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Hermya321 · 05/09/2010 12:36

Right then , what's everyone having? I have all sorts behind here both alcoholic and non alcoholic and an array of snacks as well. Grin Wink

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ARRIVALS:

Fulhamgirl - EDD 30th May - DOB 9th Apr - Girl - Lily Ann - 4lb
Trying4Baby1 - EDD 25th Apr - DOB 6th May - Girl - Emily - 10lb 2.5oz
Pepperonipizza -EDD 24th May - DOB 28th May -Boy
CurlyCasper - EDD 21st July - DOB 24th June - Girl
Spirael - EDD 25th Jul - DOB 7th July - Girl - Miranda Jane - 8lb 3oz
DesperateHousewife21 - EDD 18th July - DOB 9th July - Boy - Dylan James
Sazziej - EDD 1st Sep- DOB 24th Aug - Girl - Evie - 7lb 8oz
Ozziegirly - EDD 24th Aug -DOB 25th Aug - Boy-Thomas - 7lb 1oz

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NovemberAli - BFP 24th Dec - EDD 2nd Sep - Surprise
WhiteRoses - BFP 11th Jan - EDD 15th Sep - Boy
Hobnob - BFP 17th Jan - EDD 26th Sep - Girl
Pixiestix - BFP 18th Jan - EDD 24th Sep - Surprise
Addie81 - BFP 28th Jan - EDD 7th Oct - Girl
Chancewouldbeafinething - BFP 1st Feb - EDD 10/10/10 - Boy
WorrisomeHeart - BFP 29th Jan - EDD 12th Oct - Boy - Lochlann
Hermya321 - BFP 12th Feb - EDD 24th Oct - Boy
Fudgecat - BFP 19th Feb ? EDD 28th Oct
Pidgin - BFP 27th Feb - EDD?
YorkshireTeaDrinker - BFP 1st Mar - EDD 6th Nov
Bunnygirl80 - BFP 12th Mar - EDD 19th Nov-Boy
Mumnerves - BFP 1st Apr - EDD 8th Dec
Luckyseven - BFP 8th Apr - EDD 17th Dec
Capricorn76 - BFP 12th Apr - EDD 1st Jan 2011
Homebound - BFP 30th Apr - EDD 8th Jan
Seablue - BFP? - EDD 10th Jan
Oneof8 - BFP 18th May - EDD 17th Jan
Aly323 - BFP? - EDD 31st Jan - Boy
Muser - BFP 22nd June - EDD 27 Feb
Superpenguin - BFP 1st July - EDD 4th March
Haloflo - BFP 22 July - EDD 20 March
SaorAlba - BFP 7 Aug - EDD 4th April
MrsWajs - BFP 13 Aug? - EDD 10th April

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Are your children’s vaccines up to date?
HermyaAndThePomBears · 27/11/2010 14:22

Hello everyone,

I hope everyone is enjoying the snow, we've got the in laws up today so it's tres crowded in our flat today. DS was weighed yesterday and is now 10 1oz, he's a fat little hobbit.

Mumsnerves How you doing?

MrsW I can't believe you're ninteen weeks already, it only seems like yesterday you had your BFP.

Lucky and Seablue Have you started ML yet?

Bellaby · 28/11/2010 08:31

Morning All

Wow it really is quiet in here!

kurly sorry to hear about your cold. Hope you feel better soon. Great news about the scan and very excited you are going to start shopping now Grin

hermya lovely to hear from you. It's quieter now you've moved on! Hope the in laws arent staying too long if you haven't got the space.

no news from me. Played 4.5 hours of tennis yesterday! Wasn't supposed to be that much but it was fun.

