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My two year old wakes up at 4:45am every morning..... Help

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jellyjem · 19/02/2010 10:33

I'm at my wits end, she used to sleep really well but for the last month or so she's been waking earlier and earlier and now she's awake at 4:45am.

She doesn't cry when she wakes up just shouts for either myself or my hubby to go to her and if we ignore her which we tried yesterday and today she starts screaming and banging the walls with toys. Very hard to ignore and I feel guilty as she must be waking up our next door neighbour too.

When we go into her she's usually still sucking her thumb so she must still be tired, I can usually manage to get her back into bed and I just tuck her in and say "go back to sleep, its too early" or something similar and then leave her room again straight away rather than make a big issue out of it but within 10 or 15 minutes she's awake again and the pattern starts again.

I'm so tired today I had to drag myself into work and I've drank so much coffee in an effort to stay awake that I've got the shakes. Please can someone give me a strategy of what to do/how to cope with this. Will she grow out of it? She used to be a brilliant sleeper and still goes to bed really well but the early mornings are now getting that early they're starting to turn into bad nights.

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hmmSleep · 24/02/2010 20:25

PussinJimmyChoos, how old is your dc? I was just able to explain to my dd that if she needs the loo she can call us, and if she's poorly no gro-clock is going to stop her from calling out anyway. Think if they're old enough to understand the gro-clock, they'll understand it doesn't mean not being able to go to the toilet. Maybe another poster will have a better idea.

PussinJimmyChoos · 24/02/2010 20:29

He will be four in a few months. I'm fairly confident he will understand but just wanted to have some other tips as well as would hate him not to call out when he needed a wee or whatever

I explained this to DH who replied with

"He will say he needs a wee every morning then just to get up as soon as he wakes up"

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