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elizabethtailored · 24/08/2011 13:31

I only did it a test this morning and have not even told my husband yet!

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RedSlippers · 21/09/2011 17:43

Thanks all for the messages and finger crossing, it really does mean a lot.

I have endometriosis so usual AF is extreme (it's not like that) but it is constant bleeding and severe cramps. Started with brown watery discharge a couple of days ago, now bright red (sorry if TMI Blush ). No clots, so that's what I'm clinging on to. Trying to stay positive.

Might go to A&E in the morning if it's still bad and try and get a scan if possible. Will update you.

Thanks again lovely people.

RedSlippers · 21/09/2011 17:46

Northey and Musical good luck with your scans also, I'll be keeping an eye out for you both for updates. Fingers crossed for us all!

Northey · 21/09/2011 18:04

It's rotten, I know. You end up not wanting to go to the loo, for fear of what you might see.

I think someone earlier in the thread had some quite good advice about A&E, which was that they might not really know what they're doing, so if you have a clear idea of what you want them to do for you, they are more likely to go along with it.

Northey · 21/09/2011 18:12

Ah, it was musicalmrs herself, last Sunday. I don't know how to link to a post, but the crucial bit was "Think the problem at A&E is that the doctors didn't necessarily know where to send me. Last night, my doctor asked "Do you want to be admitted?". I said no, but I wanted to know my hCG levels and have a scan! Apparently I just needed to ask ;) "

mildertduck · 21/09/2011 18:31

Fingers crossed for you red...

Feeling better today, and more like I was last week - which to be fair wasn't great but I'll take it! Still threw up twice this morning but not feeling as dehydrated which was the real kicker.

Got home to letter from the JR - scan on 30th September. Posted separately about it as it seems insanely early (I'll be 8+5, I think). And they've misspelt my first name and think I'm Miss not Mrs. Sigh...

musicalmrs · 21/09/2011 19:11

Redslippers, the fact there have been no clots is good. Mine was exactly the same - watery brown for a few days, then bright red on Saturday. Now it varies between the two (though tends to be bright red only for a short amount of time, then brown for a while, suggesting some kind of rupture maybe.?).

And yes - Northey - I hate my trips to the loo at the moment. Especially when I've been feeling crampy (which I am at the moment sadly).

A&E was a horrible experience, but the gynaes have been brilliant. My top tips for A&E at our stage (for anyone worried/panicking):

  • Go at a 'peak' time of day. At our hospital, the gynae emergency unit is only open between 8am and 6pm on week days. As a result, I couldn't be referred there on my first trip to A&E.
  • Make sure you get your blood results. That way you can then book a later appointment with whoever, and know all your levels. Bear in mind there may be very little communication between your doctor and the A&E/gynae bits of the hospital (as in my case)
  • Do tell your A&E doctor what you're worried about, and what you want. I didn't the first time, and nothing happened. The second time, I said I was worried about miscarriage or ectopic, and said I wanted my blood results and a scan. I didn't get them straight away, but I did get referred to a gynae who could put the wheels in motion (and who did internal exams etc).

Also - please be prepared to wait for a scan. The timetables are often booked up far in advance. When I was in on Saturday, they were fully booked up for Monday (and wouldn't scan on Sunday).

Plus, do take stuff with you to do, take your mind off of things etc. It takes forever to get anything done until you're in the right department. It's worth calling your local EPU (early pregnancy unit) and seeing if they will let you see someone directly; at my hospital, you have to be referred through a GP or A&E, so sadly wasn't an option for me.

Of course, you may be met by wonderful amazing people at A&E! I had amazing nurses there, but absolutely useless doctors (the second set of nurses I met upon being checked in on the second visit were shocked I wasn't scanned the first time, for example!).

I also find being prepared for the worst the best option - although it's rather miserable.

Hope the bleeding's subsiding a bit. Thinking of you.

Catsycat · 21/09/2011 19:11

I'm sorry, redslippers. What a shame they can't see you until Monday - I think you are right to use your own judgement and go to A&E if you feel the need. I had to go to our local one a couple of months ago, and they were so kind and considerate. They actually seemed very clued up too about pg stuff, and got the gynaes involved ASAP. It wasn't good news for me that time, but I couldn't have asked for better treatment. I hope everything will work out for you despite the horribly worrying time you're having.

