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July 2011 we're entering the second half!

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confuddledDOTcom · 07/03/2011 20:21

F1rstT1meMummy 25/6/11
Ickle: EDD 29/6 pg#1 age 31
Pesha: EDD 30/6 pg#4, age 32, (dd 10yrs, ds1 7yrs, ds2 3yrs)
Blueberryjam EDD 1/7 PG#5 AGE 27 ( 7,6,4 & 8 months)
Loueytbg EDD 1/7 PG#3 Age 37 (DS1&2 3.6, 1 mc)
Tebbles EDD 1/7 PG#1 Age 29 (No DC yet)
Orchid: EDD 1/7 pg#2 age 31 (DS 2)
WolfcubEm83: EDD 1/7 pg#1 age 27
Phlebas: EDD 2/7 PG#10, age 35 (dd1 10yrs, ds 4yrs, dd2 18mo)
Riddzy: EDD 3/7 PG1, Age 31
MadAboutTheBoys 3/7 PG#3 Age 34 (DS1 3yrs; DS2 17 months)
Emmylou30: EDD4/7 pg#1 age 30
Mitchell81: EDD 4/7 pg#4 age 29(dd 10 yrs,ds1 4yrs, ds2 2yrs)
Eglu: EDD 5/7 pg#3, age 33 (DS 7 & 3) - Girl
Twit: EDD 5/7 pg#6 age 35 (3 ds's 12,9,3 one dd 4)
Countrybunkin: EDD 6/7 pg#14 age 26
Miss Lolita: EDD7/7 pg#1 age 31 - girl
ScarIettOHara: EDD 8/7 pg#1 age 34
Oceanfox: EDD 08/07 pg1 age 37
Smiler80: EDD 08/07 pg#1 age 30
Fiatlux: EDD 08/07 pg#1 age 36
MeesaMum: EDD 9/7 pg#1 age 30
wolfhound, EDD 9 July pg#3 age 40 (DS1 is 3 and DS2 is 16 mths)
Mrsfarge: EDD 9/7, pg#4, age 34 (ds 9, dd 3, ds 2)
Scarthy: EDD 10/7 pg#2 age 35 (DS 3yrs)
SpannerPants: EDD 10/7 age 27 pg#1 - boy
emilyplus1: EDD 10/7 pg#2 age 25 (DD 17 months)
confuddledDOTcom: EDD 11/7/11 girl (expected to last until May, ELCS will be mid-June if I last that long and they get their own way) age 30 (3 girls: 1 angel and two amazing girls age 4 and 2)
Sweetiexxx: EDD 11/7 pg#2 age 32 (DD 17 months)
Highheelsandequations EDD 11/7 pg#2 age 30 (no DC yet)
Rarewelshbit: EDD 11/7 age 33 (no DC yet)
Scrivette: EDD 12/7 pg1, age 30 (no DC yet)
canny77 12/7/11
NNABAIW: EDD 13/7 pg#2 age 33 (DD 15 months)
Stottiecake: EDD 13/7 pg2, age 37 (ds 2)
StormBird: EDD 13/7 pg2, age 28 (no DC yet)
Squirrel007 EDD 13/7 PG#1 Age 29 (No DC yet)
BeatrixRotter: EDD 14/7 pg#2 age 34 (DD 2)
kalp12 14/7/11
Sues1974: EDD 15/7 pg#2 age 36 (DS 21 months)
filey1: EDD 16/7 pg#1 age 28 (no DC yet)
pennyly: EDD 16/7 pg#1 age 32 (no DC yet)
JazzS: EDD 16/7 pg#1 age 29 (no DC yet)
Nicolamumof3: EDD 17/7 pg4 age 33 (DS's aged 11.6, 4.11 and 3.3)
youpie: EDD 17/7 pg#2 age 34 (ds 16 months)
Nitnatnaboo: EDD 17/7 pg#2 age 38 (ds 5 yrs)
Highfibrediet EDD 17/7 pg#4 age 38 (ds1 8y, ds2 6y, ds3 2 1/2y)
Fraochsmum: EDD 17/7 pg2 age 33 (dd 11 months)
Hefner: EDD 17/7 pg#1 age 28
a11J: EDD 18/7 p#1 age 21
Stangirl: EDD 19/7 pg2 age 41 (DD 9 months)
Fab123: EDD 19/7 pg#1 age 29
Zanzicat: EDD 20/7 pg#1 age 30
Pregnant inParis: EDD 20/7 pg#1 age 30
isitreallythattime: EDD 20/07 pg#2 age 32
Dynababy: EDD 21/7 pg#1 age 34
FessaEst: EDD 21/7 pg#3 age 30 (mc & DD 13 months)
cara2244: EDD 21/7 pg#2 age 31 (DS 2 years)
FallingandLaughing: EDD 22/7 pg#1 age 33
Geordiemam4: EDD 23/7 pg#4 age 31 (DD age 13, DS age 11, DS age 8)
Brassicababe: EDD23/7 pg#1 age 37
Brightsideoflife: EDD23/7 pg#3 age 33 (DD 19 months)
PixieOnaLeaf EDD 23/7 pg#6 Age 44 (DD1 16, DD2 12, DS 9, DTD1 8 months, DTD2 8 months)
GruffaloMama EDD 23/7 pg2 age 35 (DS 2.1)
Inbetweener EDD 24/7 pg3 age 36 ( DD 8 DD 6 )
LadyGoneGaga: EDD 24/7 pg#3 age 32 (DS age 2.5, mc)
honeybabymoon EDD 24or 25/7 age 30 (no DCs)
Emmywoo: EDD 26/7. pg## age 33 dd 4 and mc
Chocoflakes: EDD 27/7 pg#3 age 37 (dd15,ds13)
Ivegotmrbitey: EDD27/7 pg#1 age 31
SelenaDoula 27/7/11
Sugargirl1: EDD 28/7 pg#2 age 32 (DD 13months)
Badgerwife: EDD 22/7 pg#1 age 30
Buttonmoon78: EDD 29/7 pg#5 age 32 (DCs 13, 10 & 3)
ddas: EDD 31/7 pg#1 age 26
sunshiney78: EDD 31/7 pg 1 age 31
ZuluWarrior: EDD ?/7 pg#3 age 32 (DS 20 months)
JimmyChoo17: EDD 16/07 P#1 Age 29