Failed to find any trousers in JoJoMaman on Friday. The ones I tried were too short (I'm not exactly tall at 5'7") so I'm giving up on the shops and going to take the plunge on the Internet

DH has told me that our house renovation won't be ready in time for May Sad. I'm giving him a list of things that We definitely will need to have ready by then - washing machine, bath, freezer

Have a lovely Sunday

haloflo · 28/11/2010 10:10

Morning all!

bellaby I know what you mean about overwhelming parents and IL's, it's too much . Hopefully you can calm her excitement and ask for her some of the fun cheaper items later on. Bad news about the house not being finished but hopefully that deadline will spur your DH on and you never know, it might be more finished than you think. I have no idea on your swimwear hunt I'm afraid.

cherry I know what you mean about pregnancy being expensive for us mums to be! My lovely mum took me to Mothercare last week to get more maternity stuff. Got 2 basic tees, 2 bras, 2 nights, some leggings and some tights. It doesn't sound much but came to nearly £100. It was my Christmas present, given early so I can get as much wear out of things as possible. Hope your flu jab went ok, I developed a mini bruise a couple of days later which meant it was tender to the touch. Absolutely fine now though.

mumsnerves Did you enjoy harry potter? I went yesterday and loved it! I can't wait until July 15th, hopefully our LO's will give us 3 hours off for a cinema trip!

mrswajs Not long until the next scan! That has come round fast! Brilliant news about your cousin - you LO's will be able to play together!

kurlySo pleased your scan went well. I am also about to start shopping which feels very exciting!

hermya 10 pounds now! Sounds like he is thriving! I hate snow although we didn't get too much. It's cold, wet and I worry about falling (bah humbug!)

News from me is I'm 24 weeks today. Am v happy to get to this milestone and feel ready to start shopping. First thing I'm looking at is a pram. Obviously it's very expensive and it's what is worrying me the most living in a second floor flat without a lift. I was in mothercare last week and didn't feel I got good advice there, in fact I burst into tears over DP when I got home (My mum and I went without him as he was at work) saying I won't cope and I wouldn't be able to leave the house. After a good night's sleep I felt better and took a trip to a local shop Friday lunchtime. They were lovely and recommended the icandy cherry and babystyle oyster. I think I will get my pram from there now. The prices seem competitive and I like the idea of being able to go back there if I have any problems rather than travelling an hour plus or using the phone.

I now have a big decision to make over which one. I am leaning towards the babystyle oyster as the carrycot is lighter (although the pram as a whole is slightly heavier), it folds with the seat unit in (ideal for me when LO is 6 months) and is £100 cheaper. You can get it with its own carseat which is £50 less than the maxi cosi which is all the icandy's are compatible with. This might be better for us as we rarely use a car (maybe once, twice a week) and when we do its just to drive 10-15 mins to our parents.

My only concern is how long the babystyle will last and if it can cope with the lumps and bumps of my hometime's pavements although it feels sturdy.

Phew decision, decisions, and that's before I mention that the babystyle comes in about 12 different colours (for extra money)

Have a brilliant Sunday all.

highheelsandequations · 28/11/2010 10:35

Morning everyone,

How are you all? Sorry I've not been here very much. At the moment it's all I can manage to get home from work and crawl onto the couch and then eventually into bed. We have loads of snow here, been snowing all morning and there's about 4-6" already. DP went out earlier and couldn't get his car up the drive when he came home. I am really not looking forward to the drive to work in the morning.

Thanks for all the lovely messages re the scan. I was walking on air for a couple of days but then started to panic again. I wish that I could just sleep until I was safely at the 12 week mark! I'm now wanting to book a private early scan for sometime in the next couple of weeks, DP thinks I'm insane!

MrsW so exciting about your bump, and great news about your DH's improving behaviour and your cousin.

mumnerves hope the snow's not too bad at yours and hop you enoyed harry potter.

Bellaby I'm very impressed with the mammoth tennis round!

Halo congratulations on your 24 week milestone and so exciting you can start shopping now :)

Happy snowy Sundays all :)

luckyseven · 28/11/2010 11:07

Morning Girls,

Thought it best to check in and say hi and then go back for a proper catch up with what has been happening this last week, rather than reading and running and then being disappointed that it is quiet on the board if you know what I mean. Honestly having this thread has been so good for me whilst trying for the baby and growing my ever increasing bump so thank you all for being around!

How on earth am I now 37 weeks? Up to 30 weeks was slow slow slow but since then time has flown! Now I am am at the stage of thinking we could actually have the baby in the next 24 hours, three weeks or worst case scenario 5 weeks. Everytime the baby moves I think - oh not yet we're not ready! Of course we are ready in the practical sense that we have all the equipment but I need to psyche myself up mentally and relax myself physically if that is possible? Don't want to sound negative as we are so excited but the reality is a bit overwhelming. Any of the new mums feel like this?

