Jue in June part 3

[moomin156]

We have now reached 2000 posts so need to start another thread.

I meant to say sorry to you too Mell. Another sad day on this thread

Found the thread! Ive been getting behind.

Issy and Mell really really sorry to hear your news :(

I'm nearly 11 weeks and have had no scan confirmed yet. I'm getting nervous and worried that it's all going to go wrong. I've got DS so should be grateful but it's hard! I've chased the docs and still no joy. Might go for a private scan instead.

I've just found the thread- I'm so sorry Star and Melltobe and I'm thinking of you both. Star I'll keep my fingers crossed for the private scan tomorrow. Broughthimroundtotheidea-fingers crossed for your scan too.

I had more brown spotting yesterday and mild cramping last night. I have my booking appointment tomorrow afternoon so will chat with the midwife then. I cannot believe these first 12 weeks are so turbulent.

Issy, I'm so sorry, just read your post, look after yourself.

Sorry Issy, I hope a little miracle occurs for you next week and your pg has advanced. Take care of yourself in the meantime, lots of feet up and cake and treats x

mel and issy so sorry to hear your news.

star fingers crossed for tomorrow and issy fingers crossed for next week.

Issy and supersunny, thatnks both for the links which i've found very helpful :)

Issy and mel there are a few of us June ladies over on a thread in the miscarriage forum. You are more than welcome to join us. One has sadly just miscarried but myself and another are still awaiting confirmation via our 2nd scans. If you'd like some company while you're waiting, come on over :)

Thanks everyone for all your well wishes. I just want 12pm tomorrow to hurry up and come as the waiting is so hard, especially when DH is praying for a little miracle which could set him up for a big fall :(

I just re-read my message, I think it may have come across as a bit insensitive but I didn't mean it to, I just meant there is hope after a mc but I realise not everyone is ready to try again straight away. Apologies if it came across that way though xx

Issy - still hoping things will be ok for you - fingers crossed.

My scan date came in - 30th Nov - seems AGES away. I'll be 13+3 by then. Just need to try to chill out between now and then.
Still not feeling sick today but had a few dizzy spells and am exhausted. Oh - and I'm off tea again and couldn't face sausages earlier so that's something.

Issy and Mel - be kind to yourselves, so sorry to hear your news :(

Mel - it hit my DH quite hard too so you and your DH take care of each other and take the time to grieve. You may find your have the overwhelming need to get pg again, do discuss this with your GP. I did when I m/c at 9 weeks, it just felt so painful to not be pg :(
I m/c naturally and I had labour like pains, keep warm, take pain killers and try to rest.

I got wonderful support on the m/c threads and I highly recommend them.

Sassamax - I've also had dizzy spells, had one last night sat at the PC work, I thought I was going to faint! And I was talking to DH about 30mins ago, started feeling sick and told him rather abruptly "gotta go feeling sick again", and felt really dizzy. Seems to come on very suddenly!

Kara - yep that sounds really similar - I was sure i was going to faint this morning when I had one. I ate 3 chocolate biscuits and half a banana and it eased but it probably had nothing to do with it, and the dizziness would have passed anyway - who knows. It's not a nice symptom at all!

Evening everyone.

Sorry to all those who have had bad news.

Well had booking in with midwife today (even though I am only 7 wks!) and happened to be the male midwife who delivered DS1 - who remembered me (not sure if that is good or bad!)

All went well until the weighing bit, and apparently because I have a BMI over 30 I have to be refered to the consultant, as they have changed the guidelines - even though I am exactly the same weight as when I had DS2

Another quick question - is anyone else who is on baby no.2 or more having no sickness this pregnancy? I have been sick with all the other 3, but so far none this time? Obviously nice not to be sick but tis making me feel a little paranoid!

Hi all, I've been feeling pretty rough so haven't ben around for a while. Can't believe all the sad news though, that so many June ladies have suffered a loss & my heart goes out to all & their families x

I seem to be having some 'better' spells of late (touch wood!) where I don't feel too bad for an hour or two but have been having a fair few headaches as well. I have a UTI now too which the GP is treating with the cystitis sachets for now.

Good luck for ladies having scans soon, it is such a worrying time. I have to admit this is my 4th baby & I have been blessed with healthy kids so far but reading about the losses of so many others have really made me start worrying myself. Am trying to be more like The Mr & dont wory about things unless they happen.

I was not sick with DS1 3kids&bump & he was fine.