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Badgerwife · 21/05/2011 21:07

gawd I can't keep up with this thread either! Sounds like it's all slowly coming together on the whole for us. Please to hear your baby's hanging in there Confuddled.

Can someone explain to me how I can wake up in the morning in the same position I have gone to bed in (i.e. on my side with pillow between my legs) and yet I always have a sore coccyx?

My diaphragm is now taking a beating but I can't tell if it's arms or legs, I will have to ask the midwife on monday if she can tell which way is up!

Have a good evening everyone.

confuddledDOTcom · 21/05/2011 22:19

Definitely frustrating, it starts at 20-something weeks and could potentially go on for 10+ weeks so it's hard to know what to do half the time.

I've been really pleased being in this time and it's made me even more hopeful for the VBAC as I had two doctors (out of three that I saw) who were really positive about it. The first was surprised that a section had been the automatic plan, the second said he'd seen in my notes that I was looking at a VBAC and that I'd been talking to my consultant about it. He went on to be really positive about it and said that we take small risks every day and we can't avoid them. I was worried before that I would have a fight when I eventually go in and I'd have to refer everyone to my consultant/ SoM but they've been so positive that I'm not worried. One of them was a little shocked that I'm planning a VBAC but if that comes up again I'll just ask for someone else or tell them to go and ring my consultant.

Just catching up with the other posts. Thanks everyone for your comments Smile

Scarthy, at this point it doesn't mean much, babies can turn even in labour. When I went in on Thursday baby was head down, she was breech this morning and when they came to check at lunch time she was head down!

buttonmoon, Mum and I are often mistaken for sisters. People are always surprised she has any grandchildren let alone 7.5! Used to be funny when I was younger, I always held her hand when out, even as a teen, you could see people sniggering at us so I'd make sure I said something deliberately loud with a "Mummy" in there.

I know what you mean about 30 weeks. I always thought my eldest wasn't that premature then someone asked me what 31 weeks was in months, saying "7 months" for the first time really freaked me out! That's why I always talk about that magic 3X you just feel so much better once you're into the 30s.

