DH wants 2.8 DC to have a bedtime routine

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I still breastfeed.
We co-sleep.
He no longer naps in the day.

DS feeds to sleep still. My husband as decided we need a routine. Some nights DS will have fallen asleep in the car on the way home from nursery, other nights he will fall asleep while feeing around seven to eight pm. Other nights he will be up gone nine pm.

I think my husband means we should do rapid return or something. There's no chance of DS Avignon his own room at the moment.

Occasionally I do get frustrated by the very late nights but mostly we go with the flow.

What would you do? How woud you achieve 'a routine'?

it varies. Sometimes he sleeps in nursery though more often than not he doesn't. He is either shattered or not, there's never really any in-between and he can go out like a light in the car even with music and talking.

On Wednesdays he's at my mum's house and it takes me longer to get to him so he almost always falls asleep on the way back and so we just transfer him to bed (usually around half seven).

He's back to constantly wanting the breast in the early hours of the morning now so I am more tired than usual.