Food of the day for me...burgen bread & chocolate muffins :)

'pparently because I have a BMI over 30 I have to be refered to the consultant'

Damn was hoping I'd avoid the consultant :(
Then again my friend is heavier than me and she was only referred to consultant when her BP rocketed. She might be having her baby next week, they are going to try an ECV as baby is breech!

Sorry to hear some sad news on here today, thinking of everyone who is having a tough time at the moment. x
sasamaxx - my symptoms are definitely easing the last few days too and feel more sick as opposed to being actually sick, not sure if that's just because I'm getting used to feeling less than 100% all the time OR if it's because it's natural at this point for things to get easier. I'm 9+6 today, I think?! A friend said things eased off for her in 10th week.
Also have discovered liquid gaviscon really helps with acid taste after meals, which in turn stops me from feeling sick. Am eating VAST amounts though :(

Kara I think being refered for BMI over 30 is something they have changed very recently. My BMI would have been over this for DS1 & 2 and never been refered before.

Midwife I saw today did say he thought it was a waste of time and that they are trying to make risks when they are not there. He said u get more growth scans and stuff to make sure the baby isn't too big! Although don't know what they do about it if it is big? Can't make it smaller

ECV = External Cephalic Version is when they manually turn the baby to get it into the best position for delivery. xx

Morning....why oh why do I keep waking up so early... even with going to bed at 10pm. I was feeling smug this morning that morning sickness had died down but second toilet trip of the morning confirmed otherwise. Still, edge has definitely been taken off it, thank goodness.
I'm off to some fireworks tonight, so hot dogs and sparklers on the menu :) Hoping some cold, fresh air will do me some good. Hope everyone has a lovely Saturday! x

issy and mel just wanted to say how sorry I am to hear your sad news and hope that you are both feeling OK physically even though emotional you must be hugely upset.

star fingers crossed for you as well, and hoping for good news.

So difficult as we start to head towards double digits your confident rises, and then to be find things aren't at a scan must be devastated.

supersunny my MS started at about 6 weeks, so fean not it might get you yet - not that I'd wish it on anyone. Very odd though as soon as it disappears for a few hours after the initial 'phew' my next thought is 'uh-ho'.

Selfishly I am now thinking another private scan next week might be in order....

Have to wait to see when my NHS one will come through, alothough as I opted out of the nuchal scan the midwife said I might not get one, or it might be closer to 14/15 weeks. Can't wait that long!!

Has anyone else got Emma's Diary from their midwife? I thought it was suc a good read, cried twice! Really nice to see someone else going through the stages we will be.
My DP has read it too and he really enjoyed it, and thought it was great to see that other people are having similar thoughts to what we are. Makes me think that maybe i should start my own pregnancy journal.

Have a nice weekend all.

9+4 today.

sorry for all my typos - I blame baby brain. It's happening at work too, I read back through an email I've just sent and it makes no sense!
Forgive me!

Thanks NurseSunshine, takethatlady, moomin156, sasamaxx, Dungungirl, 8rubberduckies, Humania, Igglybuff, Sarahmumtobe, cep, supersunnyday for all sending your kind wishes.

KaraStarbuckThrace thanks for sharing your story. I?m dreading the labour type pains. Sorry you have been through this too. Like you, I do feel keen to get pregnant again quickly so I just hope we?re luckier next time.

broughthimroundtotheidea I hope your spotting and achey tummy don?t mean anything, please take it easy. Good luck with a nice hcg rise.

Knackered76 and yellowtomato I?m so sorry to hear you went through the same earlier this year.

IssyStark I?m sorry you?ve had several mmc. I can?t imagine having to go through this again. I?m still really frightened of the wait ? thanks for sharing your experiences, I think the OB slightly played down how painful the experience could be so I appreciate your honesty. I?m so sorry that you?re waiting anxiously too at the moment. I so hope you get better news on Friday.

milliemuffin I found your story to be full of hope and really positive (not at all insensitive, I promise) ? I really hope the same happens with me, although I?m worried that I?ll be even more paranoid with future pregnancies especially as mine had been (seemingly) going so smoothly and I?d seen the heartbeat. We do want to carry on trying as soon as we can though so I hope we?re as lucky as you were.

Star82 I?m so sorry that you?re going through this agonising wait. I do so hope that you get some positive news today. Thanks for the invite, I?ll see you on the miscarriage forum if I can find you.
I?ve felt overwhelmed by everyone?s kindness, ladies I wish you all the very, very best.