1 EDD 01/11/12
GingerBL [34] DC2 EDD 01/11/12
Belgrano DC3 EDD 01/11/12
Howiwonder DC2 01/11/12
Wellieboots DC1 01/11/12
LittleLolly [28] DC1 EDD 01/11/12
Hellobear[33] DC2 EDD 02/11/12
Little9 [38] DC1 EDD 02/11/12
Wifey6 EDD 02/11/12
Tomatoplantproject [34] DC1 EDD 02/11/12
PetiteRaleuse [32] DC2 EDD 02/11/2012
CrazyKat [24] DC4 EDD 02/11/2012
Horseylady [30] DC1 EDD 04/11/12
AbsToni [29] DC1 EDD 04/11/12
Cacacaz (29) DC1 EDD 04/11/12
Tiago [28] DC1 EDD 05/11/12
WestWingCJ DC2 EDD 05/11/12
ValiumQueen [43] DC3 EDD 05/11/12
Stabiliser15 [29] [DC2] EDD 05/11/12
TheDetective (27) DC2 EDD 06/11/12
Haywire [38] DC2 EDD 06/11/12
Peaky1 [32] DC1 EDD 06/11/12
Sam86 DC3 EDD 06/11/12
Katuk82 (29) DC1 EDD 06/11/12
Pipsicles (28) DC2 EDD 07/11/12, Surrey.
Schroedingersdodo DC2 EDD 07/11/12
Cherryjam [31] DC2 EDD 07/11/12
ENSMUM DC2 EDD 07/11/12
Blonderthanred [35] DC1 EDD 08/11/12
Debussyhead DC2 EDD 08/11/12
Eversomuch [39] DC2 EDD 08/11/12
FoofFighter [38] DC3 for me DC1 for DP EDD 09/11/12
Gardenpixies(33) DC1 EDD 10/11/12
StuntNun [35] DC3 EDD 10/11/12
YellowWellies [32] DC1 EDD 10/11/12 Orkney (China = B, gut = G)
jaylee89 [23] DC2 EDD 10/11/2012
MsBlueberry [29] DC3 10/11/12
daisychain76 [36] DC3 10/11/12
GsyAutumn [33] DC3 EDD 10/11/2012
ShushBaby [31] DC2 EDD 11/11/12
Ditsygem [27] DC1 EDD 11/11/12
Onamission [28] DC1 EDD 12/11/12
Donnadoon [32] DC4 EDD 12/11/12
Elizadoesdolittle [37] DC2 EDD 12/11/12
Kyordz 12/11/12
Kydravia DC3 EDD 13/11/12
IHeartpasties [31] DC2 EDD 14/11/12 Sydney (from Cornwall)
Desperatehousewife [21] DC2 EDD 14/11/12
justonemorecake [28] DC1 EDD 14/11/12
Ellesabe [29] DC2 EDD 14/11/12
misschord [33] DC2 EDD 14/11/12
igglepiggleiggleonk DC2 14/11/12
Victorious03 (29) DC3 EDD 15/11/2012
Evilwater EDD 15/11/12 or possibly any time in October!!
GreenDragonfly DC4 EDD 15/11/12
Brockle [33] DC3 EDD 16/11/12
Bimbledorf [32] DC3 EDD 17/11/12
TitsalinaBumSquash [25] DC3 EDD 17/11/12
Sooty [34] DC2 EDD 18/11/12
Bryzoan (37) DC2 EDD 18/11/12
MadeInChinaBaby, 29, DC2, EDD 18/11/12
WaitingForMe [29] DC1 for me DC3 for DH EDD 19/11/12
Superpenguin [32] DC2 EDD 19/11/12
ChunkyChicken [32] DC2 EDD 19/11/12
Funthatisfunny [32] DC2 EDD 20/11/12
applepieinthesky (25) DC1 EDD 20/11/12
Misslaughalot (35) DC1 EDD 20/11/12
Lilliana (31) DC1 EDD 21/11/12
EssexWelsh [29] DC1 EDD 21/11/12
nutellaontoast [29] DC2 EDD 21/11/12
ComradeJing [26] DC2 EDD 21/11/12
Thechick (38) DC2 EDD 21/11/12
Soandsomum DC2 EDD 21/11/12
FruitSaladIsNotPudding (31) EDD 22/11/12
Magicrabbit (38) DC2 EDD 22/11/12
mcsquared EDD 22/11/12
FatimaLovesBread (26) EDD 23/11/12
Shinyblackgrape (34) DC1 EDD 25/11/12
Bottlered76 EDD 28/11/2012
Tallulahstar (31) DC1 EDD 28/11/12
rosie0000(36) DC4 EDD 29/11/12
KatherineUK2003 DC2 EDD29/11/12
JessieEssex (35) DC2 EDD 30/11/12
MissTriangle DC2 - EDD TBC
Hoebag EDD TBC
Thereistheball EDD TBC It's twins!!
ItalaItala EDD TBC
Issimma EDD TBC

If anybody on the list needs taking off please pm me and I'll sort it x

detective I think I can feel my uterus growing up too, I feel it all the time and it feels like its higher now.
Dh and I still having regular sex (about 2-3 times a week) but I don't get cramps or pain so I'm quite lucky I get to enjoy it still (for now!)

Poor DP then! Everyone elses seems to be getting it, just not him! Bless, he must feel redundant now .

Has anyone else felt any strange things going on 'down there'?! Last night (before the shagging debarcle) I swear I felt something 'scraping' behind my pubic bone, and strangle bubbles occuring! Felt it the night before too. However my midwife brain says DETECTIVE WHEN DID YOU LAST GO FOR A POO?! I think I have my own answer lmao!