Of course you've given birth if you've had a section or instrumental birth, it's not for anyone else to tell you otherwise! (Personally I don't feel I haven't because I wasn't even there when they were born but that's my situation and as far as I'm concerned everyone else has) Although the instrumental birth of a breech is incredibly dangerous and the reason why breech tends to be a section these days - our birth professionals just don't have the skills to deliver a breech, aka leave the heck alone!

Fraochsmum, just got my manual out for you. Syntometrine (the injection they give as baby is born) can increase the risk of retained placenta so it's worth skipping that if you're worried, too much management of the third stage can cause it. If possible breastfeed straight away to get the uterus to contract on it's own. If it was retained because of too much management then not over managing will help but if it was because of adhesion to a scar it could happen again.

Pesha, it is a lot harder! It seems like everything in my life revolves around it - getting others to cover school runs, to housework, to getting myself to hospital appointments, to planning which bed they give me on the ward! That seems to sum up my life at the moment...

I've always found Asda clothes smaller since my 4 year old was a baby. When she was in everyone else's prem (spell check wanted me to put "else's sperm") size Asda was newborn and she was growing out of Asda newborn when she was going into everyone else's. I didn't have much from Asda for my youngest but it was the same with what we did have. It only seems to be the baby size clothes (up to 18 months) rather the child clothes (from 1 year).

Fab, you can get away with one even if you're not planning to supplement too often. Express into a bottle then transfer into milk bags, defrost one bag at a time (dip in lukewarm water, they defrost really quickly) as you need it. You don't really need too many bottles anyway as they should be sterilised as you need them, so unless you're doing cold water you shouldn't be getting too big a backlog of bottles (hope that makes sense, trying to ignore another tightening as I'm typing)

Pumps and bottles aren't universal, some are pretty much but things like Tommee Tippee's Closer to Nature (what I have) is brand specific. They break down really easily and you wash/ sterilise anything that comes into contact with your breast or milk. Most of the things that you need to sterilise can be steam/ boil/ cold water/ microwave sterilised so all depends on your preference.

Eglu, have you tried peas? Wrap a bag of frozen peas (or anything really, don't think the baby knows the difference Wink) in a tea towel and put it on bits that are too high in your ribs. It's good for turning a baby too.

I've not done classes this time, lazy really more than anything, but last time the NCT class were totally opposite to me. I was the only one going for a second one, they were all first timers and they were very much medical model/ formula feeding etc. I spoke with the two ladies who ran the course and they said it happens a lot like that and they just have to tailor it to the group because if they're not interested in the natural route there's no point talking too much about things they're not going to do. My hospital course was totally different! It was also an NCT course but a second (+) timer course so people were more realistic about expectations so a lot more into the natural things. We had someone from the NHS sit in on us one week because they're hoping to roll that model of antenatal class out across the country.

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buttonmoon78 · 22/05/2011 06:09

Morning all! Just seen DH off for another week away. Am bright as a button this morning so I thought there was no point going back to bed. I'll regret it later when I begin to flag!

Confuddled glad things have sort of settled down. Every time I see your name on this thread I think 'Oh, news flash' but no. She's going to make us wait! I must admit I don't envy you in the slightest. It's bad enough once you hit 38+wks and every round of BH has you wondering, but to spend months like it must be v stressful. Esp when you can't wish it over as every day counts.

Pesha funnily enough, my physio and I were talking about memory foam the other day. She says that it's shite not very good as it doesn't spring back quickly enough so you could turn over and be lying on your previous imprint for an hour or more. I pointed out that it feels like it takes an hour at least to turn over and she looked like this Hmm. We like the Dordogne too. There's someone in the family with a house there so we go every year too. I love it - better weather than some places, great food and a lovely vineyard we go to each year. I'm v excited as this year they've started producing their own bubbly. V sad, I know but I do so love wine Blush

Jimmy glad everything is ok. Baby prob stopped moving as it'd had a bit of a shock! I can remember going in with dc1 about 30ish weeks with reduced movements and felt a right numpty. One patient actually said 'oh, you're not even really that much pg are you' which made me Angry. Felt justified in the long run though as they then discovered that my waters were a bit low.

