Please can I come on here and rant? I work with one of my best friends. I've never been at all maternal, whereas she's wanted a baby ever since I've known her, but various circumstances mean this hasn't happened for her yet. I know she's jealous of my pregnancy and I try not to go on about it too much. However, she's driving me insane, being a total know it all about everything involving my pregnancy. Now, while I know I've never shown much interest in the past, these days i do actually know whats going on.
Early examples were:
"No, you don't get a scan at 12 weeks, no one does"... um, actually everyone does
"Well you only know about your maternity leave because I told you to look"... no, I'd looked into it before even trying to have this baby
But today really annoyed my. Now, you all know I didn't feel this baby move for ages. But today she really started kicking me, really booting me in the side, and I must have smiled or something. Said friend asked what was up, and I told her... "Well it's not booting you is it"? Um, yes actually she is. "You can't really feel it, she's too small to kick you properly" No, I can feel it, and she's as long as a ruler now. "No she not, don't be so ridiculous"
I actually had to go on Babycentre to show her as she was adamant my baby couldn't possibly be as big as I said she was, and no way could I possibly feel her kicking yet. I really don't want to be a baby bore, but being told I'm making stuff up really takes the shine off something actually quite amazing.
Apologies for rant :)