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dh put the recycle bin out last night . He went out the back door .. took the bin round to the front and came back in the front door forgetting about the back door..... eejit..

still all seems well

Happy Birthday Billie.
Much love Che.

Hello everyone, hope everyone is well, only just found new thread will catch up later.

Che, i am thinking of you today, Happy Birthday Billie........
TW you have got rid of your "friend" and i have millions of little ant friends all over my kitchen worktop!!! Horrible!!!

THE RECALL
THE night was dark when she went away, and they slept.

The night is dark now, and I call for her, "Come back, my darling; the world is asleep; and no one would know, if you came for a moment while stars are gazing at stars."

She went away when the trees were in bud and the spring was young.

Now the flowers are in high bloom and I call, "Come back, my darling. The children gather and scatter flowers in reckless sport. And if you come and take one little blossom no one will miss it."

Those that used to play are playing still, so spendthrift is life.

I listen to their chatter and call, "Come back, my darling, for mother's heart is full to the brim with love, and if you come to snatch only one little kiss from her no one will grudge it."

Rabindarath Tagore

Chegirl , that is beautiful .

Just one more moment eh ?

Lots of love to you today xx

Oh Che..... what amazing words. I've said on here before I would give my own life for 5 more minutes with my boys - just 5 minutes to see if they are Daddies yet, to see what they look like, to hold them and say sorry for not being able to protect them.

xxxxxxxxxx

......but then who would be here to protect my other children, and my grandchild??? I suppose it has to be as it is??

Shabs, there's no need for you to say sorry to your boys {{{hug}}}

Happy Birthday Billie. Thinking of you all today Che. That passage you quoted was truly beautiful.

Beautiful Che, just beautiful xx what we all wouldn't give for just one more moment totally feeling your pain today x

che that made me cry x

still crying xx hugs to you today

Oh che .. I would give anything for just one moment with my boy ..to hear him cry and for him to hear my voice

I can only imagine when your daughter was soo much part of your life how much a hole she has left in your life and how much you must imagine what kind of party she would want tonight

Good morning girls xx

morning girlsx

Can one of you computer whizz kids explain(in very simple terms) how I add to the birthday and remember day list!! Tom has already explained once to me and I cant ask him again LOL - he will have a face like this

highlight the list
press CTL and V
click into te message box
press ctl and P
edit birthday and remember list

morning how is everyone.

I'm driving myself crazy trying to work out what song means. Keeps randomly popping into my head since tuesday.

I cant soddin' do it - its official - I AM USELESS WITH COMPUTERS!!

i cant do it neither shabs,am sat crapping myself today as having two teeth out at twelve yuk ,glad when over x

Shabs if you write the dates here I will copy it for you .
I am rubbish at explaining x

Good luck Hazy , wiggle your toes when they are doing the injection . Bizarre but it helps I hate the dentist and it helped me x

Awww ta TW -

Gregors birthday 4th March, 2007
Gregors remember day 15th March, 2009

PeterPM little man xxxxx

Thank you love xx

JANUARY

20th Jan,1992 Billies birthday (Chegirl)

FEBRUARY

28th Feb,2008 Lucia's birthday (Crumpette)

MARCH
4th March 2007 Gregors birthday (PPM)
11th March 2008, Eris's Birthday & Remember Day (FeedMeNow)
15th March Gregors remember day (PPM)
26th March 2008, Noah's Birthday (TheLighthouseKeeper)

APRIL

3rd April,2007 Benjamins remember day (Charleymouse)
12th April,2009 Lucia's remember day (Crumpette)
13th April, 2005 Frasers remember day (FMummy)
15th April, 2005 Frasers birthday (FMummy)
27th April, 2006 Billie's remember day (chegirl)

MAY

10th May,1992 Matts remember day (Shabbs)
24th May,1993 Christinas birthday (B.Butterfly)

JUNE

04th June 2008, Noah's Remember Day (TheLighthouseKeeper)
25th June,1993 Christinas remember day (B.Butterly)
28th June 1987 Matt's birthday (shelleylou)
30th June, 2009 Niamhs birthday and remember day (Woolly Jo)
30th June, 1984 Matts birthday (Shabbs)

JULY

13th July - Callums remember day (LittleMissPMeno)
21st July, 1982 Gareths remember day (Shabbs)
23rd July,2009 Nimahs funeral (Woolly Jo)
29th July, 2008 Caitlins birthday (Olissa)
30th July. Coles birthday (Liketomoveit)

AUGUST

3rd August, 2008 Caitlins remember day (Olissa)
5th August,2009 Felix's birthday and remember day (Tinkerbelle)
8th August - Callums funeral (LittleMissPMeno)

SEPTEMBER

9th September Ciarans birthday and remember day (Deemented)
18th September,2006 Jaydens birthday (Hazygirl)

OCTOBER

1st October - Ciarans funeral (Deemented)
7th October,2000 Harrys birthday (TWilbury)
19th October 2009 Matt's Remember day (shelleylou)

NOVEMBER

6th November 2008 - Oliver's Remember Day (Everlong)
7th November - Coles remember day (ILiketomoveit)
20th November 1987 - Oliver's Birthday (Everlong)

DECEMBER

1st December,2006 Jaydens remember day (Hazygirl)
2nd December,2001 Harrys remember day (TWilbury)
18th December,2006 Jaydens funeral (Hazygirl)
22nd December,1994 Jacks birthday and remember day (Lottie)
28th December,1981 Gareths (and Dannys) birthday

No problem xx

Im looking after a little girl before and after school now. It is a whole new experience! She has had a little girl to play today and im so not used to noisy girls!!!