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elizabethtailored · 24/08/2011 13:31

I only did it a test this morning and have not even told my husband yet!

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sunshine100 · 15/10/2011 13:24

Hi Ladies,
Not posted for a while, been feeling a bit nervous and not very pregnant (apart from giant boobs and queasy most days), didn't want to get too carried away before we knew there was definitely a baby in there! But we had an early scan this morning and saw a little blob with a heartbeat! What a relief! And very surreal to think there's a little baby in there! :) My dates seem slightly wrong - I thought I was 9+3, but it turns out that I'm 8+6, so EDD is now 20th May. I know it's still early days, but I feel like I can start to think ahead a little now. Going to tell my parents this evening and DH's family next weekend, can't wait! I'm bursting to share my secret!

Clothes not too tight yet, although I'm favouring baggy jumpers and jeggings - I think it might be my new look!
Got my first antenatal appt letter through today, it's not until the 8th Nov and it just said that I'd have blood taken and medical history which would take approx 2 hours, but no mention of the scan although I'll be 12 weeks by then - might phone up and ask. Does anyone know if they are separate appointments or am I likely to get me scan?
Hope everyone is doing okay and having a relaxing weekend! :)

Marmite123 · 15/10/2011 17:35

My work trousers are getting so tight I've been walking around with the top button undone - just ordered waistband expanders which I'll just have to hide under long tops till I've gone public, then the belly band's going on.

Elizabethtailored - due 1st May
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chocolatesparkle · 16/10/2011 19:29

I'm just over 10 weeks now and mentioned to my mum that when i have to think what i wear because there is a definite bulge there and i dont want people to notice, my mum (who is normally pretty sensitive) informed me that 'people don't normally show until their 18 weeks'. So glad to hear that other people are finding their trousers a bit tight.

Little9 · 16/10/2011 22:38

chocolate I'm only 10 weeks and have a small bump already. I also have huge boobs, had to get new bras today and have increased by two sizes! Shock Got booking in appt tomorrow and scan a week on Fri, so fingers crossed that all will be well. :)

dobbybono · 17/10/2011 08:42

hope everyone is feeling ok this morning.sat at work again feeling like death warmed up(please can i go back to bed?)had a text message off my boss yesterday about another girl being pregnant and how inconvenient and selfish of her!! am now dreading telling him about me,it could tip us both over the edge!
how long before this sickness and tiredness ends?
thanks dreamingofanallotment for letting me know about the scans,hope everything is going ok your end x

farfallarocks · 17/10/2011 08:51

apologies thread hijack

Thanks catsy that is really interesting, I was thinking about going down that route myself. No news here, having some tests done and an ultrasound before we start trying again, hopefully before xmas but the consultant thinks progesterone might be the issue. Can I ask which cream you are using.

tostaky · 17/10/2011 13:51

At a party on Saturday someone said to me ?Oh, the last time I saw you you weren?t pregnant! When are you due??
Me, mortified: well? I haven?t told many people yet
Him: Well, it isn?t like you can hide it anymore, how many weeks are you?
Me: 9 weeks (it?s a lie im 8 weeks!) I haven?t had my scan yet
Him: oh ok?
So I guess, I must show? I had to tell my boss too bc I took last Thursday off, just too nauseaous to go to work. I stayed in bed the whole day, which is so not me.
DP is also feeling tired of having to do more than he is used to do at the week-end because im just so tired. A few more weeks and that will be over hopefully!!

PopEsMummy · 17/10/2011 19:05

Hello Everyone

Don't think I've posted on here for ages, but my memory's gone so maybe I posted yesterday and I've forgot [hgrin]. Anyone else having real problems remembering stuff?

I told one of my friends at work the other night and she said she thought something was going on as I've been going to zumba and don't seem to have lost any weight. Thanks luv [hshock]

Tostaky my DH is being a PITA with that too. I would love to be jumping up every morning full of energy and entertaining DD all day, but I just can't. Between nausea and tiredness I feel really rung out - add to that working night shifts over weekends too and I just can't get myself moving. He's going away in a couple of weeks so DD and I will be able to have some jimjam days then [hblush]

mythical · 17/10/2011 20:26

Well i just had my scan date. 7th of november!! I'll be nearly 14 weeks by then, i'm actually quite cross with that :(

SESthebrave · 17/10/2011 20:48

mythical - I need to send off a form for my scan still! I'm scared of scans though and have been sticking my head in the sand about it.

