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October 2011 Baby Bus... PART 4

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happymummytobe · 01/08/2011 13:03

A new thread for the bus!

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happymummytobe · 16/09/2011 20:19

telling people I'm pregnant of course. Not pregnancy...

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Scheherezade · 17/09/2011 00:25

Oh dear, I'm very into my home baking and wild horses couldn't stop me from cleaning out cake mixture from a bowl! My mum is a food microbiologist and says there's nothing to worry about anyway - and I've not had salmonella once in my life. Plus UK eggs are immunised.

I'm absolutely exhausted, feeling really tearful and drained. But I can't sleep - baby is trying to turn, and lying down/sleeping on my side is so painful - I actually thought I was going into labour! Standing and sitting doesn't hurt as much, might try dozing on the sofa.

Leo4 · 17/09/2011 00:40

Poor you scherezade I bet LO turning around at this stage would be Painful!! No wonder you haven't been sleeping! I've not been sleeping at all either but it's starting to be for no particular reason ... I am suffering slightly with my SPD but I just keep waking up in the night hour after hour... I reckon it's getting me ready for night feeds!

Edward yes it is my first but I didn't think everyone would feel the same but I'm guessing knowing your a mum for the first time is an odd/exciting/ emotional feeling!!

bb3 hope LO starts moving again it's horrible when they don't. O and how old is your DS my little brother who is 5 didn't speak until really late and hated nursery to begin with but eventually he started communicating well the nursery workers just gave him time and didn't think it was odd at all... I really think it's to early to judge and assess the situation!

In other news and I know this is probably TMI I really think I've had my bloody show... Hopefully it's all the pineapple I've been eating ripening my cervix!

Scheherezade · 17/09/2011 00:53

yes poor me, lots of sympathy please, whilst dearest DP is fast asleep upstairs Grin baby has stopped trying to turn now, but my stomach is so, so sore after being pushed and stretched and pulled sideways! And I think he's back in bloody breech anyway.

Spent this afternoon bathing my horse and cleaning brushes so am pretty pooped!

Got bloody bitten by a dog today aswell Angry - friends have just got a new rescue jack russel. We'd been friends all day, having lots of cuddles and strokes, and then out of nowhere - itbit me! It was sat on my lap, as it had been for a couple of hours (I was drinking tea!) and then - snap! And it got very irate when I threw him down on the floor unceremoniously and bit me again! Little bastard. Didn't hurt, only just caught my hand. but still. MY dog would never ever do that!

Scheherezade · 17/09/2011 00:54

leo - ooooh, very exciting about the show, wonder if it's a sign that things are moving along....?!

Penelope1980 · 17/09/2011 01:09

leo how exciting if you've got the show! Must try and get some pineapple myself.

I too am starting to think about my post-preg body, not in an obsessive way but am sooooo over my maternity clothes and can't wait to wear my old stuff again (assuming a can, ever!) Actually, getting sick of mat clothes is one thing that I haven't liked so much about being pg to add to my list.

CheshireDing · 17/09/2011 03:00

Leo how exciting :)

I think Porgey has hiccups, although this is the first time I have noticed it, it's now keeping me awake and we have furniture to erect today.

The first baby from our hypobirthing class has been born and although they kept telling her it was a really big baby, she turned out to be 6lb 7oz. I am hoping they have got my measurements right and I don't end up trying to pop out a whopper!

Think I have to wait a bit longer before I can start scoffing lovely pineapple again.

BB3 · 17/09/2011 06:01

Good morning all

I am awake of my own accord - DS is still sound asleep in his bed Shock DH worked until late last night so is also zonked (although even if he didn't he would still be asleep until i forcibly push him out of bed and there is no way on earth he would wake up at 5.30!). So I am watching my favourite american programmes online wide awake (And it's lovely!!!). I will suffer for it later but then I think I was asleep by 9 last night and had a relatively good night (5 toilet breaks but managed to go straight back to sleep!). And the babies are wiggling away which is a nice feeling.

Sassy glad DD gets to control the situation. I have a friend who has to drop her children off kicking and screaming with their father even though they hate it and beg her not to leave but the courts won't have it any other way.

Oooh ice cream preferences - I would go for real cornish vanilla if it's something like strawberries and ice cream but by itself, strawberry cheesecake Haagen Dazs.

Bilblio I know. I've decided not to let myself get even more worked up about it and basically tell them to back off until half term which was what was agreed in the first place and then we will have the relevant discussions. If that means access to SLC is delayed by two months and he needs it then I will pay for it privately to make sure he has it when he needs it.

I hate being pregnant - well that's not completely true. With DS. I HATED, HATED, HATED being pregnant. I was sick for the entire 9 months and had a really bad last few months with him. I also (and this is a horrible thing to say) really really resented my pregnancy as it was taking me away from the life I knew, I couldn't go out with my friends, go to the gym, work was changing etc - very shallow but I just couldn't get my head round it. This time up until about 6-8 weeks ago (and apart from the horrid, horrid ms up until month 4) it hasn't been nearly as bad but I think that's more to do with me and my own mind accepting it much more readily. Although I wouldn't chose to do the 9 months of pregnancy again if I didn't have to to get a baby!