Finished work on Friday, exactly three weeks before and it was stressful, i am not being replaced as they are not spending any money during the restructure and redundancies so I wasn't able just to pass the work on so felt like i had to finish everything before going and haven't really got the closure that i wanted. I honestly think they will be wondering where I am when i don't turn in on Monday as they just didn't seem to compute i would be off to August. If you are thinking about when to finsih i would say that 3 weeks before is close enough especially if the baby were to come early, in hindsight I would have gone for four. But i am finished and have lots of fun things planned for mat leave this week, going to Ellie Goulding tonight (seated ticket) and going to a gorgeous pool for a swim with mum tomorrow (got my swimsuit in decathlon bellaby and made dh buy it for me!) and then making Christmas puddings!

Back later for a proper catch up with you all!

mumnerves · 28/11/2010 15:24

Morning Ladies!

Mrswajs as long as you're ok and still lurking it's always nice to hear from you. Everything just seems such a chore doesn't it? Do let us know occasionally how you're getting on.

kurly congratulations on the scan! It's such a relief isn't it? Had a nosy at the hedgehog theme, is it the hodge podge? It's just SO cute! I especially love the rug! Did you see that they had 20% off their online store?

haloflo congratulations on your milestone!!! Prams are just such a minefield! We finally got ours only 3 weeks ago but I've got to stop myself looking at reviews and other prams as they are all so different. Hope you have fun shopping from now, it's nice you'll be able to pick some things up from the post x'mas sales too.

luckyseven I know exactly how you feel, I've gone into work 3 times now to sort various things out that I didn't get round to sorting (fool that I am) and my mw actually caught me one of those days and told me off saying I should be putting my feet up and resting Blush I'm also like you thinking it could be tonight or 4 weeks later but I must say now that I'm not working I'm starting to enjoy pregnancy more. I just love seeing LO's little limbs stick out of my belly and playing with them :)

Thanks for asking after me everyone. I'm still here feeling very big but finally managing to make myself sit down and do nothing for most of the day instead of frantically finding jobs to get done. Harry Potter was amazing but I forgot how sad the last book was and it was a little more than my pregnant hormones could cope with. I was brawling at certain parts of it :(

Forecast all week is snow and ice...one of my friends said I may have to prepare for a home birth at this rate Shock Ah well, we'll see how it goes.

Have a lovely Sunday everyone!

crazybutterflylady · 29/11/2010 11:45

Hi everyone, nice to hear from you all. Just a really quick one, sorry I don't have time for personal messages but am a bit manic at work... am lurking and keeping an eye on all the gossip though.

Loving that some of you are starting to shop, you must let us know what you choose so I can live through you for the next 4 weeks.

Have left some choccy muffins on the side to make Monday a bit easier ;)

x

highheelsandequations · 29/11/2010 15:31

Positive things about this weather: School closed today :) so could lie about on the couch feeling exhausted and yucky without the guilt of phoning in sick.

Negative things about this weather: Tesco cancelled our order this morning and we have no food in the house. Considering an expedition to the supermarket but it's wild out there!

Happy Mondays all. Think I am now 8 weeks and still worrying every second of the day :)

crazybutterflylady · 29/11/2010 15:56

highheels great news being off work Grin not so great about the food order Angry

I remember our food deliveries being cancelled in February when we had snow and it's so frustrating. DH and I had to trek out on foot for supplies!

Stop worrying missy (she says, totally hypocritically)... you are meant to enjoy this time, right before the vomming starts Wink

I have been so riled today that I have started an AIBU thread. I was worried I'd be shot down in flames but people have been really sympathetic. I'm so fed up of this woman at work steaming pigging broccoli in the kitchen right next to my desk :(

Hopefully it will snow tomorrow and I can be at home and not smell the sewageness! xx

cherrycobbler · 29/11/2010 16:00

Hooray for school being closed highheels! Hope everyone else is managing to keep wrapped up warm. I nearly froze to death on my way to get some lunch! Luckily office is superheated. Are you feeling ok? Not too tired/ sick I hope.

