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Is the name Tatum feminine, masculine, or unisex?

77 replies

WontStopCantStop · 06/08/2026 12:03

If you heard the name Tatum, would you assume the person called that was female, male, or could go either way?

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UrOutdoors · 07/08/2026 21:14

Unisex

DeeNiall · 07/08/2026 21:46

As I said, I was going by your tone.

backformoreofthesame · 07/08/2026 21:48

Tatum O’Neil

DaysIllRememberAllMyLife · 07/08/2026 21:52

BlackberrySquash · 07/08/2026 21:07

Does not having an interest in tennis and never having heard of an actress I assume was popular when I was very young mean I don't have an interest in anything?! Crikey 😁I have many interests! I apologise to have not heard of this one woman that about 15 people on here have heard of. Can you list every single actress from every single decade that has won an award? 😉 Do you have any interests outside of tennis and oscar winning actresses of the 80's (70's? Or was it 90's)?

Have you never heard her name? I wouldn't recognise her but I'd know the name.

Supersleepysheepy · 07/08/2026 22:03

DaysIllRememberAllMyLife · 07/08/2026 21:52

Have you never heard her name? I wouldn't recognise her but I'd know the name.

I've not heard, or not remembered, hearing the name either. I'd think it was more male, but would see it as a surname in the first instance.

Also reminds me of potatoes for some reason.

Aquamarineteal · 07/08/2026 22:05

I'd assume female because of Tatum O'Neal. I've never met a Tatum, so the actress is my only reference point.

ThatIsABigSon · 07/08/2026 22:06

Male because of Khloè Kardashian. It also reminds me of a totem poll. Or taint....

ShetlandishMum · 07/08/2026 22:08

Unisex but it's pretty.

Denim4ever · 07/08/2026 22:28

Female because of Tatum O''Neil but quite unusual. As regards Khloe Kardashian, that family has form for messing about with names and putting their own twist on things.

Re Channing Tatum - isn't that the weirdest male first name you ever did hear? Channing screams female to me

Italiangreyhound · 07/08/2026 22:41

Only know one person, Tatum O'Neal. Female.

OneMoreBanana · 07/08/2026 22:42

I'd assume they were an iconic American jazz pianist.

Tryagain26 · 07/08/2026 22:44

Female because the only person I have heard of with that name, Tatum O Neil, is female

Copperoliverbear · 07/08/2026 22:54

Feminine

TisEye · 07/08/2026 22:58

Neutral.

With potato connotations.

Error404FucksNotFound · 07/08/2026 22:59

Female, as pp, Tatum O'Neil

Calliopespa · 07/08/2026 23:42

ShetlandishMum · 07/08/2026 22:08

Unisex but it's pretty.

Now that I am thinking on it, it is quite pretty.

But still quite potatoey ...

Calliopespa · 07/08/2026 23:43

Supersleepysheepy · 07/08/2026 22:03

I've not heard, or not remembered, hearing the name either. I'd think it was more male, but would see it as a surname in the first instance.

Also reminds me of potatoes for some reason.

Edited

It's because of the "tate" bit.

Jk987 · 07/08/2026 23:44

It’s a harsh sounding name.

purpleme12 · 08/08/2026 00:30

I think it could be either. Never heard of it as a first name before. It's a bit weird

cariadlet · 08/08/2026 00:43

Like most pp, female because of Tatum O'Neal (she was amazing in Paper Moon when she was only 8).

I've never met anyone called Tatum in real life and haven't come across any other famous ones. It's always sounded a bit daft to me - not a real name and not something I'd inflict on a baby.

BlackberrySquash · 08/08/2026 06:57

DaysIllRememberAllMyLife · 07/08/2026 21:52

Have you never heard her name? I wouldn't recognise her but I'd know the name.

Nope. Never ever heard of her, hasn't even started ringing bells once people started saying it. The only 'Tatum' I have ever heard is the surname of Channing. Sorry!

Gofaster2023 · 08/08/2026 07:17

Another one who hasn't heard of the actress! I feel like it would be a wee boy if I saw the name on my register in school, but then I also think it would be a great name for a tortoise shell female cat. So I guess I'm voting unisex. (Mind you, I also know a female cat called Mr Darcy)

Italiangreyhound · Yesterday 08:12

I think it's pretty.

I also like Tace and Tacita.

Italiangreyhound · Yesterday 08:14

"The girls' name Tace (pronounced TAYS) comes from the Latin word tacere, which means "to be silent" or "to be quiet". It literally translates to "silence" or "the quiet one," and was historically used as a virtue name emphasizing discretion and calm."

I think it was popular with Quakers. Nowadays not so PC!

Italiangreyhound · Yesterday 08:17

"Tacita is a rare girl’s name of Latin origin meaning "silent" or "quiet". It is the feminine form of the ancient Roman name Tacitus. In Roman mythology, Dea Tacita was the silent goddess of the dead and the underworld."

Again not sure how it fits with modern world!