Badgerwife are you sitting properly? On a good supportive chair? I bruised my coccyx in labour with dc2 and I find it hurts on the 'wrong' chair. Make sure you find out about birthing positions which are not on your back as that's what did it for mine.

Phew, another long post. Off for my Weetabix and dried apricots now Grin Wink

confuddledDOTcom · 22/05/2011 08:33

I want to steal a bed from the hospital, one of the electric ones. They couldn't find one for me when I was in this time (and it's on my manual handling assessment!) they're amazing, you can lie on your back and still in the best position! I have it sitting upright with my legs up, I'm almost folded in half but it's great.

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buttonmoon78 · 22/05/2011 20:26

I think ds is allergic to Sundays. After the bug a fortnight ago, he's had another one today!

At least, I'm assuming it's a bug and nothing to do with his ear weeping constantly today. I think it's off to gp again tomorrow to get his ear checked.

What do you lot think of Jesse for a boy? I've always loved it but never even suggested it as I thought dh would veto it but no - he suggested it this afternoon! Is it really a good idea though? I'm really struggling otherwise. I like Luke, dh hates it. I like Levi, he does too but a friend coincidenally said he'd wanted to call all their boys Levi but his dw wouldn't let him so that doesn't feel right now.

Think we're sorted on a girl's name - but of course, he doesn't know that we won't be needing that!

sues1974 · 22/05/2011 21:50

evening ladies,
have to say that i enjoyed my NCT classes and am still in touch with everyone, we were all in the same boat as in we didnt really know what to expect and were all worried about everything, no one even asked anyone else what they did for a living or what there house was like or even how old they were, just when we were all due etc. as it happens weve all turned out to be very similar, but im the only one who went back to work full time (had to to pay the mortgage and bills).
well im pretty convinced it was my show that i had last week, i was completely clear the next day with no symptoms of thrush. I also forgot to say it had a very slight tinge of blood.
well im pretty pleased with myself, did a 'tea' (wasnt exactly a dinner party but i did cook a meal and sweet from scratch) for my friends last night so cooked for 7 of us plus my little boy who was having such a good time with the ladies wouldnt go to bed till 11pm, i got to bed at 2.30am and was up at 7.30am having been awake quite a bit during the night. Was glad i managed it as thought i was going to have to cancel due to my bloody cough that ive had for 2 weeks now. ive now gone 2 weeks without sleeping thru the night (didnt anyway but now awake for 2-3 hours with coughing fits). im now on my 2nd lot of antibiotics too. starting to worry it wont go and i'll be coughing on the operating table when i having my C-section in 6 weeks time.

Confuddled - them beds are brilliant arent they - thankfully they have them at my hospital. Glad youre ok and back home.
buttonmoon - i dont mind the name Jesse (jesse metcalf - Mmmm) but i wouldnt choose it myself and would imagine the kid getting stick at school for it just cos kids can be cruel.
So what are we calling the next thread? "the final push" maybe or pushing and pulling our way thru July?
Suz xx

confuddledDOTcom · 22/05/2011 21:53

I have a cousin called Jesse, I like it.

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cara2244 · 22/05/2011 21:59

Wow just had a catch up! Loads going on at the moment for everyone it sounds like.

Jimmychoo Glad you're OK and that is scary about the monitoring, but at least you know you didn't do any damage. Where in the country are you? I've just booked an NCT course for those who've had babies before...I was dead against them last PG but I sort of feel the neeed to do something, mainly to talk through the labour/expectations and hopes for this time etc, and also to get some support going for breastfeeding. I told OH I'd booked it and he was annoyed! Especially as it is £70. But I have paid out of my own money. I went on the hospital one last time and it wasn't very helpful.

Have also just bought some things as I got paid at last on Friday. Yoga gear, white bump band and maternity PJs. I am getting embarrased to answer the door as my PJs are all so small on me now that I show a huge amount of bump!!

I have absolutely no names for this baby. And one babygro. Although people have given me loads of clothes so I think we'll be OK, perhaps with a few trips to Tesco by OH. How he will love buying girls clothes lol!! I tried to be all organised last time but then the baby was 3lbs lighter than the MW predicted and everything was too big/the wrong season etc.

cara2244 · 22/05/2011 22:00

I like jesse too. There was that gorgeous guy who used to be in Desperate Housewives - I think that was his name!!!

cara2244 · 22/05/2011 22:00

Best present for the baby so far...pink Ugg boots in age 6-12 months!!!

confuddledDOTcom · 22/05/2011 22:00

Sorry cross post Smile

I think hobbling is more like it for a lot of us!