Scheh ouch for painful movements (and I still lick the bowl too - I can't help myself!!! Blush But I always feel bad after I do!). Can't believe that dog bit you - did it break skin? What did your friends do?

Leo he was two in April so is 29 months. And in other news... how exciting!!! Crikey it's really starting to feel real isn't it!! You know we are all going to be out buying pineapple today don't you!

penelope it took me about a year to get my pre pregnancy body back with DS (and I bf'd for 9 months of it). I am hoping taking longer mat leave and running around after the kids this time will make it easier this time but while I cannot wait for my old (and new clothes), I am in no rush to push the weight off. I do think you have to do it slowly and not have the added pressure of looking good. I was just and just back to my size 10 skinniest jeans when I got pg with these two. I do want to get back into exercise but only for my own health rather than weight and I love to put on my running shoes and just escape for an hour or so.

Cheshire yes that's what happened to me. Poor DS was drowned in the the 0-3 clothes I got him for hospital as they told me he was really big and ended up having to send my mum to get tiny baby clothes (as he was so skinny newborn didn't fit him either!) so he didn't look quite to awful coming home!

36+4 today and this time in 9 days I will be taking my medicine for the tummy acid and then getting ready to leave the house at 7. Come on babies, we are in single figures now...

LittlePebble · 17/09/2011 06:37

Morning all.
Leo yay for show, I'll be off to buy lots of pineapple later Smile
cupoftea hope all ok and your LO has arrived safe and sound.
BB3 I am certainly no expert but too am shocked at them not giving DS time to settle in, don't let them push you into anything you aren't happy with you know your son they don't yet.
Hope everyone is a bit more comfy today?
No sleep for me last night, yesterday was a bit emotional and very long. Was touched by work all chipping in to buy me presents, I had cupcakes and flowers etc all arranged as a surprise. Really sad to be leaving them and didn't like handing my lovely team over to the lady who's taking over. When I was teary she commented it must be my hormones. No you silly cow it's because I've worked my ass off for four years to create a team that are amazing and a department that runs like clockwork and I care about all of them.....grrr! Angry

Very scared about huge changes from now on but very exciting too. 36+6 today and NO MORE WORK! Grin

Leo4 · 17/09/2011 07:35

scherezade lots of sympathy coming your way!!! I didn't feel my baby turn thank god!! Also the midwife told me the other day that the baby can bruise you and pull your muscles and that's probably why your stomach is sore!! Grr at the dog ... I hope your friends apologised!

Penelope definitely know what you mean ... Bored of not being able to wear what everyone else wears!! I will miss my bump though... Just not the maternity clothes that go with it!

Cheshire I hope that happens to me... They think my baby is massive... I wouldn't mind a 6 lb baby!!

BB3 I really think that's too young to start worrying, if they make a big deal out of it they may scare him more and delay him further...I know you will make the right decisions anyway.. You know your own child. hope all goes well

Pebble yay for no more work!!! But I can understand it's emotional letting go of something you created! Now it's you and baby time though!!!

I really do hope its the sign of things to come ... goes off to eat some more pineapple!! Someone told me a strange way if breaking your waters and I am tempted as they said it worked but it is very odd!! They suggested getting into a HOT bath and drinking a concoction of cod-liver oil and orange juice and apparently when they tried it their waters broke within the hour! Hmmmmm

Penelope1980 · 17/09/2011 07:53

Leo4 I don't know where I would even find cod liver oil???

bb3 good advice re weight loss later - I have no idea what to expect so am not going to put too much pressure on myself esp as have put on well over 3 stone. I think if I had to choose getting my fitness back or my size back I'd choose fitness - was really fit and strong pre pregnancy and got a lot of enjoyment from a good workout.

Penelope1980 · 17/09/2011 07:56

LittlePebble are you going back to work later, or is it over for good? I felt odd leaving work too but am planning on going back - a lot of my odd feeling though came from the fact that the woman taking over my team was someone who wanted the job in the first place and has been a bit subversive since I got appointed earlier in the year. It's been two weeks since I left work though and am actually really enjoying it, I don't think I've taken it this easy since university holidays!

Leo4 · 17/09/2011 08:10

I got some from tesco ....

BB3 · 17/09/2011 08:34

Hello all

Can I warn against cod liver oil? I tried it with DS and it was awful and just ended up having cramps and was petrified I'd hurt DS. It's supposed to loosen you up and front and back iyswim but it just gave me terrible tummy cramps. Although I have heard it worked for others...

Hot baths seem to be popular. I always have very warm ones anyway and top it up the second it doesnt feel hot but the babies don't like it they rush to the top of my bump to escape the heat so have had to cool them down somewhat! One more thing to look forward too post pregnancy!

BB3 · 17/09/2011 08:40

pebble ive shocked myself at how much I love being on mat leave (compared to with DS). But first time does take some adjustment.

