Isn't if funny the different connotations names have to different people? Bay is a herb/shrub/plant just like Hebe, Rosemary, Saffron, Daphne, Lily, Iris, or any number of names which are otherwise perfectly acceptable. Yet Bay reminds people of horses and bay windows?! Since when did anyone say the name Rose made them think of watering cans, shower heads, and ceiling plaster mouldings?!
I think the rule when asking for opinions should be that everyone has to say their own DC's names when offering an opinion on your choices. In order to make a reasoned judgment on whether your choice is a bit too left-field for your its own good, you need to know whether you are asking loony eecentrics, trail-blazing trend-setters, boring tradionalists, or fashion-followers and band-wagon jumpers who need to hear something a hundred times before it becomes acceptable. Asking yourself how you feel about their child's name will help you know where you are!