Hi BlueCrane. I remember you from the mc board. Congratulations! Hope we will all have much stickiness from those beans!!!

dreamingofanallotment · 21/09/2011 20:15

Fingers crossed for you redslippers. Hope your scans go well Northey and MusicalMrs too.

DialMforMummy · 21/09/2011 20:21

I hope things go well for you northey, musicalms and Redslippers.

BlueCrane · 22/09/2011 09:35

Well, my cold seems to be easing off, but the tiredness is definitely there and the combination of pregnacare and a small bean are wreaking havoc with my bowels so I'm back on the prunes to keep things moving Blush

Thinking of you redslippers, nothey and musicalmrs really hope you all have some good news soon - the waiting is hideous Sad

Sorry I still haven't had a chance to read back up the thread so I'll just offer a to everyone else and hope all are doing well Smile

titan · 22/09/2011 11:43

Morning all. Sorry to hear about the bleeding musicalmrs, red slippers and Northey. hope you get good news at your scans. Personally I find pregnancy quite stressful as you are always worrying about things that could go wrong.

Saw my GP for the first time today. I have been very anxious as I had quite a rough time with complications in my last pregnancy (severe PE and IUGR). She is doing an urgent referral to the obstetrician so hopefully I'll get a relatively early appointment.

Just wondering - has anyone else been advised to take aspirin? I was told to take it but haven't started yet as I'm worried about it causing miscarriage.

tostaky · 22/09/2011 12:19

Hi there! im jumping on the bandwagon! Due 24th may with my third. Have two boys already 3 and 1.5. This one was unplanned (we knew we wanted a third but it is a year early!!)

Sorry to hear about the bleedings, i heard it does not necessary lead to MC but of course, it can. Sending lots of positive vibes towards you. Be strong xx

Updated list
elizabethtailored - due 1st May
MyDaydream - due 1st May - #1
Harecare - due 2nd May - #3
saggybaps - due 4th May
DialMforMummy - due 4th May
Goodname - due 4th May #2
Yorky - due 3rd or 5th May #4
FloydieDoydie - due 7th May #1
Mildertduck - due 7th/8th May
myweeangel - due 8th May - #2
Quenelle - due 9th May - #2
Wrigglebum - due 9th May
Mythical - due 9th May - #1
TooOldForThisLark - due 9th May #4
Marmite123 - due 10th May
Failsafe -due 11th May
Little9 - 11th May - #1
Dreaming - due 12th May - #1
chocolatesparkle - due 12th May #1
RedSlippers - due 12th May - #1
Yay for May - due 14th May
Lalabaloo - due 14th May
Cacacaz - due around 14th May - #1
Sugarx - due around 15 May - #1
BatsInTheSnowglobe - due around 15th May - #1
Heidihole - due 16th May
Titan - due 16th May #2
Byrnsie30 -16th May #1
cupcakefairy - due 17th May - #2
MandaHugNKiss - due 18th May - #4
musicalmrs - due 18th May ish - #1
UpTheOldDuff - due 18th May
Sunshine100 - due 19th May
Slovenly - due 20th May
jenfraggle - due 21st May - #1
Knittymum - due 22nd May
PopEsMummy - due 22nd May #2
tostaky - due 24th May #3
Catsycat - due 28th May #3
Northey - due at some point in May #1
MixedClassBaby - due end May #2
BlueCrane - due 31st May #1

Wow! A few people are on number 3 or 4!!! Crazy, crazy!! well all our friends think we are crazy when we mention we want a third!

tostaky · 22/09/2011 12:23

Titan ? I could be wrong but I think aspirin is not recommended during pregnancy in the UK. Paracetamol is a much safer bet. Are you from abroad? Sometimes in other countries, people do different things.. like in France, people eat cheese and drink a bit of wine during pregnancy!

