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my babies death - very morbid, but you may like to read!!

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Gorgeousxxx · 04/10/2007 18:59

Hi

I had a gorgeous little girl 9w and 3d ago, she was fullterm 39weeks, 8 hours after giving birth she was having her first check and was taken to special care, she had trouble breathing, the nurses thought he had swallowed meconium and just needed abit of help, this didnt clear after two days so was taken to a intensive care unit where she was put on a ventilator, paralysed and they tried to see what this was her lungs were very haze on x-ray, she then was giving medications after medications to cure this infection, nothing was working. she was then transferred up to London to a huge lung disease intensive care unit, had again mega tests done and the answers were still negative, nothing showed that she had a condition, this is horrendous to go through let alone to tell.
again she was put on a ventilator and tests wre carried out - the specialists advised that there was nothing they could help her with and she was dying. They gave her 2 weeks to live, a further 4 weeks on she was still fighting but by this time she was detiriorating and all we could do was love my little girl, the most gorgeous thing in my life.

The diagnosis then came back that this was a genetic disorder and she was suffering with a lethal incurable lung disorder called serfactant deficiency. She died monday 1st october 07, very peacefully. Please pray that our daughter is in safe hands now. God bless my angel and sleep tight.

If anyone has been through this then please mail back....

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StripeyKnickersSpottySocks · 07/10/2007 17:16

I'm so sorry. Will be thinking of you on Thursday. xx

NAB3 · 07/10/2007 17:18

You are right 3 andnogore. I am not myself today (whoever that is)

needmorecoffee · 07/10/2007 18:25

Sorry to hear this Gorgeous. Just seen this thread. It doesn't always end up happy ever after likemagaziens would have you believe. My daughter was brain damaged at birth and while she is still here with us, every day is a struggle.
Hugs to you and so sorry your baby left too soon.

Georgeous · 07/10/2007 18:25

Gorgeous, we havea v similar posting name, which could be what confused NAB3? My heartfelt sympathy goes out to you, I cannot imagine what it must be like to lose a baby....

I hope you find some healing in time x

ScottishMummy · 07/10/2007 18:30

sorry about your sad sad loss.words are not enough at times like this, but i hope you and your family can find some peace and resolution

princessmelBABY · 07/10/2007 18:49

How sad for you all. Such a sad story.
I hope thursday goes a smoothly as possible.

woodyrocks · 07/10/2007 18:52

God be with you in this time of need. Your grief should not be a silent one please seek out the support you need.

3andnogore · 07/10/2007 19:39

Nab, don't worry, you obvioulsy meant well...

SpookyBearistheSpookyBear · 07/10/2007 19:57

I'm so sorry for your loss.

munchkinmum · 07/10/2007 20:20

So very sorry. Will be thinking of you on Thursday...

xxx

nellieloula · 08/10/2007 08:26

so sorry for you and your family. thinking of you.

chaffinch · 15/10/2007 13:24

My god hon - I know you and I think You probably know who I am too.

Was looking for some advice for you and came across this instead. All I can say is there are a lot of lovely people on here who will listen to ya, and you have lots and lots of real life friends who are there for you too.

Will call you tomorrow babe ok

xxxx

chaffinch · 15/10/2007 13:33

PS - I hope you don't mind me posting on here - I know this is very personal and I think in a way it can help to be anonymous, so I won't come back on here again xx

MomOnTheRun · 16/10/2007 00:06

So sorry for your loss. I lost my daughter in January at 22 months and understand what you are going through. Heartfelt sympathy to you and your family. They always take away the really special ones.

JackOLANTERNstini · 17/10/2007 22:01

Gorgeous - just wondering how the funeral went. Hope saying goodbye to your little angel and celebrating her (sadly too short) life helped in some way. My thoughts are with you now, it is a difficult and sometimes very lonely time after the funeral is over. Do come on here if you need to talk.

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