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Dakota - girl or boy?

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Ellein · 21/04/2026 16:01

Is Dakota meant to be for a girl or a boy? If you were told that someone you know had just named their baby Dakota, what gender would you automatically assume the baby is?

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AnotherName2025 · 21/04/2026 16:02

To me it's a girls name, I know the cutest one ever.

but someone else had it on their boys list the other day, so I suppose it's going to be a split.

Beamur · 21/04/2026 16:04

I'd think girl. Dakota Fanning, Dakota Johnson...

Bloodorangekangaroo · 21/04/2026 16:07

I would assume boy but it could pass for a girls name I suppose. I wouldn’t want to give a child a name that will leave them correcting their gender. My friends daughter is called Cameron. She is forever assumed a boy and mum can’t see why. She’s an adorable little girl that suits her name though.

youalright · 21/04/2026 16:07

Girl

KnickerlessParsons · 21/04/2026 16:07

I immediately think American state. I don't like it as a name for a person.

TallulahBetty · 21/04/2026 16:08

A girl (dog)

Ellein · 21/04/2026 16:08

AnotherName2025 · 21/04/2026 16:02

To me it's a girls name, I know the cutest one ever.

but someone else had it on their boys list the other day, so I suppose it's going to be a split.

Good friends of ours just named their baby Dakota. I (foolishly) assumed that the baby was a girl when I heard the name, but he's actually a boy.

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ForeverWithYou · 21/04/2026 16:15

A colleague of mine has a son called Dakota who is about 30. Apparently when he started school, he was one of 3 Dakota’s in his class, 2 being boys and one being a girl. My colleague is American so I’m guessing it was a reasonably popular unisex name there 30 ish years ago.

WhimsyWhim · 21/04/2026 16:23

It's unisex in reality. It sounds better on a boy, though. It just looks and sounds masculine to me (even with the "a" ending).

JJB3 · 21/04/2026 16:32

Boy

ToKittyornottoKitty · 21/04/2026 16:35

Girls name

TomatoSandwiches · 21/04/2026 16:36

I've only heard it as a girls name.

measuringtaep · 21/04/2026 16:40

Place.

KandyKayne · 21/04/2026 16:57

I would assume boy but am not keen on it for either gender. It doesn't feel adequate or substantial enough to be a name for a person.

RegalDiamondMonster · 21/04/2026 16:59

The only Dakota I've met (at a playgroup, in the UK) is a boy.

RandomUsernameHere · 21/04/2026 17:02

Girl

HotChocolateBubbleBath · 21/04/2026 17:05

I wouldn't think 'Boy or Girl?', I'd think 'North or South?'

In reality, I know one, a 30 year old man.

WhereWithWho · 21/04/2026 17:11

Boy

user2848502016 · 21/04/2026 17:12

I would assume girl

BeLemonSloth · 21/04/2026 17:23

Boy

CheddarCheeseAndCrispSandwich · 21/04/2026 17:51

I’d think girl…but to my ears, names ending in an ‘a’ sound feel more feminine so perhaps this is why. Cute name 🥰

Lovingapeacefulgarden · 21/04/2026 17:52

I would assume its a girls name. I really like it for a girl

LemonadeQueen · 21/04/2026 17:53

Girl

hattie43 · 21/04/2026 18:02

I would think girl

CurlewKate · 21/04/2026 18:03

Neither. It’s a State.

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