I love those beds, glad I managed to get it written into my notes that I need one! Depends on the ward apparently, the antenatal ward doesn't have them but the postnatal wards do but sometimes with swapping beds/ mothers around they end up with one on antenatal and regardless they can always request one. It's great that I can lie on my back (so not upsetting the baby!) and I can get myself in and out of bed without having to call a MW to sit me up.

I spent Thursday night sleeping in a delivery bed, they're not designed for sleeping in! I ended up shuffling down so my bottom was on the removable foot part as the seat part isn't comfortable on the pelvis. Wasn't the best way to sleep but I was OK for most of the night. I woke up about 6:30 to find I was flat on my back (except the part leaning up the raised head IYSWIM) with my legs bent over the edge - as though I'd sat down on the edge and lay back. I could not move at all! I tried to roll, tried to sit up, nothing worked. I had to press my buzzer for the MW to move me. She said she thought I'd fallen off the bed when she came back because she didn't expect to see me that low down!

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buttonmoon78 · 22/05/2011 22:06

I've always thought of it as a bit of a 'cool' name. It's the teasing thing I'm not sure about but I've done a bit of research tonight and most Jesses themselves (for want of a better collective noun!) seem to be proud of their name.

SpannerPants · 23/05/2011 07:20

I had the NCT breastfeeding session last night - bit of a let down for me as she was very focused on certain points - like if it hurts at all, you're doing it wrong. Which may be correct, but I can just imagine sitting there at 4am getting more and more frustrated and guilty because I can't get it right and resorting to the 2 cartons of emergency formula in the cupboard! Apparently you don't need nipple cream etc because they just treat the symptoms of poor technique Hmm

I queried her because every single woman I know who has ever breastfed or tried to breastfeed (including my mum, who breastfed 4 children, including tandem feeding a baby and a toddler for a year) has told me that it hurts like hell until you get used to it, but she was really dismissive of that.

The good thing about it was my partner, who knew nothing about breastfeeding, is now really supportive of the idea and is very keen to help in any way possible.

Anyway, I should go and get dressed - last full week at work starts in 45 mins!

buttonmoon78 · 23/05/2011 09:27

OK - so here are the current contenders for the new name:

July 2011 - the final push!
July 2011 - third and final frontier
July 2011 - pop before we drop
July 2011 - yes, I'm sure there's only one in there!

There were a couple of others but I think the last one summed them up nicely Wink.

Any other suggestions?

DS feeling a lot better today after sleeping for pretty much 18 solid hours Shock Just off to run him a bath, then off to gp at 10.50 to check his ears (again).

Feeling a lot better myself - taking 1 tablet of cocodamol, 1 paracetamol which is keeping on top of the pain nicely. Also feeling a lot freer after seeing physio on Friday, even if I felt she'd abused me on Saturday!

And one of my neighbours said to me this morning how well I'm looking. Said I seemed to look younger with each baby which made me Smile. Asked if I would be going for the full football team on that basis which made me snort attractively Grin

Righto. Onwards and upwards. Get voting for your favourite name or suggesting more!

confuddledDOTcom · 23/05/2011 09:55

Spanner, I always liken it to when you first learn to do something new and your muscles ache until they get used to it. If it's "pain" then something is wrong, but achy is to be expected. Although some people do get painful let down. What I've always found helps is to label the pain, that way I know if it's something to work on.
Let down,
Strong grip (especially when you have premature babies!),
Firing (I don't know the best way to explain this, that feeling like things are starting to work, it's like a sparking around your breast)
Muscle ache
Engorgement (early days feeling like you have house bricks in your breasts is normal)

All normal aches and pains, some people find these more painful than others.