Folic acid is recommended though. Im taking mine!
Smile

titan · 22/09/2011 12:34

Hi, tostaky and welcome! I am in UK. Aspirin definitely isn't recommended routinely but there is some evidence it may help in people with previous preeclampsia or recurrent miscarriage and in some other conditions.The standard advice is to start at 12 weeks but different doctors seem to advise different things. Some say to start pre conception. Mine said to start as soon as I got a positive test but I have held off so far. Was just wondering whether anybody else had been told to start it early and whether they had bleeding with it.

Wommer · 22/09/2011 12:50

Hi again all, again really good luck to those who are bleeding.... Thinking of you!

Cupcakefairy - thanks so so so much for the reassurance... Am feeling much better about the whole thing now. It's just such a massive deal - and being our first just have no clue whatsoever as to what to expect.

Got the dr.s on Monday to get the official word, but think with 4 bfps (yes we really were that surprised!) that it's pretty definite!

Hope everyone has a good day

Xxx

(also would someone mind adding me to the list please? - iPhone won't allow copy/paste - due date is 21st may. Thanks so much)

Quenelle · 22/09/2011 13:48

elizabethtailored - due 1st May
MyDaydream - due 1st May - #1
Harecare - due 2nd May - #3
saggybaps - due 4th May
DialMforMummy - due 4th May
Goodname - due 4th May #2
Yorky - due 3rd or 5th May #4
FloydieDoydie - due 7th May #1
Mildertduck - due 7th/8th May
myweeangel - due 8th May - #2
Quenelle - due 9th May - #2
Wrigglebum - due 9th May
Mythical - due 9th May - #1
TooOldForThisLark - due 9th May #4
Marmite123 - due 10th May
Failsafe -due 11th May
Little9 - 11th May - #1
Dreaming - due 12th May - #1
chocolatesparkle - due 12th May #1
RedSlippers - due 12th May - #1
Yay for May - due 14th May
Lalabaloo - due 14th May
Cacacaz - due around 14th May - #1
Sugarx - due around 15 May - #1
BatsInTheSnowglobe - due around 15th May - #1
Heidihole - due 16th May
Titan - due 16th May #2
Byrnsie30 -16th May #1
cupcakefairy - due 17th May - #2
MandaHugNKiss - due 18th May - #4
musicalmrs - due 18th May ish - #1
UpTheOldDuff - due 18th May
Sunshine100 - due 19th May
Slovenly - due 20th May
jenfraggle - due 21st May - #1
Wommer - due 21st May - #1
Knittymum - due 22nd May
PopEsMummy - due 22nd May #2
tostaky - due 24th May #3
Catsycat - due 28th May #3
Northey - due at some point in May #1
MixedClassBaby - due end May #2
BlueCrane - due 31st May #1

Quenelle · 22/09/2011 13:50

Hi everyone. Welcome new people.

Nothing new to report, except feeling queasier by the day now. I actually panic at the thought of being hungry now, because that's when I feel sick.

And yesterday I was so full of hormones that I had a headache and could smell myself. It was disgusting.

Yorky · 22/09/2011 14:38

Hehe Tostaky, my 3rd was due on May 24th! and there's a closer gap between him and his big sister than we expected, I often tell people 'we knew we weren't stopping at 2, then we found out we weren't stopping at 2!'

Hope all those with bleeding stress are managing to stay positive, and maybe even think of something else for a couple of minutes a day- I don't know how though.

shanks313 · 22/09/2011 14:42

Starting to feel queasy every day at around 2pm...just in time for school run lol

Rugbylovingmum · 22/09/2011 15:15

Hi all,

I know I'm a bit late to the party but can I join you all please. As far as I can work out my edd is around the end of May but the last couple of months at work have been awful and I've been distracted so I'm not really sure of my dates Blush. I have actually just handed my notice in and started job hunting (I have 13 weeks notice to work so thought that would give me some time to find something else). DP and I decided that I would go back on the pill until I was settled in a new job so this is a bit of a shock but a very good one Smile. I don't really have any symptoms yet plus I didn't really know when AF was due so it still feels a bit unreal, despite 2 bfps.

Anyway, I'm going to go and have a read through the thread and see how everyone is doing. I'll add myself to the list - hope that is okay.

