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my babies death - very morbid, but you may like to read!!

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Gorgeousxxx · 04/10/2007 18:59

Hi

I had a gorgeous little girl 9w and 3d ago, she was fullterm 39weeks, 8 hours after giving birth she was having her first check and was taken to special care, she had trouble breathing, the nurses thought he had swallowed meconium and just needed abit of help, this didnt clear after two days so was taken to a intensive care unit where she was put on a ventilator, paralysed and they tried to see what this was her lungs were very haze on x-ray, she then was giving medications after medications to cure this infection, nothing was working. she was then transferred up to London to a huge lung disease intensive care unit, had again mega tests done and the answers were still negative, nothing showed that she had a condition, this is horrendous to go through let alone to tell.
again she was put on a ventilator and tests wre carried out - the specialists advised that there was nothing they could help her with and she was dying. They gave her 2 weeks to live, a further 4 weeks on she was still fighting but by this time she was detiriorating and all we could do was love my little girl, the most gorgeous thing in my life.

The diagnosis then came back that this was a genetic disorder and she was suffering with a lethal incurable lung disorder called serfactant deficiency. She died monday 1st october 07, very peacefully. Please pray that our daughter is in safe hands now. God bless my angel and sleep tight.

If anyone has been through this then please mail back....

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spookthief · 04/10/2007 19:01

I've not been through this and cannot begin to imagine your pain, but I'm so sorry for the loss of your darling girl.

Thinking of you and your family.

MaryAnnSingletomb · 04/10/2007 19:02

haven't been through it but for you and your baby girl

belgo · 04/10/2007 19:02

I'm so sorry to read this. What did you call her?

CrushWithEyeliner · 04/10/2007 19:04

My thoughts and prayers are with you x

Doodledootoo · 04/10/2007 19:04

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ValnBen · 04/10/2007 19:04

Oh Gorgeous ? sorry very sorry to hear about your darling baby girl.
Such a sad story

I have lost a child, but my baby was dead before he was born so I didn?t have to go through the hopes, dreams and fears the way you have?that must be horrendous?my thoughts are with you and your family.
Take care
Val xx

Cadders · 04/10/2007 19:05

I'm so sorry. She is in safe hands now and so are you - I pray you will feel God's comfort with you at this horrible time. xxxx

Hulababy · 04/10/2007 19:05

I am so sorry to hear that your little girl lost her fight

Thinking of you.

LoveMyGirls · 04/10/2007 19:05

You are so brave to post about it on here, my thoughts are with you and your family.

Roseylea · 04/10/2007 19:06

So sorry to hear - I can't imagine how you must be feeling.

I so hope you find all the support you need. MN is good at support!

My prayers are with you xxx

frumpygrumpy · 04/10/2007 19:07

My darling..... this must be the hardest thing to go through, let alone post. Please let MN support you in whatever way we can, at any time. Ask and we will help.

What is your beautiful baby's name? If thats is too personal to ask or you can't post it then I fully understand. I'm not the praying sort normally but I do pray that your precious bundle is kept safe for you. I feel sure she will be.

Can't help quoting Keats " A thing of beauty is a joy forever, its loveliness increases and it will never pass into nothingness". Your lovely girl will never be forgotten. Sending you love xxx.

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BeenleighOfTheDead · 04/10/2007 19:07

So, so sorry for you.

pyjamagirl · 04/10/2007 19:08

My baby died in 98 in ICU she got complications from brochoilitis all I can say is i know how you feel and things will get better eventually .
If you want to chat by email
[email protected]
take care x

me23 · 04/10/2007 19:08

I'm so sorry to hear of the loss of your little girl xxx

ggglimpopo · 04/10/2007 19:08

I am so very sorry. I lost my daughter in January, although she was 2 years old and not a baby, I understand how awful it all is and how you feel.

Email me if you like, gggglimpopo at hotmail dot com.

PandaG · 04/10/2007 19:08

my love and prayers.

inzidoodle · 04/10/2007 19:08

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justjules · 04/10/2007 19:09

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flamingtoaster · 04/10/2007 19:09

My thoughts and prayers are with you. Sorry your darling daughter was with you for so short a time.

Jacanne · 04/10/2007 19:10

So very sorry for the loss of your little girl - so heartbreaking.

hazygirl · 04/10/2007 19:10

im so sorry i lost grandson in december 2006 i send hugs to youxx

funnypeculiar · 04/10/2007 19:12

Thank you for sharing your story with us. Our thoughts are with you, your lovely girl, and your family.

Gorgeousxxx · 04/10/2007 19:13

pyjamagirl, ggglimpopo, inzidoodle

you know what I am going through, however old your baby was/is doesnt take away the pain of heartache.

Its been very hard and I feel relieved that she is at peace, she was one special little girl and most wanted aswell.

The condition she had never gets tested in pregnancy - its just pure bad luck, its horrendous.

I am dealing ok with this, everyday is a new day but this angel brought me such happiness in those weeks I want to continue feeling this way!!! xx

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newbbiemum · 04/10/2007 19:15

i am so very sorry...sending prayers for you and your family...take care of yourself..