Fab re starting to let yourself put your feet up mumsnerves. This weather is telling you to snuggle down on the sofa, eat cake and have lots of naps!

hope you enjoy the start of your ML lucky! I am hoping to hold out till 3 weeks before but we'll see.

Hooray on 24 weeks halo! A friend has offered me her used pram for a good price so I am v tempted. I am usually very into new and shiny things but so overwhelmed by how expensive everything is so am seriously thinking about it.

Fab news on the scan kurly! I love Mamas and Papas stuff - super cute. Big sympathy on the cold - cold without Lemsip is torture!

All good here. Still having odd bouts of nausea but its a million times better and haven't thrown up for a week or so. Also have more energy, although it is all relative (not running marathons, but not falling asleep five times a day as did happen in first few months). Bought about five basic maternity tops from Hennes which is fab and a lovely stretchy black pencil skirt from JojoMB on the weekend, its lovely sitting at my desk in it and not feeling all horrible from squeezing into my half done-up normal clothes.

crazybutterflylady · 29/11/2010 16:03

cherry fab news on the nausea, sounds like we might both be kicking it :) would be great in time for christmas!

I have bought loads of tops from H&M too, they're so long and nice, have been putting them under all my dresses to extend the life a bit. Having trouble with maternity tights though, by the time I get to work they are around my knees Blush - are you getting a bump yet? Mine is quite big already!

x

cherrycobbler · 29/11/2010 16:08

x post crazy - eurgh even thinking about the smell of steamed broccoli is making me heave! YANBU! Usually I love all veg but that is a definite trigger for me.

Boo for mat tights issue! Mine are M&S but have also got some "support" ones on today from Pebble online which are like normal tights just very tight! Its all part of my attempt to stop my legs looking too much like my grandma's by the endof this pregnancy. They are actually v comfy (I like the tight feeling if that makes sense - and not too tight around my bump). My bump has popped out too! Quite like it. Its prob about the same size (maybe bigger...) than bunny's wonderfully neat Week 21 bump Blush

crazybutterflylady · 29/11/2010 16:12

haha cherry I know what you mean about the legs... I am starting to get blue veins all down my thighs and I have stretch marks on my hips already Angry annoying because that's the widest part of me; surely it doesn't need to grow THAT much!

I think I am a bit bigger than tinny little bunny Envy 2 people have asked if I'm sure it's not twins, sob.

x

highheelsandequations · 29/11/2010 17:25

Have just had a text to say school closed again tomorrow :o Will now panic that I've been given the wrong information until I hear it on the radio/see it on the website. Feeling slightly guilty that I didn't bring any work home with me on Friday, suppose I'll just have to spend another day on the couch or playing in the snow!

cherry I'm getting occassional bouts of nausea that leave me retching for 10 mins and then pass. Other than that just feeling like I could sleep pretty much constantly and like I've a permanent low grade hangover.

crazyb I'm trying not to worry but it's so hard!!! Hope you get some releif from the brocolli tomorrow!

I have my best female friend coming round on Saturday, haven't told her yet and still not feeling ready to share the news but don't know how I'm going to get away with not drinking. Have already managed one night in the pub (was driving) and her birthday party (said I was ill) and missed another pub night (ill again) and running out of excuses. Also I'm starting to sound pathetic always saying I'm feeling poorly. Any suggestions? Not as easy to hide when we're in the house, if we were going out I could probably get away with it!

kurlyvoice · 29/11/2010 18:18

Boohoo - I wanted a snow day, though I will not begrudge you yours, highheels! Don't feel bad about lack of work at home - just enjoy the bonus rest time.

We had to put up with children in a very snowy school having perpetual snowball fights and then complaining about being (a) cold and (b) wet. I was not sympathetic! Cold is still no better and I now have a disgusting chesty cough which really needs some Benylin...

Oh, and highheels, can you use a pre-Christmas detox/diet excuse with your friend? They always understand you having had to tell little white lies to them when you're ready to spread the news. I can understand the worrying - I did it an awful lot - but if you can, try to think positive and enjoy having the world's most special secret. :)

crazyb, I'm quite liking my bump (helped by DH's attitude who seems to love it, and all the maternity clothes!), and I really need to take a photo before everything starts spreading. I don't look massively pg from behind though am aware that my hips must be wider as I can't get unstretchy skirts over them. But my stretchmark problem is with my boobs! I've got at least four on the underside of each one, despite the bio-oiling. :o( And I didn't really think that they had grown that much!

