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DH died suddenly-need support and prayers please

653 replies

Evenstar · 29/06/2008 06:16

My DH passed away suddenly on Thursday 26 June, there has to be a post mortem and I cannot bring him home until the coroner releases his body. I am struggling to realise that he is gone, as I have been unable to go and see him owing to distance from home and mortuary being closed at weekend. Mum and brother are here, am getting amazing support from them, my 3 children and so many friends. I am finding it hard at night and getting up very early not wanting to wake others but feel need to chat.

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PeaGreene · 29/06/2008 09:32

So very sorry to hear this Evenstar. will be thinking of you and hope that MN provides some comfort when you just need to talk things through.

Blandmum · 29/06/2008 09:33

evenstar, link to a thread with the details that you need x

edam · 29/06/2008 09:35

Oh Evenstar, how terribly sad. I'm so sorry.

bossykate · 29/06/2008 09:35

i am so sorry for your loss wishing you strength and courage.

stickyj · 29/06/2008 09:38

I am so sorry for your loss

culottee · 29/06/2008 09:38

Oh no, you poor things.How dreadful.
Slouchy x

EllieG · 29/06/2008 09:39

I'm so sorry Evenstar. It goes without saying that if there is anything you need, please just say x

louii · 29/06/2008 09:41

Evenstar, I am so so sorry for your loss,

Hassled · 29/06/2008 09:42

I'm very very sorry.

Buda · 29/06/2008 09:43

Oh Evenstar I am so sorry. What a horrible shock for you all.

Will be thinking of you.

OracleInaCoracle · 29/06/2008 09:43

im so very sorry x

elkiedee · 29/06/2008 09:44

Evenstar, sorry to hear your news. Hope you and your kids (I gather they're teenagers from your profile) are able to give each other some support through this terrible shock. Good luck with the claim too.

Shitemum · 29/06/2008 09:45

So sorry for your loss Evenstar

Wezzle · 29/06/2008 09:47

So very sorry for your loss Evenstar. What a terrible shock.

My thoughts are with you and your family x

StrangeTown · 29/06/2008 09:50

So sorry for your loss Evenstar.

InTheseShoes · 29/06/2008 09:53

So, so sorry for your loss Evenstar - thinking of you

Sidge · 29/06/2008 09:56

I'm so so sorry to hear of your sudden loss

Wishing you love and strength; I hope you get to say hello and goodbye to him soon xxx

piratecat · 29/06/2008 09:57

I just wanted to say, that I very sorry for what has happened Evenstar. A dreadful shock.

I hope that you get him home soon.

sorry for your loss.

onlyjoking9329 · 29/06/2008 09:59

so so very sorry to hear your husband has died and so suddenly too, I hope that you get to see him very soon, you will still be in shock and feeling disbelieve as well as all the other stuff, going to see him will make things more real for you all. How are the children? I see your youngest is the same age as my Ds. Sleeping and eating are both difficult and idont know how to sort those out.
I am a bit rubbish at knowing what to say but know that on MN you are never alone.
if you want to talk via email/ phone/Msn do let me know.
sending gentle hugs to you all.

Miaou · 29/06/2008 09:59

Evenstar, I'm so sorry . Glad you have RL support but we are here for you whenever you need us. xxx. Take care.

smartiejake · 29/06/2008 10:02

What a terrible shock for you and your LOs Evenstar. My thoughts are with you.{{}}

PeachyHidingInTheShed · 29/06/2008 10:04

I am so sorry Evenstar.

Will pray for you all, and will ask my firends church to do so as well (she is a Minister).

X

PeachyHidingInTheShed · 29/06/2008 10:04

I am so sorry Evenstar.

Will pray for you all, and will ask my firends church to do so as well (she is a Minister).

X

Boco · 29/06/2008 10:06

So sorry to read your news Evenstar, what a horrible shock. x

PortAndLemon · 29/06/2008 10:09

Really sorry to hear this.