I also feel like I'm starting to look pg and I'm only 8 weeks Blush
Am also still suffering with nausea and tiredness. In fact I'm posting this on my phone from my bed and will probably be asleep soon!

Sorry not to name check but keeping everything crossed for us all!

LadyMaybe · 17/10/2011 22:57

Quenelle I was pleased to see someone else's nausea was lessening, I'm still not great in evenings but mornings are better. Of course it causes a small freak out, that along with the fact that I think my boobs are pretty much back to normal now - they were, ahem, generous to start with and I BF DS so I don't know how much development they need to do second time around. My bras do feel tight in the band in the evenings and I seem to be about size larger in the evenings that I am in the mornings - always have to undo trousers at about 6pm, whereas they zip up quite happily in the mornings.

LittleSarah how are you feeling now? Booking appt today, isn't it? It's tricky because the HCG levels do start to decrease from 8-10 weeks - I've got a graph which mine were being logged against and it shows it really clearly.

Harecare and wrigglebum I've got my scan on Thursday too - been counting down the days and trying to stay optimistic but I have to say I'm absolutely terrified I will have come all this way only to hear the dreaded 'I'm sorry'. Sad Oh well, got to just get it done. It's a nuchal test for me too, I had the combined bloods done last week. DH and I talked about it, and we don't think we'd do go much further than preparing ourselves if it comes back high risk, but it's impossible to know for sure until the result is in. If it was Down Syndrome I wouldn't be worried but if it was another trisomy that was incompatible with life, I'm not sure what I'd do.

Goodname I'm sure with the smaller age gap it'll be different. Also, I think it must be different when it's actually a sibling, rather than a cousin or just playdate. I'm not too worried about DS, he'll be just 4 when this one is born and has never said a word to me about wanting a sibling, but he's a very perceptive and generous, affectionate boy (ooooh I love him!), and although I'm sure there will be a few issues along the way I don't think it'll be all negative, all the time.

Dorris don't worry about your colleagues' comments - as soon you decide to tell them they'll all just go 'ohhhhhhhhh' and feel a bit crap for thinking bad thoughts Grin. I think at 10-11 weeks it's normal for your waist to be thickening a bit and the muscles to feel a bit tight - you'd notice but probably other people wouldn't. And then there's bloat and water retention (hoorah!) which makes it all a bit swelly early on too.

Mythical Sorry about the longer wait for the scan. Were you wanting a nuchal translucency test? Might pay to try to get one slightly earlier if so, if they discover that you're actually past 13+6 when they date you they wouldn't be able to rely on the measurement. I don't think you have to wear maternity bras...underwired are fine just so long as they fit really well and you get re-fitted often. But if they're uncomfortable go get some now! Comfort all the way...

Catsy I'm on progesterone supplements but am starting to wind them down now. From what I've read the placenta starts taking over production at about 8 weeks, should be in control by 10 weeks and definitely ok by 12. But some people stay on progesterone until 14-16 weeks so I guess there's no harm in continuing with the cream until then if it makes you feel safer.

sunshine100 congratulations on the early scan, I hope that makes it all seem a bit more real - apart from the giant boobs and nausea that is, Grin - isn't it funny how we seem to be able to dismiss what are definitely pregnancy symptoms from telling us we're pregnant - I do it myself - selective symptom spotting huh! Scan will most likely be a separate appointment, although it sounds like some do get it on the booking in. Worth asking for sure.

welcome Dobby your boss was most likely joking, but it's going to be fun telling him that you're going to have to be inconvenient and selfish too - would quite like to see his face when you use his words back to him Smile

Tostaky ShockGrinShock - omg, he must have been mortified!

SES, I completely understand the fear of scans, it's awful when you've just had bad news from them. 8 weeks is a good milestone to get to though, you can do it. We'll hold your hand.

