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Flying high enjoying their wings, Remembering our precious much loved children...

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CazandBelle · 21/11/2010 20:35

For my beautiful Anabelle Violet. Born an angel.

Mummy and Daddy miss and love you so much. Always. xxx

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travellingwilbury · 06/01/2011 21:46

I know you are right Shabs but it is like crack or something , I just can't keep away from the bloody thing Blush

hobnobs , thank you that really did make me smile , I would also like to get a grip in such a way Grin

shabbapinkfrog · 06/01/2011 22:05

I know TW I have to confess to lurking on the threads BUT I wont post again - even if someone has the guts to say exactly what they think of me.

Please though, be aware that I firmly believe there is some trolling going on in both threads. Please be careful girls. We know, unfortunately just how upsetting that can be.

Take care xxxx

deemented · 06/01/2011 22:06

Actually what i'd really like to do is tell them to fuck the fuck off, and when they get there, fuck off some more. But that'd be impolite, no?

shabbapinkfrog · 06/01/2011 22:08

sounds perfectly reasonable to me love xxx

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CazandBelle · 06/01/2011 22:22

I think there is trolling too shab

dee I just love you! always so to the point! xx

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shabbapinkfrog · 07/01/2011 06:43

Morning girls xx

lavandes · 07/01/2011 07:26

Morning ladies xx

Hope you are feeling calmer today shabs We all know who our true friends are and the people telling us to 'move on, get a grip' etc are just not worth the energy of bothering with. They will never understand the pain and misery we are going through and how hurtful this storyline has been to all the mums who have lost their tiny babies. I know it makes you angry but Dee is right they should all just fuck off and leave you all alone. We know what a great, strong lady you are and that is all that matters (keep breathing) xx

Thanks caz it was wonderful to be together. We hope to see them later in the year. We are starting saving for tickets now, so back to work today or it won't happen. Hope you are as well as you can be. xx

travellingwilbury · 07/01/2011 08:16

Morning all x

I am going to see my brother today Grin
I am also going to really really try to keep away from those threads . I am just going round in circles , I don't mind people asking questions about why we feel so strongly about it but if I get told one more time to turn the frigging tv off or It's not real you know .

I might actually fucking SCREAM!

peterpansmum · 07/01/2011 08:33

Morning all ... Ds1has had a reasonable night. Let's see what today brings heh... TW I'm going to also try nt to go back there either.

shabbapinkfrog · 07/01/2011 08:35

TW - I so agree with you - I hate it when a person comes in about 700 posts down the line and says 'Its just a tv programme, turn it off, its not real' Angry They just said on the morning news that they think they are going to have to change the end of the story....or at least bring it to a much, much earlier conclusion. Here's hoping!

Im calm Lavendes....have been on MN now for about 4 years and used to wonder how people could spot a troll. Well, Im glad to say, I think I have found out how to. There was at least one on those threads....I suspect it was more but at least one was name changing frequently and stirring stuff up. Very sad when you have to get your kicks like that.

peterpansmum · 07/01/2011 15:09

afternoon ladies x am pleased to report that ds1 is def on the mend - he's been back eating through choice thank goodness...

TW - how is your brother doing?

Lavandes - sounds like you have had some lovely time with your son n his girlfriend - it will feel strange now they have gone home but hopefully you'll see tham soon x

shabbapinkfrog · 07/01/2011 15:30

Wonderful PPM have been thinking about you and your little man xxx

travellingwilbury · 07/01/2011 15:50

Thats good to hear ppm , I am really pleased he is back on track .

My brother is doing really well thanks , he got out for New Yr and is bored because he can't go climbing for another 4 mths (which is his complete life) but all will be well , just relieved he is recovering well .

orangeflutie · 07/01/2011 15:57

Hi awful, awful day for me today:(

It's the anniversary of my DS's death. He died twelve years ago today. I knew I would struggle but this year seems worse. I feel overwhelmed and want today to end:(

lavandes · 07/01/2011 16:20

I'm so glad your little boy is on the mend ppm it must be such a relief for you.

It does seem strange now they have left, and of course I miss them, but they are healthy and happy and after all they are just going home and we will see them again, I am so thankful for that. xx

Hello orangeflutie I am sorry you have lost your son. There are of course no words but you will find support here as I have, we are all in the same boat and will understand what you are feeling.xx

lavandes · 07/01/2011 16:23

Good news about your brother tw sounds like he has already climbed a mountain!! xx

spilttheteaagain · 07/01/2011 16:36

So sorry orangeflutie. Do you want to talk about your son?

louise I'm so sorry to hear you had a chemical pregnancy. After everything you've just been through losing your lovely little Georgie you really deserved some good luck. What a kick in the teeth Sad

ppm so pleased your little one is on the mend now. You must be knackered! But hopefully an easier night tonight for you x

Re all the Eastenders stuff (which I have read but just not really felt up to posting on) I saw on the BBC earlier they are ending the baby storyline sooner now due to complaints. I know it doesn't fix it but you have got through to some degree that it is unacceptable. I am proud of you all.

lavandes so pleased to hear your son's girlfriend is so nice, must be lovely to know her now.

Hello to shabs, TW and Caz and anyone else! Love to all xx

3 months since that bloody scan today.

Minione · 07/01/2011 16:58

Hi Ladies

PPM Glad to hear your son is on the mend, give him a hug from me.

Its good news that they are changing the end of the Eastenders storyline, they were deluded going with it in the first place but at least they realise how disgusted people were by it. Agree that some of the people on that thread are a) idiots and b) trying to get a rise out of people. Sick, really.

Hope you are all ok. Orangeflutie Sorry to hearabout your son, please come and talk to us if you feel like talking about him x

deemented · 07/01/2011 18:25

Hi folks.

It's so bloody wearing, explaining ourselves over and over again, isn't it? Especially when no-one actually seems to be listening!

shabbapinkfrog · 07/01/2011 18:29

I officially gave up on those threads a few days ago Dee. Cant cope with them at all. Got too much going on in our house and my life is too busy to not give it all my attention. There are some that will never listen....and there are several trolls knocking about on there. Cant spot them a mile away - think my troll senses are improving Grin

shabbapinkfrog · 07/01/2011 18:32

Blush I am too knackered to spell right can spot them a mile away I meant!

orangeflutie · 07/01/2011 19:06

Hello again

Thankyou it's all a bit raw today. Not sure whether I should've posted. I guess I'm finding it hard today to keep it all in and go up to the school as I did earlier and put on the usual face. It's just very lonely:(

No-one really gets it do they? People forget and move on but we all have to live with it because we can't forget. Sometimes I wish I could let it all out without having to worry about upsetting others and people thinking I've lost the plot. Today I've been feeling like I have.

Sorry for rant. Don't know what to say. At the end of the day I just have to live with it as my DS isn't coming back:(

travellingwilbury · 07/01/2011 19:48

orange I am so sorry you are having such a rubbish day (understatement I know)

A candle will be lit here in Sussex for your ds .

Please tell us about him if you want to /feel able

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CazandBelle · 07/01/2011 20:41

Sat here looking at headstone brouchers and feeling completely overwhelmed and teary.

What do we even begin to say on a stone that will do Belle justice?

We have an appointment at 10.00 tomorrow morning to start the process of sorting one out.

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