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Bullying - my dd being accused of bullying by some women I fell out with !

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Lambiepie · 12/06/2008 14:23

Not sure where to start with this really !

Up till last year I was very friendly with a couple of other mums at school - anyway I was getting increasingly fed up with one of them as she was never around in the day (she works full time) and rarely did playdates - and fundamentally I disagree with mums working - but anyway - I decided to end the friendship by starting an email argument - which she fell for hook line and sinker - and a few months later she stopped speaking to me which was great.

Later in the year I confronted the other woman who had continued to be friends with the first one and told her she had to choose between us as it was disloyal of her to still see the other one knowing that I hated her ! Unfortunately she wasn't the person I thought she was and refused to make the break - so I ended up not being friends with her either !

Obviously those two have talked about me to loads of people as a lot of people at school are wary of me now and I don't really have many friends - but i think that's their problem really !

Anyhow - now my dd is being accused of bullying their two dds at school ! I have been summoned into the school and told of her alleged misdemeanours and the school have given her an official warning and put her on a report card ! I am furious of course as the two biches have clearly dreamed this up together to get back at me !

I need a plan for revenge !!! What would you do ?

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Abitembarassed · 12/06/2008 20:05

Shit, that is last year's thread, not this weeks! Sorry Scatterbrain.

I still think it's weird though that you type exactly like her.

StarlightMcKenzie · 12/06/2008 20:06

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Chequers · 12/06/2008 20:10

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scatterbrain · 12/06/2008 20:12

Thankyou !

I am not a liar !

I have my big thread form last year in my watched threads - but I can't find it via search either - I'm not linking to it here as I don't want certain people reading it obviously.

It's been going on over 18 mths now.

She has been back to the thread - I need to stop adding to it.

Not that odd that we post alike really - only so much you can do with a keyboard really and don't forget we live in the same place so are bound to speak in similar way.

duchesse · 12/06/2008 20:13

erm...you really are stretching everyone's credulity. I'm getting quite bored with these fake threads now. They're not even funny.

scatterbrain · 12/06/2008 20:14

How can I be trolling though ? I am a regular - and have been since end of 1999 - surely the most I could be is a namechanger ? Not a troll ?

But I'm not anyway.

duchesse · 12/06/2008 20:14

Sorry- was to the OP- I'm not sure I can be bothered to read the rest of hte thread.

flyingsaucers · 12/06/2008 20:15

I cannot believe the OP is a real person. It's set up to make that person seem unforgivably bad, and very obviously not real. Scatterbrain coming along and being the victim...well, sorry but it's a bit suspicious really.

Chequers · 12/06/2008 20:17

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scatterbrain · 12/06/2008 20:17

Believe what you like - it is as real as real gets. I'm signing off for the night now though.

Yurtgirl · 12/06/2008 20:17

FWIW Lambiepie if you are real I am glad I dont know you

Scatterbrain - Based on almost nothing except my own instinct!, I think you sound truthful. You would I think be well advised to steer well clear of getting involved with this woman online or in real life.

Yurtgirl · 12/06/2008 20:18

FWIW Lambiepie if you are real I am glad I dont know you

Scatterbrain - Based on almost nothing except my own instinct!, I think you sound truthful. You would I think be well advised to steer well clear of getting involved with this woman online or in real life.

Yurtgirl · 12/06/2008 20:18

You see scatter I believe you twice!

Fanella · 12/06/2008 20:19

They also have the comment - space - dash - space - comment thing in common too...

A bit I agree.

Chequers · 12/06/2008 20:21

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flyingsaucers · 12/06/2008 20:22

Yurtgirl my instinct says completely the opposite.

No one would seriously post that they hate someone based ONLY on the fact that they work, she started an email fight which she fell for, 'hook line and sinker' then tried to make other woman choose, and the point of the op is to get ideas for revenge!

No, this is like a made up baddie, this is someone elses take on how bad a this woman is. No one portrays themselves like this.

scatterbrain · 12/06/2008 20:24

Oooh look so does Yurtgirl do the comment - space - dash - comment thing and I bet if I look hard so do loads of others !! It's called spacing it out so it looks nice ! And no - putting a space before an ! isn't actually an error - it is presentational !

Maybe Yurtgirl is also me posting as someone else ? Maybe the whole thread is full of ME posting as other people ? Or maybe I have better things to do ?

I didn't write the OP I'm afraid.

really am off now though, need to eat.

Yurtgirl · 12/06/2008 20:29

Scatterbrain

I am somewhat in two minds - you do punctuate your sentances in a very similar way, but then as you have said so do I!!!

I dont however put a space before a? Never, yet you and lambiepie both do. It all seems incredably childish though. Scatterbrain if you are telling the truth I would stop trying to defend yourself cos it will only draw more peoples attention.

Chequers · 12/06/2008 20:33

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JimParsons · 12/06/2008 20:40

Hmmm.........

hatrick · 12/06/2008 20:45

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howmuchchoccanIeatb4iexplode · 12/06/2008 20:46

Why start this thread Scatterbrain? Is your dd being bullied?

StarlightMcKenzie · 12/06/2008 20:51

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Fanella · 12/06/2008 20:51

I know it's quite common, but it was just the fact that they both do it, as well as the space before exclamation/question mark. The posting styles are very similar IMO.

However, if I'm wrong I do apologise scatterbrain.

wannaBe · 12/06/2008 21:02

it's easy enough to find out whether scatter and the op are the same person. just rport to mnhq and ask them to check the IP address.

I do find it almost unreal that someone could find a thread about themself given how many threads there are on mn every day..

But if op is not scatterbrain, she's clearly a nutter.