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BarbieLovesKen · 18/09/2010 19:15

Anyone??? or am I on my own for a little while yet?? Due the 1st. Received a strong BFP today, 11dpo and AF due next Wednesday. Grin

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NurseSunshine · 19/10/2010 13:25

tumtumgnu, last week I had real period-esque achey back and tummy, and sometimes quite stabby pains as well. It eased off in the end. I think aches and pains and a bit of spotting is quite normal? If you're worried maybe give your GP a call? Thinking of you :)

8rubberduckies CONGRATULATIONS!! Grin

cep · 19/10/2010 13:39

tumtumgnu - i've had period type aching for the last week, some quite strong. i also had 2-3 days of brown spotting when i mentioned it to the dr yesterday she only seemed concerned if i was going through st's. As nurse sunshine said if you're really worried call the dr.

Nursesunshine- when you say about using antibiotics for the next 5 weeks is that for occasions? if so will there be different people there? i am actually on antibiotics so you could just say it's a strong infection (at least for a couple of weeks.)

8rubberduckies (love the name) welcome and congratulations.

moomin156 · 19/10/2010 13:42

nursesunshine someone on an earlier thread told people they were ttc which was the reason they werent drinking and smoking.......thats quite a good one and not really a lie.

Halloween party is the first big one for me so i will be the driver as i happen to be in work at 7am the following morning so thats easy, the next one is at 11 weeks so may just tell people then......

i think the smoking is more obvious than drinking.....chest infection maybe could be an excuse for the no smoking and antib's

Or you could just tell people you have given up smoking and either you or DH/P go to the bar and get a drink that looks like your usual without the alcohol in it so noone knows the differnce

mrshedgie · 19/10/2010 13:45

Hi everyone,

no doubt I've missed quite a few posts which I'll need to catch up on. I'm recovering in bed from a horrible gall bladder attack, which left me in a painful, nauseated state in hospital for a couple of days. Friday night I started to get a dull ache right under my right rib area and side, and it got more and more painful, like a bad pulled muscle. I couldn't think of when I'd pulled a muscle though! By early Saturday morning I'd spent all night sitting up in an armchair in pain, trying to sleep but vomiting intermittently from both the usual nauseam hunger and the pain.

Saturday afternoon, hubby had just gone over to his dad's house to check on his health and I was with my eldest stepdaughter and my two oldest children. I couldn't get comfortable and suddenly doubled over in excruciating pain, my whole side locked, then my left side, and I couldn't breathe without excruciating stabbing pains. I had to ask SD to call both hubby and an ambulance, because I didn't know whether this could be related to ectopic pregnancy, what with the pain radiating into my shoulder as well.

Ambulance came, me on all fours, embarrassed in case it was just a muscular thing;off to the Liverpool Women's Hospital where checks were done and pain relief given; lovely doctors and nurses there. Ruled out ectopic by US, so got to see little baby! 7 weeks 1 day as I thought.

However, they weren't happy to send me home without being checked at the general hospital. I was in pain still and felt so sick, so I had codeine (which made me more sick).

The long and the short of it is that I knew I had gallstones, and they ruled out other stuff with an x ray and an ECG, bloods, and so on; I could have another attack but they are reluctant to operate to remove the gallbladder so early in pregnancy, it's preferable after the first trimester. Gallstones and gallstone attacks are more common in women who've had lots of pregnancies and babies...so low fat, fairly bland diet for a while now...terrified.

Just glad baby seems alright.

cep · 19/10/2010 13:46

kara, you mentioned on an earlier post about slimming world, are you going to try and do it?

i was a stone lighter last time and so obviously still obese i didn't have any health problems thank god, so it's not automatic just cause we're overweight, which can be how you're made to feel.

8rubberduckies · 19/10/2010 13:47

Thanks for the lovely welcome, am looking forward to getting to know you all over the next few months! I am really worried about the not drinking thing as well, my friends know I have been trying, so are going to be eagle-eyed looking for any change of behaviour whenever they see me Grin.