Well, that was a catch up and a half! Before any of you wonder about my amazing powers to stay awake, I'm not actually in the UK, so am operating from a different timezone! Should probably now make a start on my work for the day. Sooo unmotivated, but if I want to put an invoice out, I'd better do some hours Smile

Good luck to all those scanning this week and for those still suffering the peak of nausea/tiredness/discomfort/sleeplessness fingers-crossed it all starts to ease off soon. Nearly there ladies Smile

musicalmrs · 18/10/2011 10:03

mythical, I agree with what LadyMaybe says about trying to move it if you want the nuchal translucency test - it can't hurt to ask at least! My scan's on the 7th November, I'll be pretty much 13 weeks then (if the dates are right).

Home from work today as I've got an awful cold, which is making me shivery and achey. Normally I'd work through it (especially with half term this week), but trying to take better care of myself now! Tiredness and sleeplessness seem to really be taking hold, although that could partly be the cold which has been stewing for the best part of a week!

On the plus side, told my parents at the weekend, and my brother yesterday, which was great! We were originally going to wait until the 12wk (13wk!) scan, but having already seen a heartbeat we were getting fed up of waiting! Telling DH's parents tomorrow (if I'm well enough to go to dinner!), which will be lovely :)

lindorchocs · 18/10/2011 10:58

Hello everyone,
I've just found out I am 8 weeks pregnant after both my DH and I being diagnosed with secondary subfertility about 5 years ago. Feeling very shocked and slightly in denial at the moment. We have a 9y DD already.
I am due 30th May.

cairnterrier · 18/10/2011 11:45

Hi Everyone

Am joining officially now after several weeks of thread lurking. Due 12th May and am 10wks at present. Feeling pretty rubbish with nausea and really wish that everything didn't smell so much!

Have checked my diary from last time and things started to settle about 11 weeks so not long to go now :) Sorry for the brief sentences but DS1 is asleep/feeding on my lap at the moment.

Does anyone else find that CBeebies is on permanently? Poor DS but I just feel so sick and lacking in energy :(

Anyway looking forward to hearing everyone's stories x

dobbybono · 18/10/2011 12:15

hello fellow may ladies,how's it all going? thinki'm 9 weeks today but not 100% still feel sick. after telling myself this mornig that fruit and yoghurt for break ,just had a sausage and egg sandwhich it was delicious!.eating lots of things that i wouldn't normally. if i even see a cup of tea i could be sick uggh.

feel like we are mostly all at the 8,9,10 week stage so hopefully we will all start feeling a bit better soon and maybe i might get a bit of energy.
p.s i keep trying to put a smiley face on but it wont let me? am i being dumb?

LittleSarah · 18/10/2011 12:17

Hello cairn and lindo and congrats!

Well after getting paranoid last week as I was feeling better - thanks maybe for that info on HCG levels going down, I had no idea and it's reassuring - I definitely still have symptoms! Although they have lifted a little I am still knackered and nauseous, particularly today and yesterday, so fingers crossed! I do have my booking appointment today so that should be interesting and at least it kind of kicks things off officially.

Yesterday my dh phoned from work to say his friend and partner were coming for dinner and to stay (friend recently back from two years abroad), I was not too pleased I admit. Tired, sick, and having to tidy/organise last minute, argh. Dh cooked but as soon as I started cleaning there just seemed to be more and more to do, and when I started I thought the place looked okay too. Hmmmm, sloppy littlesarah is taking over. (Oh and they arrived an hour earlier than expected!)

Cairn - I definitely think the TV has been on more for ds (2.5yrs) as I have been feeling pretty rubbish, hopefully he'll get a more active time in a few weeks!

Lindo - No wonder you are in shock, but that is great news, how are you feeling generally?

Musical - How nice to be telling people, I'm trying to hold off until scan but don't know if I'll last!

Ladymaybe - Where abouts are you? Are you also self-employed? What do you do?

PopE and tostaky - My dh has had to up his game too but luckily he seems fairly accepting of it. The worst seems to have gone (when I could barely face the most basic chores) so it's not too bad really. I felt very virtuous at the weekend as cleaned in the morning, then went to garden centre, came home planted all my bits and dh was basically lying on the sofa feeling sorry for himself after a night out!

chocolate, little and tostaky - I don't think I am showing yet but then I haven't quite lost all the baby weight from last time so my tummy is already rounded! Everyone is different with how/when/what they gain, it can be quite surprising, or shocking!

