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Due Nov - This is it girls!! whos next to pop??

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Busyalexsmummy · 31/10/2005 23:04

Here we go!

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ChaCha · 11/11/2005 18:02

We were in the middle of choosing floor tiles this afternoon when I could no longer walk Had to sit on big tub of paint for a while and felt really silly!! Stood up and tried to walk again but same pains..down below and almost a grinding, heavy kind of pain.
Called m/w from discreet corner of DIY store and explained it felt like baby moving down but rather awkwardly, she agreed and told me to see how things went after an hour and to call delivery suite again if any doubts. Thankfully now i'm fine but feeling sore and heavy when walking. Did anyone else feel this way?
I guess i'll be lucky to get a reply these days....I should maybe join the Dec bunch...but it's not even mid-Novemmber yet...where is everyone?

Well on a happy note, kitchen floor will be all tiled by sunday afternoon...yippeee! The joys of being a housewife with nesting instinct. xx

SharonTW · 11/11/2005 18:35

Cha Cha I've been feeling the same, sitting down every 5 minutes and feeling heavy down there, baby going mad just now, think it's trying to head butt it's way out x

Diege · 11/11/2005 20:02

ChaCha,
I felt the very same feelings you had 4 days before going into labour. I also called for advice, and was told it was the baby getting into position. So you never know, could be the final countdown!
Diege

KristinaM · 11/11/2005 20:13

Hi cha cha and sharon - seems like we're the only ones left. No news from Karma and BOB, Also twinkle must have had her baby by now.

I have the same heavy feelings that you both describe and am feeling really tired.

Today had my first ( and hopefully last) appointment at the hospital antenatal clinic followed by an antenatal class. What a waste of time!!!! Took me and hour and a half to get there then I had to wait more than an hour to be seen for 5 mins by MW. Who commented on the fact that I've had all my antental care at the local surgery saying " Most women prefer to come here and be seen by a MW!!!!!" Yeah sure, why woudl i drive to my local surgery ( 5 mins) with DS1 for a 20 mins appointment with my friendly GP when I coudl spend 4 1/2 hours and £14 on travel and £25 on childcare to come here!!!!! Stupid woman

Also was able to confirm that hospital will not intervene until i am over 40 weeks. I'm worried about having problems again delivering another big baby. Last time I went to term plus 13. She said they will do a sweep at term plus 3 and if it doenst work I will get an induction at 10-13 days over

twinkle1 · 11/11/2005 20:44

Hello ladies, Mr Twinkle here. Joshua William was delivered at 12:50 today coming in at a gorgeous 6lb 7oz. Nicola and Joshua are both doing great. She sends everybody her love and thanks for all of your support.

carly82 · 11/11/2005 20:52

sorry to crash your thread girls but just wanted to say a massive congrats to mr and mrs twinkle and your little twinklette joshua xxxx

ChaCha · 11/11/2005 21:15

Diege - That's encouraging! Well, one can live in hope! The pains are on and off and I'm really tired this evening - just feel so heavy. Sharon - hope you're feeling okay too, let's hope we really don't have too long to wait.

Congratulations Twinkle - lovely choice of name. Very happy for you and look forward to hearing from you v.soon

Kristina - Hope you're okay. Sorry about your long trip and crappy appt Hope you have a relaxing evening/weekend and all is well. I do hope that you don't have to wait that long and baby makes a speedy appearance.
Here's hoping our babies are all on time or not long to wait!!!

Best be off and hi to SarahSausage xxx

BEKsmum · 11/11/2005 21:26

Congratulations Twinkle, glad everything went well and what a lovely choice of name. Beks

Busyalexsmummy · 11/11/2005 21:58

Hi, nothing to report here, same cramps on and off.
Finally finished ds's bedroom-yay!!!
Carnival tommorrow! caos!
Hope everyones well, its so quiet on here now!

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novadandypowder · 12/11/2005 00:22

Evenin' all - no I'm not with a wakeful baby, DH and I have just got in from a night out and he's doing the night shift so i can sleep .

Yes Diege we're also hoping to try for a 6 month(ish) age gap. I'm being a bridesmaid in April so I need to get that out of the way first, and we'll try after that. Just dreading the sick bit again.

Congratulations Twinkle xx

I probably can't offer any words of consolation to those still waiting for babies, but rest assured the Nov ladies won't leave you!!

SharonTW · 12/11/2005 03:14

Hello everyone - I hate these long nights, at least when there's a baby here I won't be bored, fell asleep eearly was shattered and now can't sleep, also fell out with DH because I snapped at the dog, he went to bed then whe I've just come downstairs to have a warm drink and try to relax dog has peed on wool rug, think the dog is going to have to go , really had enough.
So now more wound up heartburn killer tonight and still so long to go.
Sorry to go on, hope tomorrow's a better day !
Misery guts 39+1 x

tegan · 12/11/2005 03:25

Good morning Sharon. I'm not pg but I'm up too cos dd1 has had a nighmare a dd2 just doestn't sleep. I should of seen it coming that dd2 would be a bad sleeper seeing as I never had a wink from the minute I conceived. I would have 2 hours sleep and wake up feeling like I had had 20 hours, I would get up and clean constantly, I would pu the washing on the line then 30 mins later check if it was dry enought to iron and this went on until the minute she popped out.