We are going out in two weeks for an engagement party, within walking distance of our house, and it will be a boozy affair. We have pre-ordered our food, and I'm going to have to change my order for a start as have ordered the big, fat, unpasteurised cheese board! I smoke as well (and intend to be fully stopped by then), so I'm not quite sure how I'm going to hide it!

tumtumgnu hold on in there, spotting in early pregnancy is a lot more common than we think. With DS I had two episodes of bleeding in the first trimester, and all was fine in the end. Thinking of you....

cameli · 19/10/2010 13:49

8rubberduckies i also have PCOS & take metformin for it. My Gynae has agreed for me to continue taking it for now a some small studies have indicated it lowers the risk of miscarriage which is quite high for sufferers of PCOS & it also showed a decreased tendancy to develop GD in later pregnancy which we are also at risk of.

Having read hundreds of articles on the internet i prefer to continue with Metformin, certainly for now anyway. As i am 7w+5d today i will (i i get that far) stop taking it about 14 weeks.

Congrats by the way.

NurseSunshine · 19/10/2010 13:51

Wow how scary Mrsshedgie, glad you're both alright now.

Moomin, saying we're ttc is not exactly an option for us but the chest infection is a good idea. Cep, not just for occasions, I tend to meet a couple of close friends in my local every midweek and then go out every weekend as several of my friends are musicians so there's always a gig to go to. It may not be an issue though as I'm so tired I can only just bother leaving the house to come to uni.

cep · 19/10/2010 13:52

mrshedgie bloomin heck sounds tramatic. hope you're ok now.

moomin156 · 19/10/2010 13:55

Oh mrshedgie poor you, that sounds awful and scary. Glad you have a disgnosis though and the low fat boring diet will help.
How lovely to see your little bean, cant wait to see mine, i think that is when it really will seem real.

cep · 19/10/2010 13:56

maybe you should just say that you got so drunk the night before with the oh you might actually still be a bit drunk. in which case you'll stick to soft drinks, or one glass you don't actually drink.

TumTumGnu · 19/10/2010 13:57

Thanks for the reassurance everyone! Pregnancy is making me cazy and I find I just worry about everything. I never used to be like this! Confused

Oh goodness mrshedgie!
That all sounds very traumatic and stressfull. I'm very glad to here that there is no problems with the baby though. Take it easy and get lots of rest, we are thinking of you.

8rubberduckies · 19/10/2010 14:03

Cross-posted with with mrshedgie, that sounds really traumatic, hope you can get things sorted sooner rather than later, but how lovely to see your bean!

Cameli I have also read about Metformin decreasing the risk of MC, but my GP seemed pretty confident that I should stop taking it even after discussing the studies, so I am going to, but I know full well if I miscarry I'll regret the decision!

moomin156 · 19/10/2010 14:05

my plan is to have 1 drink a week and to enjoy it.......i just feel that a little bit of what you fancy wont do any harm and may make me relax more and be less stressed. So i will be a driver ( luckily we live in the sticks so tend to have to drive to meet friends)and have my usual small glass of wine if i fancy it. I had 1 glass of red on sunday and it was heaven......and does it really matter if your friends guess, they are your friends afterall and will be so pleased for you

cep · 19/10/2010 14:10

I Plan on having a small glass a week, although have to admit i haven't actually had one yet, but not going to let it stop me when i do want one.

cep · 19/10/2010 14:30

About to go to my mw appointment, am interested to see what she says about my weight plans.

knackered76 · 19/10/2010 14:56

Hello everyone and welcome newbies!

So much to catch up on so forgive me if I miss a few things out (have a terrible memory at the best of times and is currently worse then a sieve!).

Mrshedgie - how awful for you. Glad things seem to be better now and hooray for seeing your mini one!

cep - hope your meeting with mw goes well and you get some answers that you need for your weight loss plans.

Tumtumgnu - I know it's such a worrying time but try to stay positive and remember that spotting is not that uncommon in early pregnancy. If you get more worried then see the dr and see if you can have an early scan to have the reassurance.

