November 2012 Duebies Part 3 - <insert cheesy name of choice here>

[FoofFighter]

The Stats:

madasahatter EDD 31/10/11
GTBaby [29] DC1 EDD 01/11/12
GingerBL [34] DC2 EDD 01/11/12
Belgrano DC3 EDD 01/11/12
Howiwonder DC2 01/11/12
Wellieboots DC1 01/11/12
LittleLolly [28] DC1 EDD 01/11/12
Hellobear[33] DC2 EDD 02/11/12
Little9 [38] DC1 EDD 02/11/12
Wifey6 EDD 02/11/12
Tomatoplantproject [34] DC1 EDD 02/11/12
PetiteRaleuse [32] DC2 EDD 02/11/2012
CrazyKat [24] DC4 EDD 02/11/2012
Horseylady [30] DC1 EDD 04/11/12
AbsToni [29] DC1 EDD 04/11/12
Cacacaz (29) DC1 EDD 04/11/12
Tiago [28] DC1 EDD 05/11/12
WestWingCJ DC2 EDD 05/11/12
ValiumQueen [43] DC3 EDD 05/11/12
Stabiliser15 [29] [DC2] EDD 05/11/12
TheDetective (27) DC2 EDD 06/11/12
Haywire [38] DC2 EDD 06/11/12
Peaky1 [32] DC1 EDD 06/11/12
Sam86 DC3 EDD 06/11/12
Katuk82 (29) DC1 EDD 06/11/12
Pipsicles (28) DC2 EDD 07/11/12, Surrey.
Schroedingersdodo DC2 EDD 07/11/12
Cherryjam [31] DC2 EDD 07/11/12
ENSMUM DC2 EDD 07/11/12
Blonderthanred [35] DC1 EDD 08/11/12
Debussyhead DC2 EDD 08/11/12
Eversomuch [39] DC2 EDD 08/11/12
FoofFighter [38] DC3 for me DC1 for DP EDD 09/11/12
Gardenpixies(33) DC1 EDD 10/11/12
StuntNun [35] DC3 EDD 10/11/12
YellowWellies [32] DC1 EDD 10/11/12 Orkney (China = B, gut = G)
jaylee89 [23] DC2 EDD 10/11/2012
MsBlueberry [29] DC3 10/11/12
daisychain76 [36] DC3 10/11/12
GsyAutumn [33] DC3 EDD 10/11/2012
ShushBaby [31] DC2 EDD 11/11/12
Ditsygem [27] DC1 EDD 11/11/12
Onamission [28] DC1 EDD 12/11/12
Donnadoon [32] DC4 EDD 12/11/12
Elizadoesdolittle [37] DC2 EDD 12/11/12
Kyordz 12/11/12
Kydravia DC3 EDD 13/11/12
IHeartpasties [31] DC2 EDD 14/11/12 Sydney (from Cornwall)
Desperatehousewife [21] DC2 EDD 14/11/12
justonemorecake [28] DC1 EDD 14/11/12
Ellesabe [29] DC2 EDD 14/11/12
misschord [33] DC2 EDD 14/11/12
igglepiggleiggleonk DC2 14/11/12
Victorious03 (29) DC3 EDD 15/11/2012
Evilwater EDD 15/11/12 or possibly any time in October!!
GreenDragonfly DC4 EDD 15/11/12
Brockle [33] DC3 EDD 16/11/12
Bimbledorf [32] DC3 EDD 17/11/12
TitsalinaBumSquash [25] DC3 EDD 17/11/12
Sooty [34] DC2 EDD 18/11/12
Bryzoan (37) DC2 EDD 18/11/12
MadeInChinaBaby, 29, DC2, EDD 18/11/12
WaitingForMe [29] DC1 for me DC3 for DH EDD 19/11/12
Superpenguin [32] DC2 EDD 19/11/12
ChunkyChicken [32] DC2 EDD 19/11/12
Funthatisfunny [32] DC2 EDD 20/11/12
applepieinthesky (25) DC1 EDD 20/11/12
Misslaughalot (35) DC1 EDD 20/11/12
Lilliana (31) DC1 EDD 21/11/12
EssexWelsh [29] DC1 EDD 21/11/12
nutellaontoast [29] DC2 EDD 21/11/12
ComradeJing [26] DC2 EDD 21/11/12
Thechick (38) DC2 EDD 21/11/12
Soandsomum DC2 EDD 21/11/12
FruitSaladIsNotPudding (31) EDD 22/11/12
Magicrabbit (38) DC2 EDD 22/11/12
mcsquared EDD 22/11/12
FatimaLovesBread (26) EDD 23/11/12
Shinyblackgrape (34) DC1 EDD 25/11/12
Bottlered76 EDD 28/11/2012
Tallulahstar (31) DC1 EDD 28/11/12
rosie0000(36) DC4 EDD 29/11/12
KatherineUK2003 DC2 EDD29/11/12
JessieEssex (35) DC2 EDD 30/11/12
MissTriangle DC2 - EDD TBC
Hoebag EDD TBC
Thereistheball EDD TBC It's twins!!
ItalaItala EDD TBC
Issimma EDD TBC

If anybody on the list needs taking off please pm me and I'll sort it x

foof - I'm so sorry to hear this. Please take care

Ffs foof Im so upset for you...you are the very back bone of this thread as well...sending lots of un mumsnet love xxxx

Oh foof I am so sorry to hear your news. You really will be missed on this thread. Big hugs and look after yourself.