I have not explored the mat tights issue yet, cherry, simply because I refuse to pay £10 for one pair. Any top cheap tips? I splurged on a maternity duffle coat from DP which arrived on Saturday and it is SO LOVELY - the softest coat I have ever owned!

mumnerves, you are spot on, it's the hodge podge, and I successfully got DH into the shop and walked out with three bulging bags (including some gorgeous PJs on 30% off). Can't believe that you are so close - have you got the nursery all sorted? The hodgepodge stuff is so cute - we even bought two of the toys Bear! Now we just need to clear all the stuff out of the nursery (or junk room, as it currently is) and then we can think about decorating (or undecorating first).

So I guess that means that we have officially started shopping... Had a good look a furniture too, and have already done a bit of buggy research in JL - I'm liking the look of the iCandy Peach. Very glad that I don't have to worry about stairs, halo - even though we need a car to go anywhere, we do have a house with ground floor entrance. Sorry that you have encountered unhelpful staff - definitely shop at the places where they bother to find out what your needs are!

Hooray for the start of ML, lucky - I'm planning to take your advice and stop at 36 weeks if I can. I've found full time teaching hard work, and although it would be nice to have the extra money and time after the baby is born, I don't want to be frazzled when it arrives!

Bella, I got my mat jeans from M&Ps (who currently have 30% off all maternity stuff) and they do long/reg/short in trouser lengths which very much pleased me as I'm on the shorter side! They are my favourite item of clothing... Can also recommend Red Herring in Debenhams for smarter trousers.

Who else here has an anterior placenta? What's your baby kicking experience been at different stages?

Anyway, bonus night off school tonight as our concert has been cancelled because of the snow, so I am going to have a bath and an early night and hope that I can talk a bit more tomorrow... Well, actually, I'm hoping for a snow day, but that's not going to happen as our new Head has a point to prove.

Bellaby · 29/11/2010 19:00

Hooray for snow days Highheels - you enjoy relaxing on the sofa without feeling guilty Grin

kurly the Hodge Podge stuff looks great. You've had me daydreaming about nursery decorating all day. Will definitely check out their clothing on the Internet. I have to order stuff soon - think I'm down to one pair of work trousers I can wear now having had to give up on yet another suit this morning

crazy reading about that broccoli also made me feel sick. How inconsiderate. I still haven't eaten any veggies yet but DH & I are going to try cooking stir fry tonight as I really need to start eating things other than pizza & burgers Hmm. Will definitely take one of your chocolate muffins though Grin

cherry glad you are feeling better now. Are tight tights meant to be good to wear?

mumsnerves glad you have been relaxing more! Let's hope weather doesn't leave you stuck at home

halo keep us posted on the pram shopping. I had a quick look on Which the other day as DH got a free trial but I got too scared at all the choices so had to stop looking.

luckyseven I am very impressed with you making Christmas puddings. Sounds like you definitely have the right idea about ML Grin

Have a lovely evening everyone. Keep warm

Xxx

cherrycobbler · 29/11/2010 19:47

bella its not glam or ideal but I was wearing my suits undone with a bump band over them (to keep them up and to disguise that they were undone). It just looked like I had a long black top on under whatever top I was wearing (can't cope with shirts so was usually a thin jumper). I looked up maternity suits but could only find really expensive ones so am holding out as long as I can. Tight tights are only good if you have 'orrible varicose veins like me Grin

luckyseven · 29/11/2010 20:19

First blissful day of maternity leave nearly over although i have been pretty busy. Signed up for 12 days of fitness for £12 at DW Fitness as they have a lovely pool in the town where my mum and dad live and swimming felt so good. Even if i only go three times it will be worth it. Tomorrow I am meeting up with two friends for coffee so there is hardly really any time left to 'nest'!

mumsnerves thanks for the reassurance on how I am feeling and that it is ok to dip back into work to get things cleared up; ml is pretty good so far. I haven't really seen any limbs sticking out, i think it could be a side effect of the anterior placenta but i feel a lot of squirming! The baby loved the Ellie Goulding gig last night and was bouncing away. I hope i wasn't cruel to take it to a concert so close to due date!