Pain that takes your breath away or makes you cry/ hold onto something to brace yourself is not normal, especially if it goes past the latch, sometimes they grab on and then settle down once it's coming.
Deep pain, accompanied by heat.
Raynauds (even if you don't normally get it you can have it in your nipples when breastfeeding) is something you have to learn to live with, use pads to keep yourself warm, keep a nappy handy to cover yourself up with once the baby comes off, don't let the air get to your wet nipple ([shudder] at the thought!) etc - you quickly work out how to minimise that pain.
Pinching pain in the nipple or your nipple coming out the wrong shape (elongated or mouth shaped) means baby is nipple feeding so you need to relatch getting your nipple further in.

Most pain can be fixed by relatching, tapping their nose and cheeks until they open up really wide and not letting them on until they do.

When I was in hospital with my youngest the nurses would ask if I was OK when I latched her as they saw me wince and I'd always say yes she just had a strong grip. Because I was labeling the pain I knew it was just that she grabbed on when she latched and would let go again. By labeling it I knew when it was a "bad" pain that needed fixing and when it was just one of those things.

I really dislike this idea of it only hurts when something's wrong as different people have different pain thresholds and for some people it does just hurt with there being no obvious reason.

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MissLolita · 23/05/2011 10:02

Good morning ladies, hope we all had a nice weekend?

Confuddled, how are you feeling?

I start my NCT classes on 1st June and I?m a bit nervous after everything I have read..! I actually booked them hoping to meet some people more than actually learn anything; we only moved to the area 8months ago (the ?christening the house? dates match embarrassingly and a lot of our friends smirked when they did the maths) so we don?t know anyone with young children/babies etc.

We?ve been having a quiet time at home; it was dh?s mum?s funeral last Tuesday and it went as well as it could have. He started his new job this morning and I?m hoping this will give him something to focus on.

I have the scan to check the growth of the cyst this afternoon. I made the huge mistake of typing it into Google (why did I do something so stupid???) so of course I didn?t sleep last night and I?ve worked myself up a bit which I know is pointless. Dh can?t come to the scan as it?s his first day so I?ve got a lovely friend coming with me to hold my hand the only problem is that she is currently going through fertility treatment and I feel a bit guilty about exposing her to so much ?baby stress? (not sure that actually makes sense...?) anyway, I couldn?t face going on my own. I know logically that they are not going to deliver a baby 6.5 weeks early for ?fun? so I should calm down but it?s not really helping.

I vote for ?the final push!?

Eglu · 23/05/2011 11:46

Button I'm liking - Yes I'm sure there is only one in there. Purely because I am so massive with this baby.

Just had the midwife on the phone and apparently my haemoglobin levels have dropped further despite me being on iron. It explains why I am still feeling crap. But I am also upset as if they don't go back over 10, currently 8.6, then I can't have my home birth as they would be worried about bleeding. I am 34 weeks tomorrow so there is time, but I am not convinced it will happen. If it doesn't I'm going to try and speak to the consultant and ask to be induced as I worry about getting to hospital in time.

MissLolita · 23/05/2011 11:46

I forgot to ask as well, is anyone else suffering from nose bleeds? I've never had them before (except one occasion when I broke my nose but that's a different story) and I'm suddenly getting them once or twice a day

Fab123 · 23/05/2011 12:01

Morning all!
MissLolita fingers crossed for you. Glad you have someone to go with. Don't worry too much, she might feel like it's something she is glad she doesn't have to deal with (sorry, not consolation for you at all and I don't mean that in a bad way) and may actually be interested in it all rather than have any bad feeling, I'm sure. She's obviously there to support you regardless, which is what you need :)

Thanks for the BF tips confuddled. Scary to think of all of the things to look out for. I think they have started a La Leche course on Fri mornings up at the hospital near me so will be asking about that next week at my MW app. Glad you are still with us, long may it continue!

Got my Samsonite change bag through from eBay today (it's a penguin with a squeaky nose!!!) and spent 5 mins just unzipping all of the pockets and wondering what I could use them for! If anyone could have seen me dissecting it at my kitchen table they would have thought I was loopy.

Had a really deep pain in my bum yesterday for about 15mins. Did wonder if it was BH, as I've not had those yet, and she's been feeling like she might burst out at times (I imagine the zombie scene in the graveyard with the clenched fist thrust through the turf) so not sure if it was just her head positioned further back Confused hurt quite a bit.