Well I called off my scan today. We are due to go on holiday on friday and I didn't want to have it hanging over me if it happened to be bad news like the last time. I've rebooked for when I am 9 weeks, so only 2 more to go!

I'm off now to pick up the mini ones and a friend of theirs . . . .gone very grey and horrible out there though so not looking forward to!

Happy rest of your tuesday :)

TumTumGnu · 19/10/2010 15:08

Good luck at the midwife cep. I hope it all goes well for you.

Thanks, knackered. Hopefully you can have a nice relaxing holiday and then a lovely scan when you come back. Smile

NurseSunshine · 19/10/2010 15:13

Good luck at the midwife Cep. Can't wait for mine but it's not going to be for ages :(

cep · 19/10/2010 15:44

Have a lovely holiday knackered, put your feet up and relax.

NurseSunshine is that just cause they're busy? Can you ask to be put forward if they get a cancellation?

Am so much happier, she assured me that they monitor it all throughout pregnancy get an accurate bmi at the scan at 12 weeks. (so 7 weeks to go) do several tests between now and edd and if everything goes ok will ultimately be my decision where i go. (although part of me doesn't believe her on that last bit as she left it till 2-3 weeks before i was due last time to tell me i might not be able to go there.) She's happy for me to be on slimming world.

Although apparently the midwife centre has been temporarily closed due to staffing issues. supposed to reopen in jan 11 really hope it does.

Now have a library of info to read through.

And still find it bizarre that they don't double check the pregnancy.

so much more relaxed now. Thank you everyone for all your support, luv you all already and looking forward to our upcoming journey together. [hgrin]

NurseSunshine · 19/10/2010 15:51

cep it's because I only found out last week (6wks) and (long story short) I couldn't get a GP app as soon as I'd have liked to confirm pg so went to family planning clinic. Guy there (after trying to get me to ACTUALLY BOOK AN ABORTION there and then) gave me a number to call for a midwife so called them and got no call back. Just called them again and been given a zillion different numbers until i finally spoke to a lovely MW who will be mine and she said I have to go to GP first and be referred through them, rather then being able to self refer as I was told by horrible clinic guy.

She said not to worry as there's still plenty of time but then at the end of the call said "if you don't head anything within 3 weeks call me again". I was like THREE WEEKS?! So booo going to have to wait a while it seems. Never mind :)

Glad you feel better after your app. What was the MW led unit like? I really don't want to go into hospital but not sure if there's a MLU in Sheffield. Might just have it at home Grin

TumTumGnu · 19/10/2010 15:53

Hurrah for cep Grin

I'm so glad that the appointment went well. It all sounds really positive and that they are willing to work with you on this.

Can you tell I'm working from home today so spending far too much time on mumsnet. Ho hum, better get on with some work Wink

TumTumGnu · 19/10/2010 15:59

oops, crossed posted nursesunshine

That clinic guys sounds hideous! What an unpleasent experience.

I just phoned my gp and they booked me a midwife appointment on the spot but I think I'm lucky as it is quite a big surgery and they have a midwife come in. Hopefully if you contact you gp though they can get it booked pretty quickly and you won't have to wait 3 weeks!

CuppaMouldyBatBallsBrothJanice · 19/10/2010 16:22

Nursesunshine I often wonder why the Family Planning Clinic is called that. I rang them when I was planning on ttc DS, to see if there was anything I should do before I got pregnant, any health checks I needed or vitamins I should be taking, that sort of thing. The woman there said 'Erm, we only deal with contraception, sexually transmitted infections and abortion counselling'. That's hardly 'planning a family', more 'planning to avoid having a family'!!!

mslittlebump · 19/10/2010 16:26

Hi all, I'm due early June 2011 so thought I'd join in.

It's been a bumpy ride so far - huge stress blow up at work, then tests at the emergency gyn unit as I was really worried about some cramping and spotting. However after some tests they gave me the all clear for now. Even better, although I was only 6 weeks, they said my hormones were high enough for a scan which showed one baby and one heartbeat! We were relieved and delighted.

No morning sickness so far either, thank goodness!

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