cherry glad you got the clothes situation sorted it is hard to be at the inbetweeny stage of discomfort in 'normal' clothes and mat clothes looking not quite right. I think my bump has dropped a bit and the weight of it is bringing down my over the bump bit of my jeans so I am running the risk of bump exposure, at 37 and a bit weeks my belly button still hasn't popped but according to dh 'looks like a cat's bum!" You probably don't need to know that but if you can't say it here, where can you?

highheels i am so glad you are getting to rest and that you got better news at the hospital. It would just be an extra worry trying to get around in the snow. Can i play devil's advocate with the telling / not telling your friend - would you be disappointed if she guessed your news and you didn't get to reveal it to her? I understand your reasons for not wanting to say anything too soon as well.

kurly working to 37 weeks is doable but it is only now I am actually properly starting to think about the birth. How does your mat leave work in with summer holidays etc as I remember a strange conversation once with teacher friends that there is a window to get pregnant so that you get mat leave, a couple of days back at the end of term and then paid summer hols!

I really like the hodge podge range in m&p, we have put finishing the nursery on hold until we find out what flavour the baby is although i wouldn't choose overtly pink, we have it painted and new wardrobes (for us) and drawers built and the cot is on holiday at my in laws!

I fell in love with izziwotnot hideaway bay range but dh thinks it is more girly and i think it is more boyish. We might just go for plain white waffle bumper etc and bring the gender of the baby in to other bits of the room where the rest of the furniture is / will be white. It is quite a small room complete with fireplace and we have opted to keep the spare single bed in there too whilst the baby is in the moses basket in our room at the start. It also meant i could cancel the £60 cot top changer from m&p that i ordered on a whim!

cherry i am in the sexy support stockings on prescription because of the oedema(?) i developed in my (c)ankles and lower legs in the last few weeks. I have feet and legs like shrek or froddo. My GP prescribed me 6 pairs on prescription and they have made such a difference, you can get tights but I am quite tall and at the best of times I struggle to keep them up. I got pg tights in H&M for about £8 for one pair, they stay up but have a really wierd see through mesh panel at the front and I have no idea why!

bellaby the puddings are so easy to make, here is the tried and tested recipe in case you fancy some festive cooking www.deliciousmagazine.co.uk/recipes/great-grannys-christmas-pudding. They are on steaming now and should be ready at midnight but making a right racket and my sil is staying with us later and the sofa bed is in the room beside the kitchen!

crazy i am really annoyed at 2 people saying that about twins, how rude and it says more about them than you, if you want to make a quip like that it is fine but not someone else!

halo the pram decision is a nightmare as it is a serious piece of kit to get to grips with! i went for a quinny buzz and maxi cosi seat, i am using the carry cot bit that my sister had as she rarely used it as she had a summer baby so I was able to order a replacement mattress from the manufacturer as little one in this weather will need to get snuggly. My friend has a 6 month old and has alreday bought a lighter buggy as she finds it easier when out and about so a pram purchase can be a purchase for the first 6 months and any little ones in the future rather than a long term solution.

girls we got caught out with the maxi cosi car seat after spending £££ on a family car. The seatbelts in the back of a focus are too short for a maxi cosi and we had to buy an isofix base at an extra £100+ (ford focus + family car you would think they would have got that right.) Look on the car seat manufacturer's website to see what options you have for your and dh/p's motor if you are a 2 car family before you make our expensive mistake!

mrsw I am so happy everything worked out for your other half's job, you have had such an eventful year, didn't he break both his arms a while back or am i going mad?

Right I must go upstairs and finish my hospital bag, i am such a procrastinator and then make the bed up for sil whilst dh is out drinking at the Christmas market - so much for his self imposed no drinking from 3 weeks before - eejit!

forgive me if I have neglected anyone - hello to the new mums!

MrsWajs · 29/11/2010 20:45

No snow days for me :( Essential NHS staff are expected to make every attempt to get to work! So I've dutifully been there all weekend and today! Snow has been pretty crazy here but I think maybe we're a bit more used to it since we get the worst!