I quite like the final push too :)

buttonmoon78 · 23/05/2011 13:16

Am keeping a tally chart and will count up as we approach the magic 1000

Eglu I was anaemic with dc1. Apparently dried apricots are ace for anaemia though you must ensure they are chopped/chewed well or they have the opposite effect of what they are famed for! I am also huge. I didn't really realise how big until I caught sight of myself in a full length mirror today (we don't have one at home) and thought, in the immortal words of Moto Moto to Gloria 'my gosh, girl, you huuuge'. I was mesmerised at my own girth! Blush I think I'm going to jump gingerly step onto the scales tomorrow and make myself laugh with the number it says Grin

Actually, I had to snigger last night as I took my laptop upstairs for the first time in a few weeks to watch tv and mn at the same time. Dds nearly died laughing as there simply wasn't enough room on my lap! Rotten kids...

inbetweener · 23/05/2011 13:59

OOh i like the final push !!

Well i feel crap still today. Have had a rotten cold all weekend and today I have got into work and just feel horrible. I feel sick, I feel hot and I just want to lie down. I am having horrible braxton hicks what feels like all the time and when I walk my bump is hurting at the front Sad
I am officially whinging today lol

Have just decided to dipinto my precious pot of annual leave and use 2 days next week for halfterm. I am sooooo tired and would like to spend some time with the girls anyway.

4 weeks and 4 days till ML !!!Grin

HighFibreDiet · 23/05/2011 14:32

hello everyone, briefly popping in. Confuddled's tips about breastfeeding are spot on. My independent midwife (for ds2 and ds3) used to say that it did hurt initially, and she had 4 kids herself too, so I think the trainers who tell you 'if it hurts, you're doing it wrong' are just conning themselves and others. I used to find the latch absolutely toecurling in the first few weeks. But do agree with confuddled that if it carries on after the latch you might need to think about what is causing the pain and possibly relatch to get a better position. Fab I found the La Leche League far more useful than the NCT in terms of breastfeeding support. Every LLL 'leader' has a reference book that is actually based on evidence and, in general, they have breastfed for longer themselves than the NCT breastfeeding counsellors have done.

Also been having lots of BHs and sometimes painful ones. Fab, Braxton Hicks are when your uterus goes all tight - 'practice' contractions for your body - so you feel it in your stomach and sometimes down the sides or in your pelvis. Deep pain in your bum is probably more to do with the position of the baby's head or possibly a misaligned pelvis. Because of the spd and a bit of misalignment I tend to get very tight glutes and the physio has given me stretches to do 3 times a day. If I'm honest they usually only get done once but they do help.

Have started a support thread here for those diagnosed with GD, although I'm not sure if anyone else in this group has it? Pricking my fingers 4 times a day and trying to eat really carefully to keep my blood sugar levels down.

confuddledDOTcom · 23/05/2011 15:54

I'm glad people think my tips are good!

I've just come back from my appointment with the anaesthetist. No surprises really, he said what I already thought but other doctors can't say because it's not their area. My back is far too tender to risk putting an epidural in, he said the nerves are scarred which would stop the epidural from working if they did put it in, they would have to do the full epidural which isn't a good idea with a VBAC because it would mask signs of a rupture and because I wouldn't be able to respond to my discomfort like I normally would (changing positions) it would risk making things worse (that and the fact I have nerve damage). He went through my pain relief options for labour and birth, then spoke briefly about a section, he said they would go straight for a GA unless they had time to mess about and I was willing, but apparently this hospital has invented a type of pain relief (a new method with an old pain reliever) that they administer whilst the patient is still under GA then when they come round they're already getting the pain killing affect.

Poor doctor didn't realise how tender my back would be and he examined my back as if he was siting an epidural, counting the bumps and then pressing his finger between quite hard. He couldn't stop apologising afterwards!

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buttonmoon78 · 23/05/2011 15:58

Just woken up Blush

Had a snuggle on sofa with ds as he was a bit whiny and woke up 90mins later! Feel a lot better now though. But in the meantime, the cleaning fairy forgot to come and my dishwasher is still empty and the floors still need vaccing. So I still need to do that tragically!

Currently looking like the final push is the front runner.

Eglu · 23/05/2011 17:58

Confuddled I meant to add a thanks earlier for the frozen peas tip. Don't think it will keep her out of my ribs for long though as she seems to love it there.

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