I just need to share something...hope nobody minds. I can't really chat to dp about it at the moment....
DP just rang his mum for a general chat. She was being a bit weird, and also he could hear his niece and nephew in the background. When he asked why they were there on a school night (not odd really, they are there a lot but he was just asking in general) his mum was really cagey. It turns out his sister has gone to the hospital. It took a good few minutes to find out why she had gone to hospital. I could hear DP asking "but you must know why, she wouldn't just go to the hospital for no reason" I knew inside what was going on. She's pregnant, we had suspected, no idea how far along as she hadn't told us but now she's at the hospital and we don't know why... I just feel so sick. My miscarriage is still quite raw, and I feel quite selfish to be thinking about me when I've absolutely no idea what is going on with her. Everything could be fine, but you don't just leave your kids (I mean, go to the trouble of arranging childcare etc on a school night) for no reason
God I hope everything is ok 
Sorry for the thread downer.....