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January 2012 - Will any of us deliver before Father Christmas? The race is on!

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MakesXmasCakesWhenStressed · 14/12/2011 08:58

Hope you don't mind the slight tweaking of the thread title :) I was feeling creative! Not that it matters, at this rate it won't last more than a week...!

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MakesXmasCakesWhenStressed · 22/12/2011 09:51

I have mat pads and no way am I considering mooncup for a while! I do have re-usable sanitary pads that I made though

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Oeisha · 22/12/2011 09:57

fish Grin
and cakes

As for maternity pads, most Mums I've quizzed have told me that the boots own, non-slim ones are good post-birth, not too uncomfy and stay put. One SIL got through 30 in a day...and they come in packs of 10 (or 12) I think, so Confused. The slim ones aren't much thicker than a night time ST so might be worth a pack of them for leaking waters?

ghost Glad to hear PPM is behaving. Enjoy your massage...

So, I rang Mum lastnight. She's now horribly concerned that I'm going to give birth before I've had the ultrasound, talked about coming up "just in case" and even talked about them paying for a private scan...mental. Where exactly does she think I'm gonna get one of them over the weekend!? Thankfully she has an influx of grandchildren to deal with between Sat and Wed...

I suppose I'd better go de-stink and get into town for some lunch/dinner planning for the next couple of days. Oh gods. I remember this time of year in a supermarket. It's gonna be hell.

MakesXmasCakesWhenStressed · 22/12/2011 09:59

Eek - quoted from my AIBU thread:

"Don't use Always for anything around the before or after childbirth. They are totally different from other pads in that they have gel in them like nappies. They suck out any moisture in the fanjo area and impede your healing. Using them actually sort of 'sucked out' my stitches. The midwife I saw said that she would like them banned for post birth women and they can do such harm."

I have a couple of packs of Boots maternity pads that one of the mums at my baby group donated to me as she'd never used them! They're in my bags now, but having read some of the stories on my AIBU thread I'm wondering about storing a few around the flat and in my handbag just in case! The varnish on our floors isn't very waterproof...

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Oeisha · 22/12/2011 10:26

Ust a quick one:
katy's had her babies!

FrillyMilly · 22/12/2011 10:45

I had boots slim maternity pads. They just ripped to bits when I tried to get them out the packaging. The hospital had stacks of ginormous ones that I used in hospital. Once I got home (was in 2 days) I switched to always night time. I had stitches too and didn't have a problem with them.

SantaSHO · 22/12/2011 11:13

I used Boots mat pads until thongs started to calm down. Definitely recommend the big ones.

I'm very much at a loose end today. We had Christmas all wrapped up and everything baby organised for yesterday just in case. There's nothing that needs doing. Dont want to go out whilst dd is still so hot and besides, she's playing with her make believe dogs right now ... Twiddle my thumbs ...

DeeOfTheNorthPole · 22/12/2011 11:21

Wow - the first babies of our thread...how exciting. I'll say congratulations to katy on here as well....hope you get your cuddles soon xxx

Nanny01 · 22/12/2011 11:33

I have bought a packet of mothercare ones to start with. As for the discharge I have had is watery to.

SlightlyStuffed · 22/12/2011 12:14

Cakes my DH is like yours and while it is great that he's doing so much to let me rest, I'm so frustrated at doing nothing and even madder when I get given out to. I cry at anything these days so him having a go at me for cleaning just makes me miserable. He doesn't get it though. He's mopping the floors now and I'm sitting on my arse. I'm allowed to decorate the tree today! I'm wishing he'd go back to work already.

Interesting about the pads. I've been going through 3 panty liners a day with discharge. It was the same last preg too.

MissRee · 22/12/2011 12:16

Congrats Katy Grin

Am off to the midwife at 2 with a huuuuuge list of questions Grin

mulledfishandfrostedlilacs · 22/12/2011 12:30

Oooh congrats katy xxxx

Wormshuffler · 22/12/2011 13:18

So I've been for the scan. The sonographer was very upbeat said water was fine and doppler was normal. Then I went through to see the doc who was not so upbeat, the wording on the form says......"umbilical doppler displays diasolic flow throughout, A B ratio of 3.2 on upper limits of normal"
"liquor volume still raised AFI 17.5" presuming this is the amnitotic fluid.

She booked the ELCS for the 5th January but then was very very keen to stress any drop in movements to go in straight away. Got to have another scan next thursday to check again so I still feel just as in limbo! Everything I look at on google regarding this just points towards babies being smaller than usual rather than anything more drastic.

I'm off to start a thread about it..............

ParsleyandChestnutStuffingLion · 22/12/2011 13:31

That's a bit of an unsatisfactory consultation worm - as far as being conclusive I mean. I'd feel a bit in limbo as well if it were me Confused. I suppose "upper limits of normal" is still normal though...

GiraffeAHolic · 22/12/2011 13:45

Hi all, my thoughts go to those of you with confusing hospital appointments, I hope you all get some answers soon.

