Jue in June - continuation of "Due June 2011? please join me!!!" thread

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Hi all - we've very nearly exhausted the 1,000 post limit on our previous thread so here is the new one.

Looking forward to continuing to share the ups, downs, symptoms, queries, worries and joy (fingers tightly crossed!)

Really sorry to hear today's bad news. Thinking of you both beesok and cuppa.

What a sad, sad day of posts on here, I'm so sorry to hear of your sad news cuppa and beesok and hope you are getting lots of tlc and have some time to recover before getting back into the day to day. Take Care of yourselves, thinking of you xxx

sasamaxx edd buddy, I am feeling v v v sick today too, has been the same for pretty much the last four days or so for me and a friend told me that week 9 was the worst for her and things improved in week 10 so I am vainly clinging onto the hope that it might start to get better very soon.
Whoever gave me sympathy re needles, thank you very much :) I did ok in the end, just asked to lie down rather than sit in chair. MW appointment was very much admin based and weirdly the children's centre is now in my old sixth form, how strange is that!!! Talk about blast from past!
I ordered some preggie pops but not sure they do the trick, found fruit mentos to be pretty good today, had also found peppermint tea to help until today I violently snorted a whole mug out partially via my nose (apologies for tmi) so not fancying it too much now :( Fruity ice lollies are good though.
Take Care everyone xx

Its hard to concentrate on anything else after all of todays sad news........

Forced my self to eat healthy tonight, had a prawn stirfry and some melon pieces. Went food shopping and everything i would normally buy just doesnt appeal but have made myself not buy complete stodge

Sorry I didnt mean to cause any offence :s

cuppa - so :( for you. After an initial wobble when my mmc was diagnosed I felt fine. That was until a couple of days after I had my erpc when I had a total melt down about something really small. The miscarriage forum on here was great with some great advice and support from those who have been through it before. Virtual tubs of Ben and Jerry's coming your way . . . .

Beesok - as has been said, a miscarriage is frighteningly common. As my doctor (who performed my erpc) told me just before I went under general, "human pregnancy is terribly wasteful" - such comforting words . It's usually chromosome related but I can understand why you're looking at other reasons. I went through a period of 'needing' to know an answer of why it went wrong but as if often the case, there isn't one :(

Take care of you both.

Feel really sad. So sorry to hear of your loses beesok and cuppa- please take care of yourself. So awful to hear about Lily Allen too.

It is moomin, I feel like I'm in shock. I cried when I read it.

You sound like you're eating really well at the moment as well, I'm struggling to eat anything but cereal and mints (for the ms. Not at the same time). DP is cooking himself tea but I can't face it so am just going to have a massive bowl of broccolli. I don't even fancy fruit which is very unusual for me

Thanks again everyone!! Please don't feel bad about posting your stuff petitech I hope all of you have fantastic pregnancies and I absolutely don't want you to feel down, that's not good!!

My hubby and close friends and family have been really supportive and I feel a little better. I know it will be a while before I am OK but I will try my best to stay positive and think of the future rather than dwell on something that, like you all said, I cannot control. I will miss you guys though and hope you don't mind me popping here every now and then to check on you :)

Supersunny thanks you def. reassured me and I will join your thread, I need to do lots more research on this. I am seeing my endo this saturday anyway and will discuss my concerns with him, hopefully will get some more information.

Nurse and Moomin don't be sad! Before you know I will be back here teasing you about your bumps!!!

Have a goodnight guys I think I'll just watch a movie and have an early night

nursesunshine im not eating that well,i am eating lots but i want pastry, carbs, chips, bread and i would normally want fruit and yoghurts atc. Like you i am really off fruit, am having an innocent smoothie everyday to atleast have something and i bought some melon and grape mix today which i have eaten but cant say enjoyed. Think its just a case of trying different things to get the vitamins in. A bowl of broccoli is good for you and cereal has lots of vitamins added usually, especially if they are wholegrain cereal. So you are doing well. I know i have put loads of weight on already and i really need to slow it down a bit but its hard

Humania thanks for the link.

When I cam back from the hospital and posted my news I was crying my eyes out in front of the laptop and just couldn't keep it together but your comments and positive words have helped. I know it's been a short while but I am glad I joined this thread and I feel like your support has really helped me feel better today. Thank you.

Beesok and Cuppa I am so very sad to hear your news. I hope you both have some time and space to recover. Thinking of you both.

Cep and Supersunnyday I wish you both the best of best luck tomorrow. I'll be thinking about you both. Update us as soon as possible tomorrow :)

My MW rang me today and apparently I'm STILL not in the system so the GP must not have refferred me properly. Grrrrr. I feel like I've been waiting for so ling now, I'm 10 weeks on friday so time's a-wastin' and I'd feel so much better if I at least had an appointment to look forward to. I am terrified. I just want to know everyting's ok.

cuppa and beesok I'm so very very sad to hear your news. I hope you're getting lots of support, thinking of you both tonight

cep and supersunnyday hope it goes well tomorrow. I have a scan tomorrow aswell. Will be 10+6. Positive vibes for all of us xx

Thanks for all your lovely messages, it means a lot to read them. Beesok I'm sorry you're going through this too.

cep and supersunnyday I really hope your scans go well. Please don't see what happened to me and Beesok as some sort of sign - there's a very good chance that you will be perfectly fine.

I'm sure Beesok would agree with me that I don't want you lot dwelling on our sad news and making you scared and negative about the upcoming weeks. I want to see lots of good news and positive posts tomorrow - I'll be watching !!

Bed time for me now, good luck to everyone who has scans tomorrow, fingers crossed that all will be ok. Will be thinking of you and looking forward to reading your posts tomorrow. Long day at work for me so will have to wait til 9pm tomorrow to hear the news

Just had a chance to catch up now..... Beesok and Janice - so very sorry to hear your news. You are both being incredibly brave and even in the midst of your troubles are still finding the time and heart to give us some encouragement which is incredibly selfless of you. Sending you both lots of virtual support.

Beesok & Cuppa - I had lots of support on here when I miscarried at 9 weeks before I had DS.
I hope you are both as well as you can be

Cep & supersunnyday - keeping my fingers and toes crossed for you.

I'm struggling to eat healthily, can't face much food, but when I do get hungry it is carbs or dairy I am wanting. Just feel so lethargic and unmotivated, it seems like a huge effort to mkae a healthy meal.

Good luck to cep, supersunnyday and GoodVibrations for your scans - will be thinking of you all today

Just to give some hope to you beesok and cuppa, I had my mmc in sep 06 and was pregnant again by the dec 06, with my gorgeous DD with a trouble free pregnancy, (although had lots of ms!!)

Obviously everyone is different wrt waiting, not waiting etc but it is true that you will probably be more fertile for a while so wish you both the best of luck re whatever you choose to do and yes the mc boards on here are truly fabulous xx xx

So sorry to read the sad posts on here, I hope everyone who has suffered losses is doing OK. I cannot imagine how you are feeling and my heart goes out to you.
I had my scan yesterday and all is fine, I am 10 weeks so due late May, I will stay here if that's OK with everyone rather than join the May group.
I hope my good news is a bit of encouragement for those who still have a while to wait before their scans.
stargirl x

Congratulations on your scan stargirl how I wish I was at your stage...seems so far away.

goodvibrations cep and nursesunshine I have my fingers and toes crossed for you guys today.

Beesok and Janice thank you both for your kind and generous words. I hope you get the support you need to get through the next few days/weeks.