ChaCha · 12/11/2005 09:34

Good morning ladies,

Sharon - Hope you managed to get some sleep in the end and that the dog is back in your good books. I didn't get much sleep either, slept at 2am and woke at 5 so will no doubt be nodding off on sofa later dribbling away like an old granny! (no offence to old grannies!)

Busy - Well done on finishing bedroom. Not long till your EDD now..

Nova - Must have been nice to have had a night out together - hope it's something you are able to do frequently.

Our floor tiles are being fitted right now so only carpetting left to do upstairs. Hope we can get it all done this week. Another lazy day I think, really don't feel like going out after yesterday's trip out...anyway, see you all later if haven't deserted me for the weekend

Londoner · 12/11/2005 10:40

Hi everyone!

......And CONGRATULATIONS Twinkle! on the safe delivery of baby Joshua, looking forward to hearing all your news.........!

dramaqueen72 · 12/11/2005 11:11

sorry to gatecrash here ladies can see your all pretty busy having those babies....but I am from the due in dec thread and heard one of you had a ECV/medical turning of the baby? i am poss facing one myself and would like to hear all about it please!!! and did you go on to have a head first birth? thanks guys.........

rodeo1 · 12/11/2005 12:25

Congratulations Mr and Mrs Twinkle!! Welcome baby Joshua! Our teeniest babyn Can't wait to here all the details.

Join us on the post natal thread when you can! And to those who can't find it, it's here!

Dramaqueen, I think it was KristinaM who had the ECV I found this, although don't think she's had her baby yet -

The ECV was ok - I mean it was sore like an amnio but obvioulsly goes on a lot longer. But not sore like a big contraction! Just didnt relaise that i woudl be so sore and bruised afterwards. Hospital didnt mention it so maybe its not usual. I suppose its compounded by head descending when i'm still bruised. obviously has a bit to go yet as doeosnt yet feel like its on my back passage!!!

x x x

KristinaM · 12/11/2005 12:29

Hi dramaqueen. I'm now 38+4, I had an ECV last week when i was 37 weeks plus as my baby was breech. He had been either transverse or breech for most of the pregnancy.It was the same with my last baby but he turned himself at about 35 weeks. So i suspect its soemthing about the shape of my pelvis .

So far baby is still head down and as his head is engaged I'm hoping that he cant move back.Obviously I am hoping I can have a normal delivery now. I have a baby of 17 months so wanted to avoid a CS if possible. However its such a personal decision - to go for the ECV or just book an elective section. I know that I could end up with an emergency section anyway ( not very likely) or have an awful normal delivery, and then I will wish i had gone for the second option!!!!

As far as I knwo they have more success doing an ECV with subsequent babies than first, as your muscles arent so tight.I think a lot also depends on the skill of the doctor - I had a very experienced consultant.

karmamother · 12/11/2005 12:53

Hi all. Well, it's taken me an hour to read all the posts I've missed. Congratulations to all the new babies. Hope they are all good sleepers/feeders!!

The reason for my sporadic posting this week is mainly due to spending most of the time decorating. Now that I've only got 2 weeks left there's a sense of urgency about getting it finished. Also, I prefer to spend my time on MN when DP is at work. I really want to make the most of our last few weeks together before all hell breaks loose!! I should be able to pop in everyday next week, unless events dictate otherwise.(says she optimistically)

Chacha, I've been taking RLT since 35 weeks. I started on 3 per day & I'm now up to 5-6 a day. My BH's are definately stronger now so I'm hopeful they'll make a difference. I don't know if it's psychological but I always have a really strong BH within 15 mins of taking a capsule. BTW I got mine from Holland & Barretts. I'm sure we'll be the only ones left on here soon.

I saw the consultant yesterday & asked about GBS & obstetric cholestasis as my feet have been very itchy lately. Had tests for both so hopefully that'll put my mind at rest. He also said that as my GD is so well controlled he doesn't see a need to intervene with an induction until I'm post-term. Looks like there'll be a fair amount of curries/pineapple/BDing(if I can be arsed!!) in the next few weeks. Its not easy when there's a baby's head sitting just above the cervix, is it?? (TMI!)

Still in jammies so I shall sign off for now.

38+1

twinkle1 · 12/11/2005 13:15

Hello ladies, Mr Twinkle again.

Please check out photos at -

spaces.msn.com/members/jwr1/

tessasmum · 12/11/2005 13:33

Lovely photos Mr and Mrs Twinkle

Need to get some of ours online but can only just manage to read posts let alone write anything!

