Hello! 
Didn't get chance to give a proper post before - well I did but it wouldn't post for some reason and then it got lost !
Jdmummy, welcome and congratulations! Hope you're still with us, of course you're very welcome to post here, the ladies here are very lovely and supportive and I think there are a few of us due end of Jan. The babies due beginning of Feb may well be arriving in January anyway
. I'm due at the end of feb so may well end up giving birth in March (better bloody not!) although I haven't posted on the March thread as I like it here
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Re: P&T parking spaces - I personally see no problem with pregnant women using them. You are with child afterall
. DH and I obviously use them because we have DD and we need space to get her out of the carseat etc. I think a pregnant woman (when they are bigger) needs space to get out of the car, is carrying a lot of extra weight, may not be able to walk very far etc. As for disabled spaces...not really sure. It can be really difficult to say. I have a friend whose SPD was soooo bad she had to move in with her mum to get help with her DS while her DH was at work. She could hardly go to the toilet and she couldn't walk or drive. I think it should be ok for someone like that to use them and for the ladies on here who have SPD/are in a lot of pain/are starting to get breathless. However, I think that once they start giving permission for pregnant women to use them in extreme circumstances, they might start getting abused by other pregnant women ie. Ones that are having easy pregnancies.