Penelope agree re fitness want to get my core back to normal asap especially with the cs damage so that i prevent any long term back or fitness problems and then get fitness up again. Your body never ever goes back to normal I don't think - mine completely changed shape after DS - my hips were wider (even when I lost the baby weight) and my rib cage never went completely back to it's normal size. Some people are lucky and will shrink back straight away but I think it's important to be realistic. They say 9 months on, 9 months off but while I'd lost the weight technically after 9 mints my body was still all saggy and not right x

BB3 · 17/09/2011 08:41

Sorry cod liver oil is supposed to loosen you up back (stools) and front (cervix) as a result. That makes more sense !

Leo4 · 17/09/2011 08:42

Thanks bb3 .... I was bit dubious bout it anyway xx

Penelope1980 · 17/09/2011 09:21

Hmmmm I'll give the cod liver oil a miss then! I am loving baths at present though - some days it feels like the place where I am most comfy!

I have a body type that means I put on weight quite easily, so am not expecting to shift the pounds too quickly. I am very curious about what shape I'll be afterward though. I suppose the challenge will be finding time and energy to exercise, something I've always taken for granted before.

BB3 · 17/09/2011 09:28

It might work, I was overdue so tried everything!!! I can only go on personal experience and also it's awful and made me gag swallowing it!

I have a figure where all the weight goes on my hips, legs and boobs so my stomach will go fairly flat soon after but it will be the rest of me that stays big x there will be no time to exercise!!! It's just a case of making time once everything is settled in. It will be harder during winter too. I'll take babies for walks a lot and think eventually I'll do some exercise videos at home when DS is at nursery and we have some form of routine (she says with DS having none routine at all as a baby!! Blush) I don't plan to do much before Christmas though not with all that yummy food around!!

PenguinArmy · 17/09/2011 09:34

Someone rang yesterday to give me a appt at T-10days to discuss my asthma Confused. Didn't know that got put in the referral, but I guess it's because it's not quite under control atm and I had the attack in labour last time. I told them I didn't want it and to sort out the other one. I mean it's not like due date is only 4 weeks away now Hmm

I didn't lose much weight until 4 months and then it came off. However we had moved countries, had a tighter food budget and I started a new job as well starting running again. I was actually really liking my figure when I got pg, apart from eyes where it was really evident I had lots more lines and had started to age. Also toning was a issue on arms etc. When I did get fit it was in different ways, in my climbing I got really strong in my upper body, but didn't have the same stamina as before.

With DD and overdue I was very active (running around like a loon trying to sort lods out, my official job offer for CA came through in the last week) and it didn't make a difference. Even ran about a mile as I was ate to meet someone. Still had a long labour as well.

36+0

mpops · 17/09/2011 09:43

Leo, how exciting about the show!

I can't believe you're all talking about post-pregnancy stuff now. Heh!

BB3 I'm really shocked by your nursery's reaction to your DS after only a couple of days. Do you think it might be something they feel they have to do to cover themselves? It seems absurd. My best friend's son is going to be 3 soon and he only started to talk when he was 2 1/2. His nursery were stressing his parents out so much that he had to go through gruelling speech therapy sessions and observations and all sorts - all he was doing was holding back until he was ready. I do hope they don't put pressure on you and the poor child. Good luck.

I'm having a bit of a funny few days. My DH is going away to Greece on an important conference next week. I'll be 38 weeks and we decided jointly he should go quite some time ago, aware of the risk but thinking nothing would happen anyway. But now I see some of you are on their way, and although I have no indications of anything happening here, I'm still sooooo nervous. It would take him nearly a day to get back, so if anything were to kick off he could potentially not be there. Which is terrifying! I have no family here and although all my friends are rushing to help, it's just not the same in this case, is it? We obviously said that if anything starts he won't go but still. NERVOUS!

It's great to read all the latest developments on here, anyway. Not long to go now!

37+3

Scheherezade · 17/09/2011 10:11

Friends didn't apologise, just said to put him down and ignore him, but tbf it wasn't their fault - they'd warned me he could be snappy, but only when bein gprotective. He didn't break the skin and it didn't hurt. Was just very rude of him, but thats JRT's for you :D

Am off to pick up my changing table today! Very sore after over-doing it at stables yesterday so just a day of sitting round I think. Luckily the stable lads are very sweet and doing everything for me, so I can just not turn up if i want :)

36 + 3

GroovyRach · 17/09/2011 10:42

Morning all! Leo how exciting about the show!! Sounds like it's all starting!!

TMI alert now.. I had alot of discharge this morning, kinda green and snotty like? Anyone? Lol. My back is so achy, just hoping that things are happening Smile

One thing I'm really looking forward to after baby is getting back to the gym. I was doing body pump and combat a few times a week and was loving how great I felt after it, aswell as my change in body shape and strength. My arms in particular were really toning up but now they are back to their flabby state Blush. Ah, won't be long!

37+6 38 weeks 2mrw Grin

BB3 · 17/09/2011 10:45

Groovy could be your mucus plug x

GroovyRach · 17/09/2011 11:03

Ooooh, that would be good if it is! Lol. Keeping my fingers crossed then. Will have a day of getting house into a bit of order so I can relax over next few days. She will be born this week Grin

Thank goodness I have you ladies who have experience with this kinda stuff. First time and clueless!!! Wink

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