Nothing to report here, few BHs and cramping but nothing major. Sooo hot though Hmm (38+4 today)

Just made a batch of cinnamon cupcakes with Dd, so I can ice them later, the house smells yummy Smile

SpagBollyandtheIvy · 22/12/2011 14:15

Hi ladies. I found the bigger pads more comfy after DS as they are squidgy against episiotomy stitches. Think mine were tesco.

sho I really hope that's a typo and you weren't really wearing thongs :o

Sorry people are having worrying times. Keep pushing those medics to explain things, that's what we pay them for x

SantaSHO · 22/12/2011 15:08

Oh spag I didn't even notice! Grin trying very hard to hold in my laughter as dd is using me as a pillow right now Grin

giraffe I want to come sit in your kitchen. I love the smell if cinnamon!

Sorry to hear I'd the mixed response at your appointment worm. Suppose iv they were worried they would have you in earlier than the 5th.

My niece&nephew arrive on the 5th as well. Very exciting day!

SantaSHO · 22/12/2011 15:10

Fricken typos on the phone! Sorry ladies x

Mulledbee · 22/12/2011 15:13

Sorry to hear the consultation was confusing Wormshuffler. If you're in the upper limits of normal though, it is still normal. Try not to worry too much. x

MissRee · 22/12/2011 15:25

Induction booked for 11 Jan Sad

In better news tho, baby us 3/5 palpable so heading in the right direction Grin here's hoping she makes an appearance of her own accord before then!

ParsleyandChestnutStuffingLion · 22/12/2011 15:30

What's your EDD MissRee?

MissRee · 22/12/2011 15:48

31st December!!!! They're apparently booking it now because of Xmas/new year!

GiraffeAHolic · 22/12/2011 16:25

You're more than welcome sho Grin we've done homemade mincepies with homemade mincemeat now, so it smells very festive indeed!

ParsleyandChestnutStuffingLion · 22/12/2011 16:42

Let's hope she makes her own way down before 11th then MissRee Xmas Grin

mulledfishandfrostedlilacs · 22/12/2011 17:17

hello all,

right then-questions about aromatherapy. I can't remember who asked what now though. i will refer to essentail oil as EO.

Lavender oil: natures cure all-you can use lavender in labour in an oil burner in the room. Ideal for keeping calm and relaxed in those first stages. It also disinfects the air. Be wary though-lavender when used too much can be stimulating rather than relaxing. If you cant take an oil burner get a cheapo plant spray bottle, fill with 100ml of water add 10 drops of Lav EO and one or 2 tablespoons of vodka-shake well and spray the room with that.

It can be used in later stages on a compress (warm or cold flannel witht the oil sprinkled on it 3-4 drops) which can be pressed into your back or on our tummy-wherever needed. A cooler flannel on your head and chest may be welcome. Lavender has a natural balancing effect it will both cool and warm and stimulate and relax depending on how it is used. After the pushing stage when maternal exhaustion can be a factor it can be useful to bring everything back down. Lavender is a comforting smell for baby also but not too much. It can also be blended with a carrier oil-ordinary light sunflower oil will do but you can buy sweet almond oil quite readily for massage during labour. get DP/birth partner to massage it on you.

Home births/water births-you can use lav EO in the birthing pool but there is a small risk it can irritate the eyes of baby if it's just dropped onto the surface it's an oil so it will lay on there. The best way to avoid this is to mix it with a little full fat milk (egg cup full of milk with 3-6 drops of oil) to disperse the oil evenly within the water.

It's also great post birth at home in the bath-it's very healing and antiseptic.

Clary sage (salvia sclarea), one of the oils you are strongly advised to stay away from during your pregnancy, Due to its labour inducing properites But can be extremely beneficial to you on the big day. It has a narcotic effect and can be used either blended into a carrier oil which your birth partner massages into your lower back, or in a warm compress pushed onto the lower abdomen or lower back ? basically, where it hurts most. Another way to use it is to dab a couple of drops onto a face pad or tissue to hold to your nose/mouth when you need some relief. A good combination is clary sage with rose oil. This might be a substitute for gas and air. Just before you feel a contraction coming, breathe in deeply from your face pad, then after the contraction has passed, breathe in gently and rhythmically from the face pad.

It may be too stimulating for some women at the first stage. Great for regulating and deepening contractions if things are not progressing smoothly. I wouldn't mix it with lavender for birth but I would use it on it's own during the later stages. Again it can be inhaled straight from the bottle, in a room spray, used in massage oil or on a compress. WARNING-do not use direct on the skin without diluting-unlike lavender it can irritate the skin. After xmas i am going to be starting regular baths with clary sage to bring on birth if i can-but i wouldn't do that unless you're 37 weeks and ready for bubba to arrive.

if you don't want to fark about too much and just want some nice simple blends for sniffing and massage during labour and you don't mind investing in a couple of oils for the purpose then you can try the following, i have chosen these for cheapness and access of the oils. PM me if youre interested enough to want to splash out on some specialist oils.

For relaxation, balancing, pain relief and tension.
30mls carrier oil (such as sunflower or sweet almond oil)
4 drops lavender
2 drops geranium
2 drops sandalwood

To give tired mothers a lift:
30mls carrier oil
6 drops lavender
4 drop bergamot

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