I'm really sorry to hear your bad news Foof it's an awful thing to go through. I hope things get better for you soon. Chin up hun.

Sorry foof that's such sad news :( thinking of you xx

ok can talk now have calmed down a bit.

went with the external scan first,couldn't see anything. Went internal and saw little baby measuring 4.6mm no heartbeat. i've googled and that's about a 6-7 weeker. I should be 9 weeks today. They sent me off with the come back in a week just in case you've got your dates wrong bollocks no advice or leaflets or anything.

I think we all know what this means and I am getting cross now at the way they've handled it and the fact I have to carry it round another week at least, and that i don't know what to do if it starts in the meantime.

Cruel thing is huge sore boobs back with a vengeance today. And i don't want to eat but my body/hormones are screaming to be fed.

in other news, have made shortlist for easter name change which made me smile a bit, if anyone feels like voting for me, am intending on donating the chocs though.

i'll update if you like as and when. I also have a picture of the scan, you can't see much or make much out, but there is a definite baby there.

Just want to check DH is it you thats added me on FB?? dont want to accept if its not!

oh foeuf - that's very difficult. I don't know what to say. I'm sorry, I've not checked the thread but have you seen the midwife yet? If so, is it worth calling her for advice re the worst case scenario. If not, then nhs 24. Not sure how helpful they will be. It's so awful that it is Easter as not so easy to just go the gp and discuss.

Foof - I'm not surprised you're cross at the way they've handled it - that's dreadful. What a totally crap way to treat you - really feel for you. As grape says, maybe try the mw and see if she can be of more help.

Hope you are ok. You sound like you are pretty definite on your dates - could they be out?

Thinking of you.

Foof I'm soo sorry and hope you are okay! They should have given you more support and care! Is there any chance you could have got your dates wrong? Hope you have lots of care at home

Your a huge part of this thread and we will all miss you of you leave x

Foof so sorry, that really does sound inadequate. Hope that your dates are wrong... Take care

izzy are the initials NB? If so then yes that's me!

foof sorry you weren't treated better :( take care of yourself in the next few weeks.

I Had my lmp on 3-2-12 and got bfp on 4-3-12. I don't see how dates can be wrong by that much even if i oved late, that's 3 weeks difference. if' I am not seeing something please do PM me.

Right I really am going now, take care ladies, you are fab x

Will miss you foof Do take care of yourself x

Foof, so sorry to read your post. Take very good care of yourself x x x

I was just wondering, when can we stop taking these horse pills???

I took them all through my last preg because I don't think I get enough nutrients otherwise but you can stop taking them whenever you like, esp after 12 weeks.

Yay, not long now!

Got the most horrible headaches at the moment - paracetamol is no use at all. Any ideas? Am drinking loads of water to make sure I'm not dehydrated.

Is it lack of caffeine West Wing? Would a strong cuppa help?

I'd like to start on coffee again at 12 weeks going to ask MW about it. I'm horrid without caffeine.

I couldn't stomach my horsepills today or yesterday. They have been making me feel sick almost immediately even on a full tummy....

Sooty, I've drank tea so far. I can't go without it. I've been drinking tea since I was 2 months. I have cut down on the amount, but not stopped.

I did stop for two weeks and felt awful, all my female reletives drink tea or coffee. I'm healthy, in fact I will be telling the midwife I will not stop drinking tea.

No - haven't had tea or coffee for about 5 weeks now - the thought of it - ugh! Real shame as I was a big tea drinker before.

Pills make me feel yuck too. Roll on next trimester (if the bean makes it there) so I can start to feel better!

Yes I can't wait for 12 weeks/relative normality either.

I think the headaches are probably hormone driven, so not sure what we can do with them. My head is stomping now so I'm thinking I'll try paracetamol then go to bed. I get weather headaches when it's stormy/cloudy and theres a bit of that about today too.

I switched to decaff tea. It is not good and I really miss coffee. I'm paranoid about caffeine as when I MC I was drinking 5/6 a day as I didn't know I was pregnant, but I am sure moderation is fine especially after 12 weeks.

I'm sure it wont be long till there are loads of 'I feel fabulous today!' threads .

I have cut down on the amount of tea I drink but I'm not cutting it out completely.

I think you could make yourself crazy thinking about all the things you can't do/can't eat/can't drink so I'm not stressing about it.

Sorry to hear your news foeuf hope you get sorted soon.

Welcome to the newbies.

I haven't cut out caffiene at all but then I probably drink about 5 cups of coffee a week so not an exessive amount anyway (never drink tea) also both DDs were over 8lbs so not woried about lowering the birthweight.

I had my Booking In app yesterday, the mw was lovely - not the one I saw for the last 2 who I was dreading seeing again who is an evil cow (I even changed surgeries when we came back from cornwall at 35wks so that I wouldn't have her just to find it is a local team now so I could have gone back to my old GP!) and looks like my usual mw will be diff too
Anyway as there is some confusion about my dates she suggested she had a listen - she warned me that she shouldn't be able to hear anything at 8wks which is what I am supposed to be - but there was the heartbeat, loud and clear! so the verdict is "definately more than 12wks girl" and she has requested an urgent dating scan..... so not sure if I should stay here....

Hope everyone is having a lovely weekend and all the ms isn't too bad.