November 2011 - holding hands, making plans & having scans

[TerrysNo2]

Thread 2 for the chatty lot. Welcome from the first thread and hopefully some newbies too!

This thread is for chats and this thread is for stats!

Continue as you were....

dee sending you lots of positive vibes and hoping its not what you think

wuzz back on the 30th, but not home till the next day and then we fly out on hols for a week, which meant that if id postponed for him to be back would have been 14 weeks or so, and frankly im just too impatient. I figured we can always get a private scan if he really really wants to see it (which he will!) - and anyway, he's saved a packet whilst he's been away!

goldmaple and cazandbelle happy to say have felt great today, bizarre, one day rubbish, one great but i'll take it as it was about 3 weeks on the trot rubbish!

hope everyone has had fun in the sun

Oh, dee! Fx for you that it's just a blip and bean is still hanging in there.

Wow, only came on here for the first time the other day, and you all move on quickly!

Thanks for the welcome messages, and I'm glad to see I'm not the only one who's worried.

Had about 3 days after our first scan where I was nice and relaxed after seeing heartbeat, but now starting to worry again! Just waiting for the date to come through for our 12 week scan, hopefully after that one we will really be able to relax!

About to go jump in the bath now, after a hard day in the garden in the sun! (I say hard day, I finished my book while DH was digging up bushes and trees! Apparently gardening can be risky... so unfortunately I could only watch! ;-) )

Hope everyone else is enjoying the sun, while we still can! I'm sure in the heat of August we'll all be terribly uncomfortable and unable to enjoy!

dee how are you doing hon? have you contacted them? is manshape home?

Well folks, i think that's me out.

I managed to get manshape home early, then i went to the local walk in clinic. They managed to get me into the epu EPU for a scan on tuesday. However, when i got home, i got out of the car and the blood literally hit my ankles. I've passed several large clots and am bleeding very heavily. The cramps feel like contractions, to be honest, coming every few minutes, and i have to 'breathe' through them.

I can't see a baby surviving this.

oh dee i'm so sorry. if you need somewhere to chat there's here or message me, the ladies on the thread are lovely and very supportive. i will keep fx for tuesday though. I really hope you have lots of support in rl.

dee so much love to you xx

dee very sorry for you! let your DH take good care of you!

Oh Dee, wish there was something I could say that would help

Hope you're resting and the next few days go easy on you.

Let us know how you get on xXx

Dee and Ochaye fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck, so horrible.

Oh no, so sorry to read your news ochaye and dee

Dee I am so sorry. Take care and hugs.

Dee and ochaye, so sad to hear that :( really sorry you are going through this. Hope you are being looked after in RL x x

Dee, so very sorry. I know it doesn't sound too good but I will still keep Fx for you for Tuesday.

dee so sorry that you are having to go through all that:( Take care and I will keep my FX for tuesday

Ah Dee that's just shit. Lots of love and hope you are getting lots of support and love in RL too. Take care and let us know how you get on Tuesday. xxxx

Last night i miscarried properly. I won't go into gory details, but suffice to say it was horrendous, and the baby is definately gone. I've just spoken to the EPU and they have decided that they'll wait to see me, so a week tomorrow i go to check it's all come away.

Thank you for all your suport and best wishes. I only wish i could have stayed longer. Happy and healthy pregnancies to you all x

Dee, so very, very sorry. Take care of yourself and rest up as much as you can.XX

Dee and Ochaye so sorry to hear your news x x

Oh dee and ochaye I am so so sorry.

I will keep my fingers crossed for both of you (Ochaye you didn't say if you'd had a scan so I am going to keep hoping for you too).

Take care of yourselves xx

oh dee i'm so very sorry honey. takecare of yourself .

Dee I am so so that you have gone through this. I hope you are being well taken care of and are getting lots of cuddles from your lovely children. Will be thinking of you and hoping for a sticky bean next time. xxx

Ochaye hope you are taking care of yourself today. (writing this on thread as I don't want everyone to think I am heartless in not mentioning you, but you know how I feel!)

Hello everyone else. I am really hoping that is the last rubbish news for us!

Ochaye i am so sorry. I've replied on the other thread which i lurk on.

Dee i am so sorry for your loss too. You've had a very hard night i hope you are getting lots of support in RL. I am so sorry you are having to go through this. The link that cep suggested is lovely and got me though my mc.

Thinking of you both.

Dee so sorry to hear your news.... Thinking of you! :(

Dee and ochaye Total crap. I'm so sad for you both. Hope you get another chance soon. We haven't been a very lucky group. God knows why, but I counted all the early leavers in the October thread, and they only lost seven.

I had a scan yesterday. I timed it for halfway between my last one and the 12 weeks scan. Everything is fine. Bean measures 9+3 which is as it should be. Other sac is still there with a yolk sac in it, but is still only 1cm big, so trying not to worry about it bringing the good bean away. Wish it would reabsorb. Still feel down from all the crap news, and can't take any pleasure in my own results.