Dobby - Oh poor you getting that text from your boss, it is no wonder people find it so difficult to admit they are pregnant when they get that attitude. Try not to worry too much though your boss will get over it I'm sure! I do worry for my job as I am just self-employed on temp rolling contract, sometimes I have quite a lot to do, sometimes not so much, and I don't know if they will want me back after I have baby. However I will get maternity allowance which is the main thing and worst comes to the worst I'll just have to find something new. (Although it did take me ages to find this one!) I'm not going to worry about it though, I can't change what they decide to do, and I have various plans! (I hope eventually to retrain as a midwife so firstly I'd like to become a doula so perhaps that will be my next career!) Hmmmm, went on a little there!

Right, sorry to all those I've missed! Hope you're all well!

Good luck to all those with scans! Can't wait for my next one whenever it may be.

Must get myself sorted to see midwife (ds is sleeping though and I'd rather do the same!)

LittleSarah · 18/10/2011 12:20

dobby - Not sure why it won't let you do smiley, it is usually just putting smile in square brackets I think? Smile

I too am rather enjoying some naughty food. I am eating quite small portions but am really enjoying wee biscuits here and there. Gorgeous!

Oh, I have booked into two pregnancy yoga class and start in two weeks, really looking forward to that.

dobbybono · 18/10/2011 12:45

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dobbybono · 18/10/2011 12:53

little sarah,yoga classes sound like a nice way to relax,hope you enjoy them x
i'm normally a fairly tidy person but cannot be naffed at the moment,well done for coping with your guests, you sound like you did good. enjoy the biccies,i'm off for my lunch break and i really fancy a can of vimto (i never drink pop!)Smile

lindorchocs · 18/10/2011 13:11

LittleSarah - I feel generally OK, apart from massive boobs and loss of appetite but can't seem to make a decision about anything or put my mind to anything- still in Shock. My DH is away this week and have not told DD so really looking forward to somehow telling my sister tomorrow when my DD is out of earshot.
I went to the docs today and told the lovely junior doctor then promptly burst out crying! Poor thing didn't know if it was good or bad news!
I am desperate to have a scan to make it real.

Yorky · 18/10/2011 13:52

Hello everyone, have been a bit busy recently as DS1 off school with a tummy bug and didn't go back till today

Its nice to see that most DHs are helping out while we're being less than our usual wonderful selves - have to say mine is normally great but could do without him being away on a 3day course atm! But not sure how welcoming I could be to short notice guests LittleSarah, even old friends

Good luck for those nervous of scans, really hoping it'll all be OK this time. Mine is Monday so not too much longer now

Totally with you Cairn on everything smelling - making squash for the DCs is stomach churning, and as for the nappies :(

Wow Lindor, what a (hopefully) lovely surprise, but not surprised you're in Shock, my friend was 25wks when she found out about her 1st - they'd been told to go away and save up for IVF!

Oh, and I'm another one who would be embarrassed to admit how much babysitting cbeebies is doing atm Blush but I have to try and get stuff done during the day as I am so tired in the evenings, I feel like Alice in Wonderland - running as fast as I can to stay where I am but not actually making progress - the kids are clean, fed and clothed but I'm getting nowhere with actually unpacking or making the house less cluttered, then I feel bad about DH doing so much in th evenings/weekends when he's working full time and commuting too :(

cairnterrier · 18/10/2011 14:11

Thanks to other CBeebies frequent flyers! I figure that it's only a few weeks out of DS's life but its not helpful when people start posting things on other threads about TV for under 2s. We were away last week (first holiday since DS arrived and I spent 2 days tucked up in bed feeling dreadful :( ) and so watching children's networks from all round the world - it does make me feel as though CBeebies has at least some educational content (clutching at straws!).

All housework bar absolute essentials (washing clothes and washing up) is just not getting done until I start feeling better. DH is being a star but I just wish I could explain how you can be feeling too nauseous to do anything but then still eat loads :(

For anyone else that's reached the 10 week stage though, that's a quarter of the way through Grin

FloydieDoydie · 18/10/2011 14:54

Can someone please remove me from the list, as I've had a miscarriage. Sad.

Thanks