Foiled again - midwife just arrived!

dramaqueen72 · 12/11/2005 15:13

THANKYOU kristina, for that! this is my fourth baby, allothers were head down much much earlier... this is one is being a little tyke and has also been breech or transverse most of my pg!! just when i thought I knew what i was doing!LOL
the midwife and dr both told me I may have to have an emergency c-section if the baby gets distressed during the turn........did they say that to you too? did they make it sound rare or common because, it freaked me out! but i'm willing to try the turn if I have to, to get my nice quiet home birth! and I wanted to ask did it hurt???! I've seen some scary pictures on the internet of severe bruising from it and THAT freaked me out too!
I do hope your little guy stays head down for you and it goes onto being a nice easy birth!

KristinaM · 12/11/2005 16:28

If you?ve had vaginal deliveries before it seems a shame not to even try the Ecv . It would seem such a shame to end up with no 4 as a section, esp if you were hoping for a home birth. An you have a toddler too, don?t you?

I looked at the Royal College Guidelines and the NICE guidelines which give lots of medical information about the management of breech babies at term and ECVs. I think there are links in a post a have earlier down this page. As I recall they said there was about a 0.4 ? 1 % risk of having to rush you to theatre for an emergency CS. There is a risk of transient bradycharida with the baby but they monitor you for that. We thought it was worth the small risk as otherwise it would def be a CS anyway (unless you are prepared to argue for a breech vaginal delivery, which I wasn?t. Also they is no way they would let you deliver breech at home). I wasn?t prepared for theatre in any way ? they didn?t get me to fast or take blood etc.

Basically I was in the hospital for about 3 hours. Though as usual a lot of that is waiting about. I went into Daycare. First I had a quick scan to check baby still breech. They also check the position of the placenta ? I think they can?t do it if it?s anterior. I guess they also check the position of the cord so they don?t loop the baby around it or on case it?s too short or there is some physical reason why the baby is breech.

Then they put me on a monitor for about 20mins to get a baseline reading of the baby. Then a MW came in and explained the procedure and got me to sign a consent form. Then back to the scan room with the consultant and MW. MW did the scan while consultant tried to turn baby.

They put the bed tipped back so your head is down. Dr pressed really hard under my bump digging her fingers in, trying to lift up baby?s bum out the pelvis. You know when they check how for the head is engaged and they say, ? take a deep breath and let it out slowly? and press hard. Well just like that only harder and longer. Yes it hurts but not as bad as a big contraction IYSWIM. And they will just stop it if it?s too sore. She tried this for a bit but couldn?t get baby to move.

Then she gave me a muscle-relaxing drug into vein in my arm. Just small needle, no worse than getting bloods taken. This is to relax uterus but it gives you palpitations and makes you shake. Was unpleasant but only lasted about 20 mins. This enables Dr to get baby transverse, then to do a front somersault into cephalic. I think the whole thing in the scan room took about 15 mins. But I?ve read that some babies turn really easily within a minute or so.

Then back to day care where they monitor the baby for another 20-30 minutes. I felt a bit shaky from the drugs bit otherwise ok. Was just so relieved that it has worked & baby was fine.

The next day I felt a bit tender. Two days after the ECV the baby?s head engaged and I was REALLY tender, as I was all bruised and this big hard head was pressing on it!!!. Dh said I was bruised externally but I couldn?t see under bump of course. Felt like I had been kicked in the stomach. Couldn?t stand up straight and sore to walk up stairs. Fortunately it was a Saturday and Dh was at home so could watch kids. I just rested and took a couple of paracetemol. Was ok as long as I was lying down. Plus kept telling myself that at least with head engaged baby probably couldn?t move back!!! The next day I was fine. So it was basically one day of feeling a bit tender but I figure this cant be half as bad as you feel after a Cs and that goes on for weeks!!!

So far I am really glad I went for it. Just hope I get a normal delivery and not too many stitches [ouch emoticon]

dramaqueen72 · 13/11/2005 00:34

thankyou so very much, that sounds better than the briefing my midwife gave me!! I'm printing your reply out for my dh to read. youve really lifted my hopes and it doesnt seem so 'final' or awful. thanks so much. fingers crossed for your quick and easy birth. will keep checking in on you to find out who you have when!

novadandypowder · 13/11/2005 10:53

what beautiful pictures Twinkle, I love seeing the ones where they haven't been cleaned fully yet, so fresh and new , and you look like a very serene mummy.

Sorry if TMI, but something happened when I gave birth that has made my sex drive go through the roof . Want to pounce on DH all the time! Sadly a certain 4 wk old means it doesn't happen that much.

Hope everyone is having a good weekend, I'm looking forward to a sunday roast , although I'll probably be cooking it as DH did the night shift.

karmamother · 13/11/2005 11:15

Morning all,

well, I don't know what is happening to my sleep pattern lately but I've developed a bit of insomnia. If it's not DP snoring, (which he is especially adept at) then its baby doing acrobatics. Once I'm awake, my mind starts churning over & over thinking about what's about to happen. Does anyone else get like this? I think it's my body getting ready for the sleepless nights once she's born. Pity you can't stockpile sleep in advance.

Nova, you go, girl!! But please be careful you don't end up creating Nat's future brother/sister, ha ha!

Twinkle1, great pictures of Joshua, you both look very serene, I'm quite

Hope all the other mothers-in-waiting on here are well, wonder how long it'll be before we're all done & dusted.