Hey there, FN, BM. No help at all I know that so many of us can empathise with what you are going through. There will be a next time soon for you both I'm sure. Please take all our hugs, and stop back on this thread and tell us if you get pg again, as we'll keep on thinking of you and sharklet.
Hello to the new joiners. Tigerlion, my brother has two that were born 11 months apart and from what I see the first 2 years are unremitting hell and then you will be in very enviable position - my brothers two are constant playmates for each other and he says it is so much easier now than it was with his first two kids (they were 2.5 yrs apart).
I am still only 7 weeks but was standing outside my bosses' office yesterday when one of the girls came up to me, pointed to my stomach and asked me if congratulations were in order. OMG OMG OMG OMG.
I bluffed my way through but am now in absolute panic that the gossip will be out on the grapevine which is V bad news for me as I was hoping to break it gently to my boss some time later (maybe when my waters broke), and now he's going to hear anyway and go mad. Aaarghhhhhh. And even worse my symptoms seem to have gone and if this one isn't viable I don't know how I'm going to face people in the office - especially if they start being extra nice to me or something.
Does anyone know how long a gap there is between an m/c and the hormones dropping in terms of using pg tests? I seem to be addicted to testing every day and trying to tell if the line is/isn't thicker than the day before.... (I'm sure I'm not the only one) and while logic tells me that using these kits isn't going to help one jot I know I'm not going to stop and would be keen to know if there's any data about this anywhere..sorry this is a grim queston to ask I know esp in the light of BM & FN, but am getting a bit panicky about it all so appreciate any info anyone has.