Keyboard on laptop seems to be fully functional again (not sure how??) but now the internet is playing up!!! So at my mums just now and making the most of her facilities hehe!

Was 19 weeks yesterday and am very sure that the little 'flicks' I've been feeling are baby moving around in there :) He/she seems to be most active between 6pm and anything upto midnight which is a tad worrying, I don't want a nocturnal baby although I doubt I'll have much choice for the first little while!! Also since yesterday I have also been experiencing what I can only imgine are braxton hicks??? Did anyone else get them this early? I really can't think what else it would be, it's not like the stretching growing pains I've been feeling before, more of a definite tightening. I phoned the midwife today just incase and she didn't say it was that specifically but said it was very normal to experience this around the mid-way point and that I could take paracetamol if the pain was severe enough and only to worry if the cramps were worsening and accompanied by spotting/bleeding. I don't want to make a big fuss but didn't feel totally reassured by this, maybe I'm over-reacting. This was made worse by a girl telling me at work today that she lost her first baby at 19 weeks!!! WTF!! I feel for anyone that has gone through something like that but I really didn't need to hear it when I am at exactly that stage!

Just found out also that my mum & dad are going to get us our pram which is just brilliant - we are soo lucky. We have opted for a quinny buzz and are getting a package deal which includes carry cot, car seat, buggy and footmuff thing all for £530. I know it is a lot of money and we were fully prepared to pay for it ourselves, so we are over the moon they are getting it for us. They are ordering it before Christmas so as to beat the VAT increase so I'll have it to play about with in a few weeks!! Exciting or tempting fate - I'm not sure!?

Anyway a totally mememe post - sorry.

Hope everyone else is feeling good :)

MrsWajs · 29/11/2010 20:52

x-post lucky yes DP did break both his wrists earlier this year, that along with being made redundant once and almost a second time and having a very expensive solicitors battle with his ex to get access to DSS it has been a busy year but I'm just so glad everything seems to be back on track and next year looks set to be far far better! :)

Can't believe you're packing your hospital bag!! I remember when you got your BFP! :)

Speaking of nursery bedding etc I quite like the starry night stuff in babies r us but mainly because it is quite neutral - can't believe the bloody prices of it all tho - almost £100 for a crib set!!

highheelsandequations · 30/11/2010 13:08

Phoned Drs this morning to try and chase up where my midwife appointment is and found out GP only put the referral through yesterday! Not impressed, what is it with me and useless medical professionals? Does anyone know how long it's likely to take to get the appointment through now I've finally been referred?

crazybutterflylady · 30/11/2010 13:23

Is this for your booking in appt HH?
I got mine fairly quickly but I think it depends on your local NHS and how busy they are... you could always ring the midwives anyway and explain you're worried and would like an early appointment?
x

cherrycobbler · 30/11/2010 14:24

hello hh I think mine took a couple of weeks - she saw me at 8 weeks I think (brain fog). Bewarned about the blood tests! Wasn't a huge amount but I wasn't prepared :)

I have no 20 week scan appt yet although have now taken form to the hosp so they can book me in. Sigh.

Spent lunchtime sighing over Isabella Oliver dresses - but not sure I can justify spending so much on a maternity dress...

We've been given a maxicosi by BIL, lucky, hadn't even thought about our car being compatible! Will have to investigate. I thought it would be very weird to have the car seat sitting in our spare bedroom (had resolved not to buy anything till later on) but actually its lovely to see it Grin.

crazybutterflylady · 30/11/2010 14:44

cherry isabella oliver dresses sell often on eBay... so either buy one and sell it afterwards, or buy one from there. They sell really well and go for quite a lot of money.
I LOVE THEM!
x

cherrycobbler · 30/11/2010 14:55

brill - will check out ebay now! and if i decide to buy new then full price minus price I will get for it on ebay when selling post preg = bargain! Huzzah! Did you decide whether to challenge the Evil Broccoli Steamer?

p.s. please can I hand out this tray of freshly baked muffins to all the lovely frolickers. I am having a bit of a happy hormone surge and would like to spread the love! Even looking fwd to (rather than dreading) my consultant appt tomorrow to talk about low hormone levels. Secretly hoping he will want to do an impromptu scan so I can make sure LO is still kicking around in there and all is well.

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