How does the uterus feel?! Only dtd twice poor dh. Nights are bad I feel too tired and sick I'm up at 6 to get to work so have very little time. Will try over the next few days!!

Don't worry about it horsey lady. There's gonna be feckin cobwebs down there by the time I feel like doing it =/

It like a small round hard lump just above your pubic bone, it goes across the middle 10cm approximately! You feel the difference by feeling above, it should feel softer, the uterus is quite a hard thing!

Yeah I can def feel it. I have all sorts of feelings and what I swear are movements but turns out to be wind!
My whole digestion has slowed down though, it takes day for things to shift along now!

If anyone is updating the stats (sorry but I can't manage it on the phone) maybe we could have a 'gone but not forgotten' section at the bottom for all the lovely ladies who have had to leave us? I still pop on to the June thread to see what my former compadres are up to do I'd like to think they'll be keeping an eye on us and hopefully being able to give us good news a few months down the line.

So sorry to hear your news pink and essex. I got PG less than three months after the MC even though it had taken 15 months before that so I think when you have been pregnant it will happen more easily for you the next time. Thinking of you both and fingers crossed for Nebbo.

Btw Detective I'm gonna blame you if anyone catches me rummaging down my trousers. I don't think they'll fall for the old "I was just trying to feel my uterus" excuse lol!

Hi ladies, I don?t think I?m going to be posting for a few days. Everything is ok with the little one but I have received some bad news about my cousin today.

We just found out this afternoon that he?s got leukaemia. He has been rushed another hospital which is quite some distance from where we live because they said he will receive better treatment there than at the local hospital. It?s come as a massive massive shock to all of us and he?s only 21 years old On top of the leukaemia he?s also got pneumonia so he?s not in a good way at all.

Waiting for further news at the moment.

Good luck to everyone who has scans coming up x

Whatever haha! ;)

I have now reached all new levels of patheticness! I am lay down, on the couch. And dictating to everyone else jobs that need doing... when one is done, they come back for the next! Including bringing me drinks and food. 0:)

I just can't sit up. I feel nauseous. I'm staying here.

Oh wow Apple, how utterly devastating for your family.

I don't have words to say to express how sorry I am to hear such news. So young too, my own DP is just 21, and to think of someone going through such awful things at that age, its horrific.

He sounds like he is in the right place now, and will get good treatment. Its such a shame he has had to go so far. The state of the NHS now means patients having to travel for appropriate services, which is hardly ideal.

I hope whatever the news it, it is good news.

I wish you and your family well Apple. The nov ladies will be waiting for your return xxx

Ladies i can't believe some of you are having sex not sure if jealous or not hubby wont come near me now not that i mind far to tired and nausea always worse at night.
Just got back from A&E with DS 5 thought he may have broken ankle thankfully not but still driving us crazy as he is a really active boy and is 'bored' all he wants to do is go back to holiday club, have had to take the day off work and wont be able to get a refund on the next 3 days of holiday club he wont be going too does that make me sound bad??

Oh apple I'm so sorry for the bad news, he's the same age as me :( will be thinking of you (((hugs)))

It's not bad Spud because you have invested the money but won't get anything for it, it's only natural that it irks you. Good news about his ankle anyway as 6 weeks on crutches isn't much fun.

apple - what dreadful news. Thinking of you and your family.

Pink and essex- I'm sorry for your loss.

Apple- he has youth in his side and that will count. I'm hoping that he will be able to have a transplant, and then carry on with his life. Wishing you all the best. It's a long road, and not an easy one.

To all the ladies that had scans, the pictures are amazing aren't they. Ive taken to showing everyone! Its a shame I can't see the baby more often, those pictures are magical, and it gives you a sence of security.

As for work, these nights are much better. Phoned hr and they said my qualifying block is what I get paid on may and June. I have my maternity day in may, I'm looking forward to that.

Wishing my 20week scan could come quicker.

I'm still feeling sick in the morning! Grr..... Roll on week 13

apple I'm so sorry, hope he gets the best care and treatment and gets on the mend soon :)

Any news from Victorious, sure she ha a scan today? Hope she's okay

apple as evil says, he is young so hopefully he will have a good chance - very scary I am sure.

I work for the NHS but am mon-fri 9-5 so no way of bumping up my money.

evil what is a maternity day?

Is it unreasonable to wonder why my body is playing tricks on me?! Its heated me up a good few notches over the last few weeks, to the point where I am now hotter than DP. This in itself is nothing short of a miracle, as he is unhumanly warm sweaty bastard. Normally I can't bear him hugging me at night, as we are both, um, naked, and him sodding and moist (vom) and warm, its just URGHHH! But now, he is cold to me YES!

HOWEVER!!! My hands and feet are still the same freezing temperature they were before, and as a result I feel like wearing shorts and tshirt complete with gloves and bedsocks and slippers.

Stupid body!

Where you go to a presentation and they tell you about mat leave, and other things. The bit I really need to concentrate on is child care! And flexible working.

I have never been to one of them, and I have a 5yo and 2yo, both whilst working for the NHS. You are NHS no? (aimed at evil)

Childcare is a bitch! at one point I was paying £1200 pcm for my two. I plan to drop my hours if this one makes it - it just would not be worth my while to be full time, and I will take a full year mat leave

Oh, and Shagging like a bunny here, in-between clearing up vomit and poo (kids, not mine) DH is a love machine

Yes, I have to go it is mandatory! Ive been in the NHS for 9 years, of madness.

Ask your hr and look at the mat policy. I'm going to try and get a appointment with the union so to ask the right questions, and they might signpost other things I'm entitled too.

Cheers for that, I will ask. I am a bit of an expert on the Breastfeeding at Work Policy btw - was a pain in the arse to my boss at the time.