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Do you prefer my or husband's favourite name ?

328 replies

Unanaganaive · 10/12/2020 16:28

DH asked me to post this thread lol , because we cannot decide and he is so sure his favs are just of better taste. We don't know the sex yet. He likes the names I like , and I like his. But "my" names just seem more beautiful. PLEASE DECIDE FOR US :

Levi or Daniel
Harper or Mary

Thank youuuu

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wheresmymargharita · 10/12/2020 19:59

None of the new boys names are nicer than Daniel imo. Girls I adore Hannah and Leah - even nicer than Mary (which would have otherwise been my pick from the two options).

lottiegarbanzo · 10/12/2020 20:02

Wow, what an eclectic selection!

Here they are in my preference order:

Levi - cool, biblical and, since you love it, top!

Daniel - nice, classic, Dan's a great nn, inoffensive.

Austin - cool, unusual in a good way (like Levi)

Tristan - nice, bit posher and more twee than the others

Matthew - boring but nice enough

Manny - gosh, quite different. Good nn if he suits it but I'd want a 'proper' name, like Malachi (you seem to like biblical. I secretly love this name)

Zoe - such a lovely name

Hannah - lovely, bit too popular among the 30s-40s (parents of young DC) at the moment, so feels over-used.

Mary - nice, simple, classic. Maybe 'so ordinary (but actually barely used) its cool', like John is now.

Leah - ok, goes with your old testament theme. I always think leer, which isn't so nice.

Harper - celeb fashion name

Cadence - are you joking?

Superstardjs · 10/12/2020 20:05

I prefer Matthew over Daniel. I don't like any of the new girl names.

midsummabreak · 10/12/2020 20:05

Levi and Harper are beautiful

Noflora · 10/12/2020 20:06

Of all your names I like Matthew then Daniel,
Hannah then Mary.

FrazzledFTM · 10/12/2020 20:08

Daniel and Harper for me

rwalker · 10/12/2020 20:09

Don't hear as many Levi and Harper now Jeremy Kyle off air.

RuthW · 10/12/2020 20:13

Daniel and Mary.

At a push, Levi.

Harper is awful.

MatildaMainly · 10/12/2020 20:17

Matthew from all the boys' names and Hannah or Zoe from all the girls'.

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Livpool · 10/12/2020 20:21

Daniel and Harper

Alethiometrical · 10/12/2020 20:22

Daniel and Mary.

clpsmum · 10/12/2020 20:23

Levi and Harper for me

One of my DC WAS LEVI FOR THE FIRAT THREE HOURS OF HIS LIFE!

Chickenwing · 10/12/2020 20:24

I only like Daniel.

LadySlipper · 10/12/2020 20:26

Daniel and Mary

Thismustbelove · 10/12/2020 20:26

You have very different styles OP. From the first selection, Daniel and Mary for sure.

From your second selection I like Tristan and Matthew and Zoe.

Leah is ok too. I don’t like the others and I really dislike Levi and Cadence.

Chickenwing · 10/12/2020 20:28

Matthew or Austin.

And Hannah

Alethiometrical · 10/12/2020 20:29

I'm not keen on any of your boy's names, tbh.
Tristan sounds like someone's trying too hard. Do you like Wagner?

Matthew classic, easy to shorten for a child, longer version is OK-ish for an adult.
Austin that's a car, isn't it?
Manny Whaaaa? you can't be serious

Zoe OK-ish
Hannah classic, works in may languages, no annoying shortenings
Leah Hmmm, I think you'll have a lot of people pronouncing it as "Lee" when it should be "Lee-ah"
Cadence Whaaaa? you're considering naming a child after a way of describing the rhythm and flow of a line of poetry and/or a person's (or a horse's) stride?

Gotothewinchester · 10/12/2020 20:29

Levi and Harper for me, although neither are my favourite tbh!

Daniel is very plain and I'm sorry to say Mary is probably one of my least favourite names of all time I just think it's awful.

pursuedbyablackdog · 10/12/2020 20:29

Levi is an anagram of evil.
Harper reminds me of 'harpy' a name often synonymous with a prostitute in the 18th century.

Winifredgoose · 10/12/2020 20:29

Daniel and Mary by a long way.

fantasmasgoria1 · 10/12/2020 20:31

Levi and harper.

janetmendoza · 10/12/2020 20:32

Daniel and Mary

Porridgeoat · 10/12/2020 20:33

Tristan yep like this a lot. Great name. Shortens nicely. Tris
Matthew retro but a good name. Top choice
Austin nice
Manny no thanks although Emmanuel is really nice

Zoe nice
Hannah retro & classic, really lovely name. Top choice
Leah the naughty girl at school
Cadence bit too American sounding.

FourPlatinumRings · 10/12/2020 20:34

Tristan- OK but may be considered a bit try-hard/pretentious
Matthew- Really like it
Austin- Actually do quite like this.
Manny- Hideous! Means male nanny (or bossy, in my corner of England).

Zoe- Not a huge fan, but a nice meaning and unobjectionable
Hannah- OK. Reads the same both ways, which is something.
Leah- Quite like it. Would you be pronouncing it Lee-ah or Lee?
Cadence- I really like this. Cadie for short.