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Bullying - my dd being accused of bullying by some women I fell out with !

266 replies

Lambiepie · 12/06/2008 14:23

Not sure where to start with this really !

Up till last year I was very friendly with a couple of other mums at school - anyway I was getting increasingly fed up with one of them as she was never around in the day (she works full time) and rarely did playdates - and fundamentally I disagree with mums working - but anyway - I decided to end the friendship by starting an email argument - which she fell for hook line and sinker - and a few months later she stopped speaking to me which was great.

Later in the year I confronted the other woman who had continued to be friends with the first one and told her she had to choose between us as it was disloyal of her to still see the other one knowing that I hated her ! Unfortunately she wasn't the person I thought she was and refused to make the break - so I ended up not being friends with her either !

Obviously those two have talked about me to loads of people as a lot of people at school are wary of me now and I don't really have many friends - but i think that's their problem really !

Anyhow - now my dd is being accused of bullying their two dds at school ! I have been summoned into the school and told of her alleged misdemeanours and the school have given her an official warning and put her on a report card ! I am furious of course as the two biches have clearly dreamed this up together to get back at me !

I need a plan for revenge !!! What would you do ?

OP posts:
beaniesteve · 12/06/2008 17:18

""You can't come and play at my house anymore because we all hate your mum!", "You can't come to my birthday party as my mum won't have your mum in our house again !". "

gosh

so if all this is true it sounds like the OP (if it is her) is so pissed off with scatterbrain that she is using her child as a go between for some rather nasty behaviour. Poor kid.

I know notning of the rights and worngs of SAHM VS working mums but I would imagine parenting is more about being a decent person and bringing your children up with decent values and role-models RE behaviour. The OP (If this is her) certainly isn't managing to do that!

StarlightMcKenzie · 12/06/2008 17:23

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pointydog · 12/06/2008 17:34

This is such a wind-up op

scatterbrain · 12/06/2008 17:39

Of course I'm not Lambiepie - how suspicious can you be StarlightMcKenzie?

One of my friends was on here earlier and just emailed me and told me to look at this thread though and I am certain that it is her !

Incidentally in case you are saying I am a troll I have been here since the very beginnings of Mumsnet and my registration number is very low indeed !

StarlightMcKenzie · 12/06/2008 17:46

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scatterbrain · 12/06/2008 17:49

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BouncingTurtle · 12/06/2008 17:51

Can't believe this is still going!

Scatterbrain if it is your ex friend, you are well shot of the rancid bitch IMO.

Carmenere · 12/06/2008 18:01

OMG do you actually mean that there is a real living breathing (and worse breeding) person who behaves like this

pagwatch · 12/06/2008 18:07

OMG !!!
Seriously
Seriously?
Lambiepie may actually be a real person ?
And that person may actually behave in such a hideous vile way in real life?
no ! can't be.

please .

Btw have you ever noticed that people who run around boasting that they speak their mind have usually got teeny teeny tiny ones

Cammelia · 12/06/2008 18:17

Like I said earlier I have met school mothers like Lambiepie

wheresthehamster · 12/06/2008 18:23

scatterbrain and lambiepie both do that space exclamation mark thing

pagwatch · 12/06/2008 18:25

ahhh - is it professor plum in the library?

NigellaTheUndomesticGoddess · 12/06/2008 18:28

gd i miss everything.

madamez · 12/06/2008 18:30

Lambiepie: if you are real, have you always been like this? If so, how many jobs have you been let go from because other people ganged up on couldn't work with you? I would imagine quite a few.
If you are real and not a troll then frankly you are a borderline sociopath and could probably do with some fairly heavy-duty therapy. Better you have it now than your poor child has to have it for the rest of her adult life if you bring her up to be as psychotic as you seem to be.

CoteDAzur · 12/06/2008 18:36

It's scary that OP is old enough to marry.

LyraSilvertongue · 12/06/2008 19:11

I knew all this sounded familiar, the whole mums falling out thing. Scatterbrain posted about it a while back.

warthog · 12/06/2008 19:22

it's scary that the op has reproduced.

scatterbrain · 12/06/2008 19:22

Probably along with a million other posters wheresmyhamster !

lljkk · 12/06/2008 19:26

Thread Marks out of ten for a really good windup:
OP: 9
Followup by OP: 3 -- very poorly executed, altho some of the protests of innocence were brill, and accusations of 7yo girls being "wet" is quite breathtaking creative.
Success: 8. Thread is >160 posts, well done there.

Report Card Summary: 6.5/10. Still, Could do better Lambie, Followup could have been better, lacked coherence & planning.

TinySocks · 12/06/2008 19:53

I am so excited, it is the first time I've spotted a troll right from OP!

scatterbrain · 12/06/2008 19:55

What are you talking about - she's not a troll - she is a real life person and she was talking about me.

A troll is a fake person - like a teenager pretending to be a mum - or a hairy knuckled trucker ! She is unfortunately very real

Abitembarassed · 12/06/2008 19:58

Scatterbrain, people in RL and MN don't do this ! They do this!

It's a bit of a sad thing to set up isn't it, did you decide to cook this up earlier in the week? Where's this thread from last year you were talking about then, if this is real?

scatterbrain · 12/06/2008 19:59

What ? I don't understand your post ?

Abitembarassed · 12/06/2008 20:01

"Does anyone remember that I had huge problems with a woman at my dd's school last year - well THIS is her - It's got to be"

Nope, don't remember your problems last year. Link to thread please.

misdee · 12/06/2008 20:04

abitemabressed, the thread you linked to was last year