Updated list
elizabethtailored - due 1st May
MyDaydream - due 1st May - #1
Harecare - due 2nd May - #3
saggybaps - due 4th May
DialMforMummy - due 4th May
Goodname - due 4th May #2
Yorky - due 3rd or 5th May #4
FloydieDoydie - due 7th May #1
Mildertduck - due 7th/8th May
myweeangel - due 8th May - #2
Quenelle - due 9th May - #2
Wrigglebum - due 9th May
Mythical - due 9th May - #1
TooOldForThisLark - due 9th May #4
Marmite123 - due 10th May
Failsafe -due 11th May
Little9 - 11th May - #1
Dreaming - due 12th May - #1
chocolatesparkle - due 12th May #1
RedSlippers - due 12th May - #1
Yay for May - due 14th May
Lalabaloo - due 14th May
Cacacaz - due around 14th May - #1
Sugarx - due around 15 May - #1
BatsInTheSnowglobe - due around 15th May - #1
Heidihole - due 16th May
Titan - due 16th May #2
Byrnsie30 -16th May #1
cupcakefairy - due 17th May - #2
MandaHugNKiss - due 18th May - #4
musicalmrs - due 18th May ish - #1
UpTheOldDuff - due 18th May
Sunshine100 - due 19th May
Slovenly - due 20th May
jenfraggle - due 21st May - #1
Knittymum - due 22nd May
PopEsMummy - due 22nd May #2
tostaky - due 24th May #3
Catsycat - due 28th May #3
Northey - due at some point in May #1
MixedClassBaby - due end May #2
BlueCrane - due 31st May #1
Rugbylovingmum - due end May #2

Rugbylovingmum · 22/09/2011 15:17

Oops, sorry -I think I copied the wrong list. I'll try again.

elizabethtailored - due 1st May
MyDaydream - due 1st May - #1
Harecare - due 2nd May - #3
saggybaps - due 4th May
DialMforMummy - due 4th May
Goodname - due 4th May #2
Yorky - due 3rd or 5th May #4
FloydieDoydie - due 7th May #1
Mildertduck - due 7th/8th May
myweeangel - due 8th May - #2
Quenelle - due 9th May - #2
Wrigglebum - due 9th May
Mythical - due 9th May - #1
TooOldForThisLark - due 9th May #4
Marmite123 - due 10th May
Failsafe -due 11th May
Little9 - 11th May - #1
Dreaming - due 12th May - #1
chocolatesparkle - due 12th May #1
RedSlippers - due 12th May - #1
Yay for May - due 14th May
Lalabaloo - due 14th May
Cacacaz - due around 14th May - #1
Sugarx - due around 15 May - #1
BatsInTheSnowglobe - due around 15th May - #1
Heidihole - due 16th May
Titan - due 16th May #2
Byrnsie30 -16th May #1
cupcakefairy - due 17th May - #2
MandaHugNKiss - due 18th May - #4
musicalmrs - due 18th May ish - #1
UpTheOldDuff - due 18th May
Sunshine100 - due 19th May
Slovenly - due 20th May
jenfraggle - due 21st May - #1
Wommer - due 21st May - #1
Knittymum - due 22nd May
PopEsMummy - due 22nd May #2
tostaky - due 24th May #3
Catsycat - due 28th May #3
Northey - due at some point in May #1
MixedClassBaby - due end May #2
BlueCrane - due 31st May #1
Rugbylovingmum - due end May #2

RedSlippers · 22/09/2011 15:50

Thanks for all the good wishes- but not good news for me after trip to A&E I'm afraid, absolutely devastated. This was my first pregnancy and I was so thrilled and excited :(

Hopefully I'll be back on this board soon but in the meantime I wish all of you happy, healthy, and uneventful pregnancies.

P.S can someone delete me from the list when they update it please? I just can't bring myself to do it. Thanks.

Wommer · 22/09/2011 16:17

Oh, redslippers, I'm so so sorry to hear your news.
Much love
Xxx

Quenelle · 22/09/2011 16:38

Sorry RedSlippers Sad

Northey · 22/09/2011 16:41

Redslippers that's absolutely wretched. I'm so sorry for you and will look out for you posting back in antenatal soon, and be so pleased to see you there. I hope you don't feel in physical pain as well as emotional, and hope the emotional hurt becomes manageable soon. Lots of love and best wishes for the future.